The state of NeoGAF

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You should link the post, not the thread so that the context is more clear.

Example:

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=220356693&postcount=512



You'll have to find the one where he threatens to report you to the authorities and your place of work. I didn't see it in a quick glance through the few pages surrounding this post.

I'd rather not as the context of the conversation would be completely lost, and then people will just say "besada is right" or "I deserved it".
 
My story:

Some poster made a thread calling Summer Lesson problematic.

I chimed in about the separation of reality from imagination.

CrossingEden comes in and denounces developers that make such games.

I said that developers should have the right to make the games they want.

CrossingEden calls people who play Summer Lesson paedophiles and sexual predators.

I argued that saying games make people sexual predators is the same as saying games make people murderers.

CrossingEden argued that there is no point in discussing video game violence because it is different because reasons.

I said that he is being hypocritical about it.

CrossingEden strawmanned me and suddenly made my position as "I support paedophilic content", and then summoned his lapdog besada

besada not only threatened to ban me, but also threatened to report me to authorities as well as report me to my work place (my registered e-mail was from my workplace)

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1295029
So yea that's not what happened. Especially the part about me me supposedly saying that there's no point in discussing violence in games. That's not what I said and you know it. I stated the intention behind suddenly bringing up video game violence in such a thread, (i.e., one focused on fetishization of women), and how it wasn't a genuine attempt to actually discuss violence in the context of this medium. And at the same time I had straight up addressed the fact that video game violence is in fact getting toned down at the same time. Nor did I call anyone a pedophile but rather blatantly pointed out the creepy tone of the game's threads.

And no, I didn't contact Besada, who also didn't threatened you at all. But rather called out your thought policing argument.

So yea you aren't some victim of a draconian community or moderation. Nice try tho.

Crossing Eden always blows a blood vessel at anything anime related, or any female character showing skin.
No point in even arguing with them.
Here's me praising the amount of work that went into the ultimate ninja series, as well as dedicating a thread to the improvements to animation in BOTW. Also gone on record stating multiple times that one of my main inspirations for becoming an animator was Ueda. Nice try tho.
 
Last time he stepped in to reign in OT was the Andy Signore thread. That didn't work out well.
That was...an attempt. I remember that thread, it got ugly fast. It also wasn't the best way to handle what was happening. I mean I understood why people got banned but after a point there should have been some kind of concession by EL over what was going on.

All the same, what he did in there wasn't really the kind of reining in I wanted to see a site Administrator do. He clearly was trying to say something, but the way he was trying to say it or enforce it was pretty bad.

There was one post he made where he called out the bullies but that was about it and it was quickly forgotten about. After the demodding of one of the over-zealous Hillary people.
Yeah there was that and it felt half-hearted. There needed to be a big moderator review maybe. I feel like some mods were many times harmful but didn't get any reprimand because they were big personalities on the forum. Deification of the mods is really a bad way to go about things.

Again though this isn't the way I would have wanted things fixed. Especially not because a sexual abuse incident spread like wildfire across the internet about the Administrator and the reaction to it was heavy-handed as fuck.
 
Rebirth begins through Destruction.
If only...we already reached the End of Evangelion

"Indeed"
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My story:

Some poster made a thread calling Summer Lesson problematic.

I chimed in about the separation of reality from imagination.

CrossingEden comes in and denounces developers that make such games.

I said that developers should have the right to make the games they want.

CrossingEden calls people who play Summer Lesson paedophiles and sexual predators.

I argued that saying games make people sexual predators is the same as saying games make people murderers.

CrossingEden argued that there is no point in discussing video game violence because it is different because reasons.

I said that he is being hypocritical about it.

CrossingEden strawmanned me and suddenly made my position as "I support paedophilic content", and then summoned his lapdog besada

besada not only threatened to ban me, but also threatened to report me to authorities as well as report me to my work place (my registered e-mail was from my workplace)

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1295029

Is this what you're referring to?

