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The Black Culture Thread |OT12| Days of Future Bans
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Bruh, when did this happen?
This is like a 90s black kid crossover dream come true.
LOL. nah, i think they should kept Maul around till EP3
I always thought that was a cool nod to ulysses 31.Jedi are stupid arrogant. Other force sensitives don't limit themselves
Ezra put a glock in his lightsbaer
FUCKING LMAO
yyyyyyeup. my grandma was warning me. said all the hidden racism, Obama was going to bring it all out. Boy was she right. I mean god bless was she right.
I had such a crush on the Mowry twins. I hate a part of myself for that.
MHWilliams
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Son, I will fight you. Throwing lies and slander around here.
A lightsaber is an elegant, beautiful weapon that logically makes little sense to wield.
HAHA. Yep. i'll be 35 in a couple of months.
go ahead and change to an anime avatar and join your people. Collect your vita on the way out
We al most the same age
MHWilliams
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I'd argue with the latter, but I'm reviewing a Vita game right now.
Holy shit.
I thought you were 20 lol.
This and that shrinking dick thread.
Is Gaf the place to do these sort of things with their private lives? Wow.
Noooooo lmao
soundahfekz
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lmao!
Damn dude channeled JC in his prime
Face it Tiger..
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JC had a prime?
MHWilliams
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This is what I'm talking about. Why would you bring that to GAF?
Thinking about going to a psychologist. Need to get myself sorted out. I can't keep going like this hopefully my insurance will cover it.
Life fell apart I'm more worried about other people than I am myself I don't know how I am and can't figure out where I went wrong. I have always be hella fucking happy and calm chill. And I have got to to point I hate being around myself.
Been listing to real by Kendrick and that's how I feel. And I'm fucking numb to everything.
Need an escape from me it feels.
Life fell apart I'm more worried about other people than I am myself I don't know how I am and can't figure out where I went wrong. I have always be hella fucking happy and calm chill. And I have got to to point I hate being around myself.
Been listing to real by Kendrick and that's how I feel. And I'm fucking numb to everything.
Need an escape from me it feels.
Goddamn
Best of luck breh. Psychs get a lot of flack, but I know a lot of folks who've been helped by em.
Hiding stuff from IRL people but not afraid to post it online infront of thousands that'll remember you forever as ''that guy''. Being on the net is too freeing. No subject is out of bounds.
Hope you come out of this feeling better.
User 73706
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Your username reminds me of how I felt when I purchased my college textbooks for this upcoming semester.
MHWilliams
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Nothing wrong with professional help. Go for it.
I really hope it works, and things get better for you Nakazato. <3
Everything till after highschool is free(here) then you see how expensive shit is.
Books are good but sometimes i wish they would just go online for everything if possible.
Also if my username ain't reminding you of Linkin Park then i failed.
Face it Tiger..
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are you a divine creation by JC?
Everything till after highschool is free(here) then you see how expensive shit is.
Books are good but sometimes i wish they would just go online for everything if possible.
Also if my username ain't reminding you of Linkin Park then i failed.
Linkin Park? Pffffffffffffffffffffffffffffttttttt
Prototype Viktor
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it's ok for him/her to say that b/c he didn't use the N word
naggers
still cold, i saw that thread and just nope'd the fuk out
Anyone dealt with unrequired love before? I don't want to say much because the guy i like is on gaf. Today while packing i am thinking about him and when i do i find i hate myself even more. i see myself looking at my faults, weight, height, even skin color. Part of me is sick of feeling like everything is one-sided, I'm always the one who is into a guy but never have i met a guy who was into me. im just ranting because i just needed to type this out.
Crimson_Gold
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I know the feeling. Love unrequited can truly affect your view of yourself. You see that individual's inability to love you as you being unlovable. You blame yourself for everything and go on a downward spiral into depression. I would love to tell you that it gets easier with time, but it doesn't. You recover through effort and restored focus. You have to find the good in you and learn to enjoy that for yourself. Others can never validate you. Not even the person that seems to possess your soul.
