Tumblrism is the new SJW since the latter is an easy red flag.
I've seen both and "feminist" used together in racist and anti-LGBT Youtube posts. The purpose is singular and blatant. Gaffers either being dumb or playing dumb.
All that shit that happens to you sucks btw. Sorry it's so rough. I've said some shit in the past to stir the nest and never had it 1/100 as bad as you.