I really don't like talking about this tbh. Since abuse is always mentioned and helping children to develop takes time and evaluation, it's not so easy to say every child needs the same treatments and punishment.
I was spanked as a kid but I can't remember the effects of any of them. I straightened up pretty quickly I guess. That said, I'm tired of all of this being seen as some sort of superiority battle. And going around telling people they are victims of abuse seems really inconsiderate considering actual victims have some serious trauma, mentally and physically.
It's frustrating, that's why I usually avoid it. But dammit, I'm tired of black people taking the heat for this shit.