Yay! My lesbian friend wants to go clothes shopping with me. Hopefully we'll hit up the gay part of town next week and I can finally get some girl things
I just wanted to say you have the cutest avatar on GAF. By far.
Yay! My lesbian friend wants to go clothes shopping with me. Hopefully we'll hit up the gay part of town next week and I can finally get some girl things
Yay! My lesbian friend wants to go clothes shopping with me. Hopefully we'll hit up the gay part of town next week and I can finally get some girl things
Yay! My lesbian friend wants to go clothes shopping with me. Hopefully we'll hit up the gay part of town next week and I can finally get some girl things
Be proactive to pursue the things you want. Give them a call and don't sit around waiting for them to call back and make up reasons why they haven't.Hey guys.
The lgbt center hasn't called back.
Hope it's not like this therapist that we had called for unrelated reasons. We called them back in October and they called back like three days ago. We decided not to call back because they'd probably get back to us in like March or something.
CHEEZMO;46375116 said:
I nevertheless felt indignant that a woman of such style and substance should be driven from her chosen mode of time-wasting by a bunch of dicks in chicks' clothing.
CHEEZMO;46375116 said:
No response.CHEEZMO;46375116 said:
CHEEZMO;46379775 said:I remember her dumb ass used to write for The S*n. Glad I skipped over that shit now.
I have a question for Transgaf, if I may. In TV shows/comics/games where a male character gets turned into a woman (your Ranma 1/2s, etc), he always turns into a sexy/busty woman (frequently more so than the other female characters). Does that bother you? Would you rather see characters transformed into more realistic women, do you like it more because he gets turned into a super-feminine character, or do you just write it off as a sort of "it's anime/TV/video games, of course she has a huge chest"? Are plot points like that seen as offensive to you or are cool with it?
It's a stupid plot device that is, as far I know, never used to explore gender dynamics in an interesting way. Just an adolescent fantasy. If they turned into an unattractive girl, then the author would have to deal with subject matter the viewers wouldn't be interested in, and would hurt the sexual fantasy aspect of it. Of course, I'm probably going to be the only one to take issue with it.I have a question for Transgaf, if I may. In TV shows/comics/games where a male character gets turned into a woman (your Ranma 1/2s, etc), he always turns into a sexy/busty woman (frequently more so than the other female characters). Does that bother you? Would you rather see characters transformed into more realistic women, do you like it more because he gets turned into a super-feminine character, or do you just write it off as a sort of "it's anime/TV/video games, of course she has a huge chest"? Are plot points like that seen as offensive to you or are cool with it?
I have a question for Transgaf, if I may. In TV shows/comics/games where a male character gets turned into a woman (your Ranma 1/2s, etc), he always turns into a sexy/busty woman (frequently more so than the other female characters). Does that bother you? Would you rather see characters transformed into more realistic women, do you like it more because he gets turned into a super-feminine character, or do you just write it off as a sort of "it's anime/TV/video games, of course she has a huge chest"? Are plot points like that seen as offensive to you or are cool with it?
The fuck is it with people named 'Julie'?
I can't believe that article. That's below even The Daily Mail, and yet there it is in full glory, WITH COMMENTS DISABLED, on the fucking Guardian.
You know, maybe that cunt deserved to be driven off Twitter.
I have a question for Transgaf, if I may. In TV shows/comics/games where a male character gets turned into a woman (your Ranma 1/2s, etc), he always turns into a sexy/busty woman (frequently more so than the other female characters). Does that bother you? Would you rather see characters transformed into more realistic women, do you like it more because he gets turned into a super-feminine character, or do you just write it off as a sort of "it's anime/TV/video games, of course she has a huge chest"? Are plot points like that seen as offensive to you or are cool with it?
"not having the ideal body shape – that of a Brazilian transsexual"
I have a question for Transgaf, if I may. In TV shows/comics/games where a male character gets turned into a woman (your Ranma 1/2s, etc), he always turns into a sexy/busty woman (frequently more so than the other female characters). Does that bother you? Would you rather see characters transformed into more realistic women, do you like it more because he gets turned into a super-feminine character, or do you just write it off as a sort of "it's anime/TV/video games, of course she has a huge chest"? Are plot points like that seen as offensive to you or are cool with it?
Sure are a lot of people defending that article by yelling "free speech!".
I am assuming the Observer has some sort of no bigotry or hate speech policy that this article is in clear violation of.
CHEEZMO;46375116 said:
wynautSome dude on SA said:Rather than the PCC, it may be better to complain to the editors themselves. A few hundred emails can be cause for introspection:
reader@observer.co.uk
cif.editors@guardian.co.uk
Katharine.Viner@guardian.co.uk
Making reference to their own CIF community standards may help, particularly:
3. We understand that people often feel strongly about issues debated on the site, but we will consider removing any content that others might find extremely offensive or threatening.
