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DY_nasty said:
Naw, she keeps paying every time I ask her to go out or to bring me back something for lunch. All I wanted to do was hit and have someone to keep me warm this winter, but she's actually cool as shit - I just... I've never dealt with a pregnant woman. I have no idea what to expect or watch out for.
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I have nothing to say in this regard, but I'm sure this will be an interesting experience
 
DY_nasty said:
Naw, she keeps paying every time I ask her to go out or to bring me back something for lunch. All I wanted to do was hit and have someone to keep me warm this winter, but she's actually cool as shit - I just... I've never dealt with a pregnant woman. I have no idea what to expect or watch out for.
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tread carefully man. I did it once and people still ask me about my kid when it wasn't my kid. Its hard to explain to friends & acquaintances that you was bagging a woman with somebodies else child in her. Even if your not a simp they will at the minimum look at you funny.

Also depending on the woman she might throw up a lot... and stay up and talk all night cause her ass can't go to sleep... shit that will make you (or me anyway) break up with a chick. Also she will get attached to you and the way that shit goes down you might get attached to her. Its a bit of a mindfuck.
 
Dy...be careful.


It's a thin line between hanging out with a pregnant girl, dating a pregnant girl and eventually sliding into the daddy role.

I personally would keep as far away from legit dating as a young guy myself. I'm not looking to be on the hook for someone else's kid for 18 years, there are some wacky laws about what it is to be a father...just saying
 
DY_nasty said:
Naw, she keeps paying every time I ask her to go out or to bring me back something for lunch. All I wanted to do was hit and have someone to keep me warm this winter, but she's actually cool as shit - I just... I've never dealt with a pregnant woman. I have no idea what to expect or watch out for.
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She is definitely creating incentives for you to stick around. Watch out.

If all you want to do is hit, then stick to that plan. You are in dangerous territory.
 
Dy, I wish I could give perspective having never been in such a disposition, but I'd be just as lost. All I can say is tread lighty. She may be grooming you, or she may just be in need of company more than ever, hormones and all. Don't let any proclivity for simping take you over seeing as of now you aren't obligated to anything.
 
I... yeah. I don't think she's making up incentives for me to hang around. When I met her a few months back, she paid and acted the same towards me. Still, not sure though... I just hate flying blind. And I don't want to bail unless I've got a really good reason either way.
PartTimeWarrior said:
Take one for the community and raise that kid

Oh and I can think of one Tyler Perry project I like, House of Payne
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now lets get one thing straight

the 'd' in dy_nasty may stand for daddy, but dy_nasty is nobody's father #dynomite
 
MorisUkunRasik said:
Dy...be careful.


It's a thin line between hanging out with a pregnant girl, dating a pregnant girl and eventually sliding into the daddy role.

I personally would keep as far away from legit dating as a young guy myself. I'm not looking to be on the hook for someone else's kid for 18 years, there are some wacky laws about what it is to be a father...just saying
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Major reason to be careful there are laws out there (depending of where you are in this crazy country) that say even if your not the biological father but act like one (regardless if your married) and help support that child the court has found men to be the babys legal father. Shit is all sorts of suspect
 
I'm actually tempted to make that thread, but I dunno if I want that on my thread record. Also, a lurker might go and spill the beans.
DY_nasty said:
now lets get one thing straight

the 'd' in dy_nasty may stand for daddy, but dy_nasty is nobody's father #dynomite
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If I could put this in a signature, I would.
 
DY_nasty said:
Okay, I'll ask yal... since my boys have dropped the ball on all sides.

This girl I started talking to lately, she's 2 months pregnant... aaaaaaaaaaand she's cool as fuck among all the other requirements and prerequisites.

I don't... know why I'm doing this lol.
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Obviously there's nothing inherently wrong with dating a single mother (to be) but note the longer you stay in, the more complicated things will get. Something else to consider; where exactly is the father? How could their issues affect you and you two's relationship?

EDIT: I might have read this wrong. Did you do the impregnating? Oh.......lol. Congratulations. You should go with a gender neutral color for the room.
 
Bay Maximus said:
Obviously there's nothing inherently wrong with dating a single mother (to be) but note the longer you stay in, the more complicated things will get. Something else to consider; where exactly is the father? How could their issues affect you and you two's relationship?

EDIT: I might have read this wrong. Did you do the impregnating? Oh.......lol. Congratulations. You should go with a gender neutral color for the room.
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wat

grats on the baby DY
 
That is not my child.

