http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=190131533&postcount=5734 said:
Gardevoir is very popular, but not in the same way Pikachu and Charizard are. While Game Freak embraces their popularity, and they appear quite frequently on box covers and merchandise, Gardevoir is popular in a different way, that dark, dirty secret Game Freak once tried to bury until around Generation VI when they finally embraced it, having it gain prominence in XY and ORAS and serve as a playable fighter in Pokken Tournament. Basically, a ton of folks want to have sex with Gardevoir. There's no other way to put it. I honestly don't blame Game Freak, I don't think Gardevoir was purposefully sexualized or they intended that to happen, but unfortunately it did. Googling Gardevoir is a minefield of every fetish on earth, basically, and some not from this planet---well, I won't take time to name them here. I remember when Gardevoir was just that cool Pokemon Wally popped up with at the end of Ruby and Sapphire and you thought, "hey that Ralts turned into a pretty cool Pokemon!". What went wrong? Who's to blame here? Is it harmless fun---is anyone really hurt by weird Internet folks wanting to make love to a Pokemon---or is it a dangerous obsession that is rooted in sexism and misogyny, and possibly ruins the family-friendly image of the series? Well, you could probably write an essay on Gardevoir and what it represents in a larger sense, but for now let's just forget all the weirdness and focus on the actual Pokemon without all the bizarreness.
Though Gardevoir has a very feminine appearance, it's actually 50%/50% in terms of gender ratio and I remember this weirded out a lot of folks and pissed them off too. It's kind of weird if you think about it, we have plenty of other Pokemon for example who have a "masculine appearance", but are 50% female, but nobody really says anything yet when it happens to the feminine Pokemon, people raise a fuss over it? Perhaps this relates to how in real-life, people seem more comfortable with women who eschew traditional gender roles than men who do the same? Either way, a lot of people have called for Gardevoir to be turned into an all-female Pokemon over the years but Game Freak doesn't seem ready to budge, though they sort of met them halfway in the middle as we'll see with our next Pokemon. There's another layer to the confusion when it comes to Gardevoir's Japanese name as it's known as "Sirnight" originally, which sounds quite masculine, though it can be interpreted as "saa, naito" (come, knight!) as well perhaps meant to represent Gardevoir as some sort of princess figure calling out for a knight.
Gardevoir's design seems to have possibly been inspired by the "anesama ningyou" (big sister doll) from feudal Japan, paper-craft dolls that elder sisters would craft for their siblings that were basically faceless, legless women dressed in beautiful kimonos---like said dolls, Gardevoir has a similar doll-like appearance with minimal facial features and seemingly invisible legs. Turns out that Gardevoir does indeed have legs, as can be seen in the show and the 3D games, which I actually don't like. It looks far cooler when it just looks like a floating ghost, and I find the legs to be pretty goofy and ridiculously skinny. So, yeah, if you didn't think Gardevoir was creepy before now you know it's basically a "real doll". Gardevoir also has somewhat of a submissive personality, which I bet 99% is the reason it's so popular as it's known to basically risk its life in order to protect its Trainer at all costs. I mean, Gardevoir is powerful and all, but I do get a sense it's one of those Pokemon who gives off a sense of wish fulfillment. I mean, any Pokemon would be cool to have, but most of the other ones have little quirks that indicate they're still basically wild creatures and not completely domesticated---then you have Gardevoir who will basically do anything you ask of it. Anything. Gee, why do so many folks have a crush on this Pokemon I wonder?