Hey Vendetta...what is your ultimate goal really? I'm guessing losing fat and gain muscle?
If you're trying to lose fat, the best thing you can do is reduce your carb intake. Things that you mention that jumped out as red flags to me were:
- croutons
- fat free low sodium dressing
- flax seed vegetable chips
- whole grain cereal
- sandwich (implying bread)
Ideally you want your calories to be coming mostly from protein and fat and as minimally from carbs as possible to maximize fat loss.
If you want to go hardcore about it, you could shoot for a ketogenic diet which basically reduces your carb intake heavily enough to the point of using your bodies fat stores for energy just about all the time. It's the most efficient method for fat loss, but requires a bit of work when you're first getting used to the system.
I'd recommend cutting the stuff I mention above and finding low to no carb alternatives. Salads with meat instead of sandwiches. No croutons. Oil and vinegar dressing or some fat-rich dressings like ranch or bleu cheese (don't get low fat versions, just make sure they are low carb...like 2-5g max). Toss the cereal in favor of eggs/bacon/sausage. Snack on nuts if the desire strikes you (but no more than a few handfuls if you can help yourself).
If you can knock your carbs down to a low level (I'd say shoot for sub-75g at first and then keep trying to get lower until you're in the 10-40g range) and keep your calories between 1500-2000 calories on the day (keeping protein intake high and using fat as your primary energy source) than you'll start seeing benefits fairly quickly.
To gain your muscle, just keep working out as you see fit (it sounds like you have gym experience so I won't get into specifics here) and keep your protein intake high. Shoot for 150g of protein a day.
Some good starting points:
http://www.marksdailyapple.com/how-to-succeed-with-the-primal-blueprint/
http://www.bulletproofexec.com/the-complete-illustrated-one-page-bulletproof-diet/