I'm not sure what thought-policing involves, since I can't actually police your thoughts. I can make judgements about you, or I can turn you into the authorities if I believed you violated the law, but I'm not sure how one would go about policing your thoughts.

So you support a market that includes pedophila as acceptable content? I need you to be clear on this.

I'm sorry, but none of that is a threat to ban or report you...

btw you were making a terrible argument regardless
 
Sure thing. Couldn't find the post he was de-modded for though.

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Damn I missed this. Fucked up that someone got demodded for this. Scary stuff. Punching Nazis might be cathartic and I was the first one to laugh and share Spencer getting punched, sure. But I'm never going to tell anyone that they should deliberately go and punch people, because I'm not in the position to make that call. I agree completely with them.
 
Why the fuck are you still here you big hypocritical liar?

If you are so against people slighting women, why are you still here? Seriously.
Glad you care about hypocrites huh. What a shitshow.
It's too fucking late now. The posters supporting him already made up their fucking minds. It's one groupthink for another. Damn.
 
Guess I need to post this again since there are some people who seem to have already forgotten after 2 page. Wow, how the mind slips!

"Allegedly"

Opening admitting to sexually assaulting someone(then banning anyone who called him out for it)
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Posting revenge porn with their real full names then another admin(a now jailed pedophile) printed the photos and jacked off over them and sent it to the boyfriend.
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You're right, how can we even know if he's guilty or not? HMMMM

Also:
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Why are these accusations coming out now so suddenly? Is it because of the cash he generated in that time span?
 
@ new staff, if you get the chance can you implement a feature where if you have a user on ignore, their posts are also hidden when people quote them? don't really care about posting anymore, but neogaf as a gaming news aggregator would still be useful to read. I just don't want to see any of crossing eden's garbage posts ever again.

alternatively just perm crossing eden.

-p. po
 
Could have just been honest and say he fucked up and misread her signals.

I think that's what happened, although I don't think there was anything he could say that would make a difference.

From the point the story leaked certain people had already made their mind up based purely on his previous history, or the fact that some people genuinely believe no one would lie about sexual harassment/assault. When the truth is that while there are"evil" people who commit these offences, there are equally "evil" people that lie about having been victim to these offences.

I also personally don't believe that someone's past is necessarily a guarantee of future offences.

My own personal opinion is that he mis-read signals, she really didn't want it because she had a boyfriend, but wasn't left traumatised. Later on they started dating casually, it ended badly (for reasons we don't know) and she decided to make the facebook post as a way to get back at him.

Two things I wasn't keen on was firstly the fact she had any further contact with Evilore after the events that apparently left her traumatised, and secondly the way she casually posted who the alleged perpetrator was. After literally saying she couldn't say who he was, just 2 minutes later she then said "Fuck it, google Evilore"
 
I'd rather not as the context of the conversation would be completely lost, and then people will just say "besada is right" or "I deserved it".
I don't know man now is the time to defend yourself. I mean if you're going to mention this incident what better time than now to clarify it? I'm not sure what happened but if there's a context that would make you comfortable then give it. Otherwise I don't know why bring it up if you won't explain and clarify.
 
Eh, I posted the link. You can all decide for yourselves whether I was wrong or not.

regardless of your opinions on the topic, it's a complete mischaracterization of events to say besada threatened to ban you or report you to your job... I would even go as far to say that it's a complete lie.
 
why is it that every member here claiming to be a victim of poor moderation is actually in the wrong

could it be that they simply lack self awareness

I provided my story. Feel free to pick it apart. Though with the OT gone that may be a challenge. You probably won't though. You'll ignore it and move on to look for easier wins that further your agenda. So you can sit there and say "look this person was clearly lying so everyone else is as well!".
 