TheBlackMarvel
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TheBlackMarvel
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None of these things are faults.
I bet most of the people on gaf have had experience with unrequited love. It seems part of having your love license. You have to crash a few times, and have feelings for someone who either doesn't care, isn't aware, or doesn't want those feelings for whatever reason. It's just part of being in a situation with another completely random person, full of their own secrets and desires and limitations.
I agree. You have to love yourself, be you, be excellent, until the point you glow. Focus on yourself and your goals and having fun, and people will notice that glow while you're navigating your world, living your life, attracting all the right energy and things by being true and doing you...then YOU get to decide who you take a chance on and try to court. It can be a beautiful thing, but you have to live your beautiful life and find your beautiful world. We deserve nothing less. I'm speaking to you as someone who has been there, has wandered out into the wilderness in pain and confusion, and who knows.
I agree. You have to love yourself, be you, be excellent, until the point you glow. Focus on yourself and your goals and having fun, and people will notice that glow while you're navigating your world, living your life, attracting all the right energy and things by being true and doing you...then YOU get to decide who you take a chance on and try to court. It can be a beautiful thing, but you have to live your beautiful life and find your beautiful world. We deserve nothing less. I'm speaking to you as someone who has been there, has wandered out into the wilderness in pain and confusion, and who knows.
I expect most, if not all people in life experience a form of unrequited romance.
A key factor to keep in remembrance is that the lack of love betwixt the two of you does not in any manner reflect badly upon yourself. It can be quite easy to begin contemplating "Well perhaps if I possessed X, or obtained Y, then he would adore me!". In reality, the person simply may not recognize a potential for a relationship with you at the time given a variety of reasons entirely outside of your control.
If you believe that everything is one-sided, perhaps you ought to try seeking a partner in a different location. Not necessarily outside of your region, but perhaps outside of your usual social parameters. I found that to be of help when I too was in a similar situation.
Most importantly, however, is to remain confident in yourself. Self-reliance is the best policy!
I believe in you!
andthebeatgoeson
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I accept it and move on, it's a leitmotif in my life by this time so I am used to it.
Dwelling on it does nothing and it took a while to realize it wasn't me as a person but that everyone I did like at one point was just really fucked up.
Trust me I look very awful. Short and overweight. I don't have any
Given that I suppose I have no chance at all at meeting anyone
i am floored.
I expected it to be a gag, but no, the turned that on its head.
Crimson_Gold
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We need gifs
you posted your pic. You don't look bad at all. I'm speaking as a heterosexual guy who has something of a cultured eye. If you're into bois or twinks or white preppies, you might have a battle. Especially if they're alpha dogs or frat types with all those identity and image complications and confusions. But I'm sure there are juniors in need of a senior, someone looking for something different, someone mature with some direction who knows what life is about. Someone looking for someone nice even, but you have to put yourself out there. I mean I'm literally just shooting my observations out of a blunderbuss here, but there are so many roles in the world, and if you're not willing to play one, or search for something. If you're just waiting for dew covered cherries to fall into your mouth, then yes, you are probably right about not meeting anyone.
You are right I'll never meet anyone. What's sad is that I wrote two poems and a letter to him in my journal and a suicide confession that I have saved as a a word document on my phone so I can easily copy and paste and email it to him when I die. But I know he won't care he'll have a wife and kid and I won't even be a memory.
ViewtifulJC
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for real tho stop it fam
You are actualizing this through the context you already set up for yourself, he didn't really say you wouldn't meet anyone.
jubei, we are always concerned for you. And I'm sure there's many you know out there who are thinking about you too. So do not consider using that confession. You gotta get help man.
Please don't do anything you can't take back. I beg you call someone that can help you.
I dealt with unrequited love once and that was in middle school. The fact that the girl knew I wanted to be with her, but rather use me for everything including money made me realize that you got to know your full worth. No woman or man is worth the tears and humiliation. Hell I thought I would never find the "one" until I finally talked to my long time friend and we ended up getting married. 6 years and counting. You can't keep letting your self doubt and pity become a security blanket on your existence.
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