NOT. MY. CHILD.

I haven't even asked about the father. I just know that she hates the guy.
 
PartTimeWarrior said:
Take one for the community and raise that kid

Oh and I can think of one Tyler Perry project I like, House of Payne
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Yeah don't be like me and fuck up, we have to change are stereotype by showing that we can raise kids man. Granted I can see my kids whenever I want and I do teach them things but it ain't the same as having a mother and father in the same home.

DY_nasty said:
That is not my child.

NOT. MY. CHILD.

I haven't even asked about the father. I just know that she hates the guy.
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Babydaddy confirmed.
 
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And now for the results.

When it comes to the case of 6-month old Ray-Ray Renaud Jenkins........DY you
should really be honest with the woman about your concerns
 
Nothing wrong with being a friend as long as you set those boundaries off from square 1, so she knows you're not looking to be babydaddy or even boyfriend. I mean, you could be a real friend. I guess it depends on her. I could conceivably see it working, just as easily as I could see a very emotional pregnant woman trying to guilt you into something you didn't agree to.
 
For the record, the babydaddy thing only came up ONCE and it was no more than two sentences. Not a full on rant or anything. I would've jumped out of the car if I'd heard that.

Still... bleh.
 
DY_nasty said:
Okay, I'll ask yal... since my boys have dropped the ball on all sides.

This girl I started talking to lately, she's 2 months pregnant... aaaaaaaaaaand she's cool as fuck among all the other requirements and prerequisites.

I don't... know why I'm doing this lol.
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I've heard from multiple sources that preger sex is the best sex but unless it's my own kid in the oven I couldn't take that dive.
 
Imm0rt4l said:
So I saw this thread on another board(thread closed). The OP said that he had been chasing after this girl for sometime and he finally hit it off, had sex with her, became official etc. He said he was talking to her earlier today and they started talking about past relationships. Her ex bf is black, and the OP is having this internal conflict/moral dilemma. Apparently, the fact that she used to date a black guy is an absolute deal breaker, and he's disgusted with her. He said one day he'd like to be married, with children and the mother of his kids can't have slept with black men at some point. He wanted to point out that he wasn't racist(he apparently vouched for a black dude to get a jobs or something).

I picture the thought of BBC probably wakes this guy up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat.


I'm curious as to how pervasive this line of thinking is among white dudes and other fellas. I also wonder if white women in general acknowledge this line of thinking and are reluctant to date/fuck brothers because of it. I know it's an issue in porn.
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This is REALLY common amongst white dudes and Indian in the UK from my experience. And is because of what u said, a BBC scares the fuck out of them.
 
I might dress up as a gladiator. Last year I did the guys from Dead Presidents.

FreeMufasa said:
This is REALLY common amongst white dudes and Indian in the UK from my experience. And is because of what u said, a BBC scares the fuck out of them.
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Yea, Indians and other South Asians are especially bad with this too. I knew a Nepali girl who told me as much that she'd be disowned, doesn't matter that she had no family around, her peers would snitch on her.
 
People believe all kinds of ignorant shit. I've heard of people say that black men will stretch a girl's vagina out, or something stupid like that. Part of me thinks that's crap and they're just being racist fucks. They'll have sex with her, but they can't be serious about her because she's been with a black guy, so she's a slut/damaged goods.
 
akira28 said:
People believe all kinds of ignorant shit. I've heard of people say that black men will stretch a girl's vagina out, or something stupid like that. Part of me thinks that's crap and they're just being racist fucks. They'll have sex with her, but they can't be serious about her because she's been with a black guy, so she's a slut/damaged goods.
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That's a combo of racism and not understanding how vaginas work
 
Isn't it even reflected in porn other than cuckolding? Like if some chick works with black dudes she has less appeal or some racist ass shit?
 
Apparently dating a black guy is a testament to a girls poor character and judgement and her womb is forever tainted. Nevermind that you know absolutely nothing about the guy other than he has more melanin in his skin.
 
Devolution said:
Isn't it even reflected in porn other than cuckolding? Like if some chick works with black dudes she has less appeal or some racist ass shit?
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yea, some girls don't do *interracial porn because their value goes down. there is a segment of their fanbase that wants them to stay 'pure', anal, gang bangs? That's cool. black guys is where we cross the line.


*black and white, apparently latino/asian don't count as interracial.
 
Racist white men please keep telling white women that having sex with a black guy is naughty and taboo because we might stretch their vaginas out. It's like they're doing the work for us...
 
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