So, what is the state of NeoGAF? All I can see is the more likable / progressive posters leaving en masse. You then have this silent group coming up and starting to lay the foundation to normalize their views by believing themselves to be victims of oppression. They clearly don't care about context or believe that their words carried harmful weight. You got all the key terms like, "safe place", "SFW", "wrong-think", "witch hunts", "disagreement bans". Like, they clearly only care about getting back at them damn SJWs *shakes fist in the air* and not dissent because avenues for dissent are being removed entirely. Is this the current and future state? That sucks. Maybe Evilore can stabilize things but at the moment the gamergaters are taking root and they're being pretty blatant about it. Hopefully the pool of mods Evilore can choose from doesn't include them.
 
regardless of your opinions on the topic, it's a complete mischaracterization of events to say besada threatened to ban you or report you to your job... I would even go as far to say that it's a complete lie.

"So you support a market that includes pedophila as acceptable content? I need you to be clear on this."

This is a threat to ban. Bish especially loves doing this before.


"I'm not sure what thought-policing involves, since I can't actually police your thoughts. I can make judgements about you, or I can turn you into the authorities if I believed you violated the law, but I'm not sure how one would go about policing your thoughts."

This is a threat, I don't understand how you people don't see it that way.
 
Why are these accusations coming out now so suddenly? Is it because of the cash he generated in that time span?

How are these accusations? These are his old posts lol that ppl had saved for years.

Put into a nice collage.

If you ever pisted some shit like that before last week, you would be instabanned and you account and thread nuked from orbit with a deathstar laser.

P.s I dont think Malka is an evil bastard or anything, he just didnt handle these situations with care.

And he should have learned from his past mistakes and transgressions on his road trip.
 
Oh geez.

Nobody is calling you racist if you're not racist.

If you say something racist then you will be called a racist.

You're just reinforcing the idea that you should be allowed to say bad shit without being held accountable.

Your convenient ignorance seems willful and quite disingenuous.

Complete strawman.

If you're a Republican you are either completely uninformed, ok with racism, or supportive of racism. It's just facts... :/

Doesn't make you a nazi, but no need to cuddle your views.

Explain how a Republican is not one of three above and we can discuss.
 
This site was always about so much more than video games to me. It felt like this site had a community of experts on everything. For discussions of music, movies, fashion, politics, hockey, camera equipment, dating, mental health, etc - Gaf has been my home since 2013.

I adored the liberal tilt of the OT community, and actually learned quite a bit about life because of this site's influence. This felt like an all inclusive group unlike anything id seen on the internet before. I got most of my news from here, both gaming and non. It pains me to see the community fall apart as it has. I'm not sure what to do really. No other forum has come close.

Ummm... this_is_neogaf.gif? I just want my timewaster back.
 
Oh geez.

Nobody is calling you racist if you're not racist.

If you say something racist then you will be called a racist.

You're just reinforcing the idea that you should be allowed to say bad shit without being held accountable.

You literally did this last night. I doubt it was the first time.

Honestly this whole situation is a mess. Hopefully the community can recover and move forward.

This witch hunt mob mentality is not the answer that is one thing I’m certain of.

We should listen to racism, misogyny, and bigotry.

Yes.

That's the way forward.

No, that’s not what I’m implying.

Note: I'm not trying to engage you in conversation, since I know that's pointless. I just want to show everyone your bs.
 
why is it that every member here claiming to be a victim of poor moderation is actually in the wrong

could it be that they simply lack self awareness

Hm? The only one to address what I posted earlier was Subpar Spatula so far and he ignored one ban of mine and didn't even understand the other and continued to not understand it, despite even other users pointing it out. He also stopped responding twice so far.
 
How are these accusations? These are his old posts lol that ppl had saved for years.

Put into a nice collage.

If you ever pisted some shit like that before last week, you would be instabanned and you account and thread nuked from orbit with a deathstar laser.
And people would've clapped. Even now, in the ruins if a burned down GAF, there are still people defending him, degrading the woman and telling veteran users who were part of the great community to piss off if they are discontent.
 
Eh, I posted the link. You can all decide for yourselves whether I was wrong or not.

