Well, since you've forcibly dragged IRC business into the open, I'll respond if it'll put your mind at ease.
"1 month ban" is a joke. That's it. We frequently joke about bans over frivolous things with each other, and this was one such instance. Members in no way have any influence over mod policy behind the scenes, nor do they even want to. I made the joke because, yes, I'm annoyed by your fondness for the phrase "kyoanus", but no one is seeking to actively censor you.
If you insist on freely using the word, I'd simply advise you not to be surprised if you're ever not taken seriously because, for all the horsing around that we do in this thread, we're still committed to a certain level of discussion that precludes name-calling as a substitute for actual nuanced opinion. That's the long and the short of it, and this issue is behind me if it's behind you.