update:
One of my young cousins passed away back home in SC. Car accident.....
On top of that my brother in law has tried to hustle my parents. Went to my folks this past Saturday and asked for help to keep the lights one. Keep in mind he had a job and quit so baby momma couldn't get anymore child support garnishments. Anywho they give him the money since my sister is pregnant with baby #3. Dad caught him yesterday coming out of guitar center with a new saxaphone. Pops caught him in a lie about the saxaphone and he ended up returning it for a refund and giving the money back but; why we gotta take advantage of people man?
Sorry for your lost. Folks like that is why folks don't want to help their fellow man anymore.