I read through that thread and your ban seems to have nothing at all to do with CrossingEden and everything to do with Besada. It is not clear where you were banned and if it was for that post but the context of the posts are clear. Besada had a strong opinion on the matter and wanted you to make a bannable comment. Most of the people complaining about bans are full of shit, and your story kinda was too, but being banned for that seems unfair I would agree.
 
@ new staff, if you get the chance can you implement a feature where if you have a user on ignore, their posts are also hidden when people quote them? don't really care about posting anymore, but neogaf as a gaming news aggregator would still be useful to read. I just don't want to see any of crossing eden's garbage posts ever again.

alternatively just perm crossing eden.

-p. po

Do you have me on ignore for my relentless slander towards Konami, ponpo? 😅
 
So, what is the state of NeoGAF? All I can see is the more likable / progressive posters leaving en masse. You then have this silent group coming up and starting to lay the foundation to normalize their views by believing themselves to be victims of oppression. They clearly don't care about context or believe that their words carried harmful weight. You got all the key terms like, "safe place", "SFW", "wrong-think", "witch hunts", "disagreement bans". Like, they clearly only care about getting back at them damn SJWs *shakes fist in the air* and not dissent because avenues for dissent are being removed entirely. Is this the current and future state? That sucks. Maybe Evilore can stabilize things but at the moment the gamergaters are taking root and they're being pretty blatant about it. Hopefully the pool of mods Evilore can choose from doesn't include them.

I have a theory that gamergaters just plain won't make for good gaming thread content.

These are people who destroy. They do not create.
 
@ new staff, if you get the chance can you implement a feature where if you have a user on ignore, their posts are also hidden when people quote them? don't really care about posting anymore, but neogaf as a gaming news aggregator would still be useful to read. I just don't want to see any of crossing eden's garbage posts ever again.

alternatively just perm crossing eden.

-p. po
Pointing out that someone was lying through their teeth about me=garbage post now?
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I dunno, people say Neogaf is dead, but this thread sure feels like classic Neogaf to me.
 
"So you support a market that includes pedophila as acceptable content? I need you to be clear on this."

This is a threat to ban. Bish especially loves doing this before.


"I'm not sure what thought-policing involves, since I can't actually police your thoughts. I can make judgements about you, or I can turn you into the authorities if I believed you violated the law, but I'm not sure how one would go about policing your thoughts."

This is a threat, I don't understand how you people don't see it that way.

I can see how the first statement is interpreted as a ban threat. But that would only be the case if you did think pedophilia is acceptable content - which you do not.

The second statement is simply dismantling the concept of thought policing. The bolded section is rhetorical. And for what it's worth, just believing that pedophilia is acceptable content isn't a violation of the law.
 
You literally did this last night. I doubt it was the first time.







Note: I'm not trying to engage you in conversation, since I know that's pointless. I just want to show everyone your bs.

What BS?

That people claiming there were witch hunts is really just a fabrication created in the minds of those who were bit by their own ignorance?

Like, you do realize the grand majority of those who say they were targets of witch hunts or seen them are lying right? Can you direct me to any thread or posts that show a witch hunt? What about 10? 20? With the size of NeoGAF there should be plenty of examples. Guess what? None are ever brought up and when they are they get called out like AALLX for being a liar.

But guess what? They'll still believe and parrot they were victims.
 
So, what is the state of NeoGAF? All I can see is the more likable / progressive posters leaving en masse. You then have this silent group coming up and starting to lay the foundation to normalize their views by believing themselves to be victims of oppression. They clearly don't care about context or believe that their words carried harmful weight. You got all the key terms like, "safe place", "SFW", "wrong-think", "witch hunts", "disagreement bans". Like, they clearly only care about getting back at them damn SJWs *shakes fist in the air* and not dissent because avenues for dissent are being removed entirely. Is this the current and future state? That sucks. Maybe Evilore can stabilize things but at the moment the gamergaters are taking root and they're being pretty blatant about it. Hopefully the pool of mods Evilore can choose from doesn't include them.

Is gamergater a term you use for everyone you disagree with or is it a verbal tic you're seeking therapy for in the near future?
 
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