5. We will not tolerate racism, sexism, homophobia or other forms of hate-speech, or contributions that could be interpreted as such.
Don't be unpleasant.
Sure are a lot of people defending that article by yelling "free speech!".
This article is the subject of an inquiry by the Observer readers' editor, who responds in the thread here. For those reading this on a mobile platform and unable to view comments, his post reads as follows: "As you might imagine, I have received many emails protesting about this piece this morning. Thank you to those who have written. I will be looking at this issue and will be replying to all in due course."
StephenPritchard said:As you might imagine, I have received many emails protesting about this piece this morning. Thank you to those who have written. I will be looking at this issue and will be replying to all in due course.
GiulioSica said:Stephen, there is no need to deliberate. Julie Birchill's comments unequivocally amount to hate speech. She has generalised to describe all transgender and transexuals in vile and abusive terms, because individual people on Twitter who describe themselves as trans abused Suzanne Moore.
This article is clear hate speech and the only reason I can think that this disgrace of an article has been allowed to stand is that hate crime towards the transgender and transexual community is not understood or is not recognised as real as racism, sexism and homophobia, which is inexcusable in a news organisation that professes to be liberal.
There is no way of squirming out of this and you will only make things worse if you try. Look at the comments, read them properly, look on social media from prominent feminist writers and a variety of prominent figures. This is not about allowing everyone to have their say, or about enjoying the click rate. Hate speech is illegal. This crossed the line. There is no doubt.
You need to act swiftly and decisively. I occasionally work at the Guardian as a casual subeditor and I feel ashamed and angry that this has been allowed to happen in the organisation, that there has been no swift response, that editors still do not seem to recognise the gravity of what Julie Burchill has done. I'm just flabbergasted.
Please, for the sake of everything this news organisation is supposed to stand for, act now, apologise, distance yourself in every way from these foul and abusive comments by Julie Burchill.
Sincerely, Giulio Sica
Is it weird that I found this thread shortly after my girlfriend, who was trans, broke up with me?
The ferocity of the language used shocked me, not just for the content but at how the author felt she had the appropriate audience from the Guardian's left-leaning readership.
I'm sorry .. but i'm not sure I understood your post ... why posting both the entire texts agains ?
First one is the article in question. The second is a commentary, criticising the first post as hateful, whilst giving a background context to it. I thought some here would find it interesting
I was thinking more like in crappy romance movies when after the break up the guy hears a ton of love songs on the radio or something.Weird in what way? Is it kinda like when you buy a car, you start seeing that model of car everywhere?
I was thinking more like in crappy romance movies when after the break up the guy hears a ton of love songs on the radio or something.
why thank you... lol.
Statement from John Mulholland, editor of The Observer:
We have decided to withdraw from publication the Julie Burchill comment piece 'Transsexuals should cut it out'. The piece was an attempt to explore contentious issues within what had become a highly-charged debate. The Observer is a paper which prides itself on ventilating difficult debates and airing challenging views. On this occasion we got it wrong and in light of the hurt and offence caused I apologise and have made the decision to withdraw the piece. The Observer Readers' Editor will report on these issues at greater length.
The comments posted beneath the article have also been removed in line with our deletion process and as a result these comments will no longer appear in individual users' profiles.
The piece was an attempt to explore contentious issues within what had become a highly-charged debate
Neat. That happens on GAF too!CHEEZMO;46441997 said:Bullshit. "An attempt to explore contentious issues" my arse. They published hate speech and got called on it, and now the cunts over at the Torygraph and other shitty rags are pulling the "WAAHHHH, we're being oppressed by THE PC BRIGADE and the loony lefties FREE SPEECH no one has no right to be offended POLITICAL CORRECTNESS GONE MAD" routine.
Hacks.
I hate reading stuff written like that, even if I'm on their side. Using insults and name calling to try and get a point across is so childish. I'm glad they are taking some action but it feels like they are just trying to appease the raging masses instead of standing with them.Was it? Looked more like a thesaurus of anti-trans slurs to me.
Was it? Looked more like a thesaurus of anti-trans slurs to me.
Yup. "If you're mean to people who are transphobic, you're just as oppressive as they are." It seems to be a rhetorical mainstay of people who say bigoted shit.Neat. That happens on GAF too!
I want one essay a week that rips apart Julie Burchill's "analysis" and/or features trans people talking about their lives, experience, analysis, or whatever, really. The Observer and The Guardian owe a lot to trans people right now.Maybe the Observer Readers' Editor will actually acknowledge that those slurs should have never been approved in the first place and have no business being part of even semi-intelligent discussion.
Edit : Also, is it okay if I post in here? I'm not trans, but strive to be an ally however possible.