ThoughtsOfSpeaking
Banned
Yeah, I'm sure that was like in 2006.
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The Black Culture Thread |OT2|
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My girlfriend? Naw.
I thought I would've been cool before but uh uh. I'll never forget the time NY gf referred to herself as my "niggress".
.....lol.
PartTimeWarrior
Banned
The word doesn't bother me much unless it's used offensively
Are you lttp? Or we talking new pics? She posed for playboy. Dem hershey kiss nipples.
MWS Natural
Member
Why is it so hard for people link? You know GAF moves fast, that shit is already off the 1st page.
ThoughtsOfSpeaking
Banned
Come on man...we have a sub community about grown ass men who love cartoon ponies...it isn't that far fetched.
Call me irrational, but I always think that once shit hits the fan in any interracial relationship, your blackness is gonna get thrown at you as an insult. Hell, it's happened to me enough times with mixed race women.
I would of deaded that the first time I heard it come out her mouth, much less directed at me.
MWS Natural
Member
I've been dating with women of various races for 15 years in the north and south and I've never experienced this.
Zeus Molecules
illegal immigrants are stealing our air
Basically. Most women know I ain't the one for those types of games or insults.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
If you're having a disagreement with your gf/bf and they take shots at your race....that's pretty fucking low.
ViewtifulJC
Banned
Yeah, that sounds like some shit you'd hear about before you started dating. I couldn't imagine that shit coming out the mouth of any girls I know. But hell, i guess you never know until it happens.
-In a relationship- I've never had it slung towards me as an insult.
I've had plenty of women think they were cooler than they actually were by throwing out misinterpreted slang and just being insensitive to shit in incredibly ignorant (and ironic) ways.
spindashing
Banned
Pretty much the same here. I don't associate with these women anymore.
Zeus Molecules
illegal immigrants are stealing our air
the worse thing a white girl i was fucking with did (keep in mind it was a fwb relationship) was go out of her way to not introduce me to her father. Like walk by me and my friends and just ignore us as she went towards the entrance to the dorm. Now she told me her father was an abusive jerk and what not but I would of been cool with a "hey dad meet my friend". I ended the whole thing not long after for some BS but in hindsight I think that was the motive.
Also on a side note that was a pothead girl.
Also on a side note that was a pothead girl.
No one I hang with (black, or otherwise) uses that word outside of repeating song lyrics or black comedy lines/jokes (and that is only the "ending in -ga" version). Hell I have never had that word directed at me in real life outside of an Xbox Live game session. So I definitely wouldn't let that slide from my SO regardless of skin tone.
MWS Natural
Member
You were fuck buddies, there was no reason to meet her parents. I spent all of HS jumping out of windows AVOIDING parents.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
I met my long time girlfriend's father while I was nekkid in her bed.
Bad times.
Bad times.
PartTimeWarrior
Banned
He was chosen to host Japan's Flavor of Love spinoff
Zeus Molecules
illegal immigrants are stealing our air
well yeah your right but it was how she walked by us (it was a group of us) and didn't even attempt to acknowledge any of us that was messed up in my mind. It was like she was ashamed to have minority friends then add to that we were fucking and it just irked me. At that point she and her friends hung out with my friends and I daily. Anyhow, I've never had a friend (fwb or not) who I would be ashamed to introduce to my parents.
Bay Maximus
Banned
If someone I was dating called me a nigger, I'd slap her so hard it would look like the Tasmanian Devil was leaving my house.
Ok, I wouldn't but I can't even fathom such a scenario. Shit would be unbelievable.
Also, I'm considering de-friending one of my sisters on Facebook because of her pictures (with of course 30+ thirsty ass comments following). Shit's not right man.
Ok, I wouldn't but I can't even fathom such a scenario. Shit would be unbelievable.
Also, I'm considering de-friending one of my sisters on Facebook because of her pictures (with of course 30+ thirsty ass comments following). Shit's not right man.
Vermillion
Banned
What about during sex?
Thirsty dudes are one of the few types of people that will send me from 0 to pissed everytime.
Bay Maximus
Banned
While watching T.V., during sex, while hang-gliding. That's a Kill Bill move regardless of context.
lolol. I might have to bring this avi back. He motivates my inner troll.
GhettoGamer
Member
You guys read up on that ether Brandon Marshall just gave Warren Sapp? Shit was soul shattering, Im talking looking in the mirror contemplating suicide ether.
You were in fine form under that avi.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
link!
I find the thirsty dudes online to be just funny. It's the ones in real life that get me.
Then, I used to be a pretty thirsty fellow myself before I attained some self-respect, so I can see where they're coming from.
GhettoGamer
Member
That's really disappointing to hear that from an NFL legend, but I'm going to take this as a lesson, and I think we can all learn from this: Be very careful who you take advice from," Marshall said. "You want to surround yourself with good people, Godly people. When I look at Warren Sapp, I can't go to him and talk about finances because he filed for bankruptcy. I can't go to him and talk about my marriage because he filed for divorce. I can't go to him and talk to about being a great father when one day I have children because he's not active in his children's life. So the lesson we should all learn here is surround yourself with good people and be careful who you take counsel from. I'm not saying he's been there on my side giving me counsel, but that's not a guy that I can go to.
"You know, football doesn't make us. There's more to life than just playing football, so make sure you have a great balance in your life and surround yourself with good people. And guys like Warren Sapp, you know, I feel sorry for. Hopefully one day he'll change his life, we'll pray for him and instead of using words to destroy, he'll use words to uplift. So God bless you guys and have a great day."
MorisUkunRasik
Member
How the hell did he slice and dice him like that and still walk away looking like the bigger man? Damn.
Yo damn.
MorisUkunRasik
Member
That was just a polite way of saying; "You wack, you're twisted, your girl's a ho".
Professor Beef
Banned
Fucking hell, I just....wow.
Holy shit!!
GhettoGamer
Member
I love the "we will pray for him" line at the end. Cherry on top of an ether sundae
Cause the truth hurts 150,000x more then just a generic diss.
it'd be ether coming from the mouth of someone whose past wasnt checkered w/ domestic violence and assault charges.
aint neither one of em about shit.
ViewtifulJC
Banned
Devolution
Member
Being eloquent and spouting the truth cuts like a razor blade while a general diss is just a light tap.
double jump
you haven't lived until a random little kid ask you "how do you make love".
It's sometimes hard to keep my proud ignorance at bay and not add anything negative to a thread.
pray for me blackgaf.
pray for me blackgaf.
The Faceless Master
Member
what i do is hit reply... type out my response, click preview post, read it over, then close the tab.
soundscream
Member
It can be hard reading through a thread and realizing that if you let your opinion be known you would be banned with the quickness.
double jump
you haven't lived until a random little kid ask you "how do you make love".
exactly
soundscream
Member
We might have been reading the same thread.