And this is why people say "check your privilege".
Because, due to privilege, many people don't realize that they are in a position of privilege. Sadly, due to how upsetting being told of the concept of privilege, and how common the phrase "check your privilege" has become on various websites, "check your privilege" and the concept of privilege, has become somewhat of a "joke", among many sites which are predominantly white, cisgender, heterosexual, and male.
It seems very common in this circles to make fun of, and deride anyone who uses the word "privilege" as a "social justice warrior". :/
In most Western nations, predominantly white ones, people of colour suffer systematic racism. Which is very different from the racism that black people, for instance, sometimes express against white people. People also get caught up in terms like "reverse racism" or mean that an oppressed class cannot be racist or sexist or so forth against a privileged class. I don't think that's true. Racism and sexism mean more than one thing. Though it's true that racism against white people, such as in a country like America, isn't systematically harmful to them. Something that many white Americans don't recognize when they label people of colour as "racist".
It's definitely true that there is racial strife that is harmful in a different way. For instance, people being expected to
reflect expectations of a group. People are even misusing terms like "cultural appropriation", in order to separate and essentialize people. People saying things like that people are "acting like x group" and to "stop".
I think that hostility to white people in America. Or white people in Western countries where white people are privileged. Or hostility to Asian people in Asia, where they are privileged. Or black people in Africa, is helpful. It is racist, even though it isn't systematic. And there is a lot of racial strife in multiracial societies. And it's very harmful and hurtful to many people. The lack of racial harmony in this world is painful.
The same applies to Asia. In many East Asian countries, many white people are equally as bitter as many people of colour in America. When trying to read of communities about Asian cultures like South Korea, Japan, China, and so forth, I'm faced with, often, bitter white people, becoming hateful towards Asians and the countries they've living in, because of the systematic racism they are also facing because they are white. And I don't think they're helping anything, either.
I'm honestly so tired of the fact that viciousness is still so common.
I can understand why people who are discriminated against are becoming very upset, sometimes bitter. But bitterness doesn't solve anything. Neither does becoming defensive about being a privileged class and bitter towards those who are suffering actual oppression. I think that the state of oppression is very sad. And so, also, is the strife between many "races", nationalities, ethnicities, and so forth.