I think another factor that makes some of the sexual violence in the show feel so gross and uncomfortable is knowing that to a certain extent HBO sees the sexual element of the show as a plus. It's definitely part of the package they're selling - dudes want to see more tits, etc. When there's already this aspect in the show, it taints everything else, even if they might be trying to make a "point" with a character. Nothing is made in a vacuum.
Like, remember these comments from Neil Marshall?
http://www.empireonline.com/news/story.asp?NID=34164
The podcast covers a question about nudity and sex at around the 6:45 mark.
This is the environment the show is made in. So when the show chooses to deliberately take a character who is played by an actress who was underaged when the series started, and put her through this when there is no such even in the books, it does make you wonder. That's not the good sort of wondering either.
Like, remember these comments from Neil Marshall?
http://www.empireonline.com/news/story.asp?NID=34164
The podcast covers a question about nudity and sex at around the 6:45 mark.
The weirdest part was when you have one of the exec producers leaning over your shoulder, going, 'You can go full frontal, you know. This is television, you can do whatever you want! And do it! I urge you to do it!' So I was like, 'Okay, well, you're the boss.'
This particular exec took me to one side and said, 'Look, I represent the pervert side of the audience, okay? Everybody else is the serious drama side, [but] I represent the perv side of the audience, and I'm saying I want full frontal nudity in this scene.' So you go ahead and do it.
This is the environment the show is made in. So when the show chooses to deliberately take a character who is played by an actress who was underaged when the series started, and put her through this when there is no such even in the books, it does make you wonder. That's not the good sort of wondering either.