Skittleguy
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Whelp, I had my chance with someone tonight. I was up at bat, swung, and missed. Goddamn it.
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ZephyrFate said:
Jealous that you guys are all drunk, it's 9pm Sunday here and I'm watching Greys Anatomy.
ANYHOO, is my profile better now? Are you able to stalk me??
Rocket Punch
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Are there any gay men that don't identify with sleeping around with all kinds of guys just because you can? Am I some kind of odd prude? I consider myself a well adjusted gay male but people make me feel odd when I tell them I don't screw around and they look at me funny, like I'm breaking some sacred gay rule or something. Yes, part of it is that I'm pretty picky but the truth is that the thought of screwing around every gay man I come across really turns me off. Am I alone in this?
Curious George
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I'm with you! I don't really like sleeping around and sex is so much better when you actually care about the person...we're old fashioned haha.Rocket Punch said:
Okay.. why do they have to choose the most bleh men for Cialis commercials?
Lilly is trying to turn us on with the porno wah-wah music in the background, and then they pick this guy who could be Harvey Fierstein's brother to tell us about the side effects? Eww.
Hire a Sting look-alike. Or an older hottie resembling Patrick Stewart.
Lilly is trying to turn us on with the porno wah-wah music in the background, and then they pick this guy who could be Harvey Fierstein's brother to tell us about the side effects? Eww.
Hire a Sting look-alike. Or an older hottie resembling Patrick Stewart.
Freestyler
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Curious George said:
I'm with you both. The worst is going home with some guy and having to make an excuse as to why you don't wanna stay the night, the whole time thinking "god I'd so rather be at home or with friends right now" :lol
Amibguous Cad
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Rocket Punch said:
I think it's so rare the default assumption is that you're just not interested and are trying to come up with an excuse to let them down easy :lol
You're certainly not alone. I'll add my voice to the chorus, though my kind of modesty is mostly a desire for physical safety- I'll do lots of fun S&M type things and handjobs and such that don't have any risk of STDs like any garden variety promiscuous person, but I try to keep my fluid bonded partners to a minimum.
Masked Man
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Curious George said:Haha I'm not asian, but I DO have yellow fever...an item on my joke bucket list is to go to Japan for a month and be a whore haha. But no, I'm actually spanish
That's what I plan on doing while I'm abroad for a year.
Kind of kidding. But I certainly won't mind being surrounded by beautiful Japanese men for eight months or so, and who knows what might happen from there...
Skittleguy
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ZephyrFate
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I am awake and feel fantastic! The hangover isn't so bad this time.Jet Grind Radio! said:
ZephyrFate
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STOP STALKIN US BITCH
did you join yet? :O
did you join yet? :O
I wanted to tell my mom today but I chickened out. I think she knows anyway since she's always picking up for gay people around me whenever anyone says anything discriminating. Though thats just me assuming that she knows. I'm an adult (supposedly) and yet my mom still scares the crap out of me. We're not even conventional by any means either.
prodystopian
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Jinfash said:
I believe the PC term is Gayming Age.
dragonlife29 said:Give us the details! Who's who and how do you know one another?
ZephyrFate said:
Haha oh there's not really a story here. Just that I'm sure I've seen him at the one gay bar here in Calgary and I recognized him from his pic on here.
I joined that Facebook thingy. You can kind of see what I look like via the What's Your NeoGAF ID topic.
Do you mean "standing up for"? I've never heard "pick up" being used in that way before.Nolan. said:
My mum used to say the worst things. Not long after I'd come out to my friends, she was having coffee with my friends mother. For someone reason the topic ended up being homosexuality, and my mum was like "It's strange isn't it. It's like something is wrong with their brains." Meanwhile I'm trying not to laugh and hoping my friend keeps his mouth shut.
I never took offence. I always considered it as a result of the time and environment she was raised in. There were a lot of tears and apologies from her though as soon as I came out. She said she had always suspected since I was a child, and I guess she didn't know how to deal with it. Took her a couple months to adapt, but she's fine with it now.
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Tntnnbltn said:Do you mean "standing up for"? I've never heard "pick up" being used in that way before.
My mum used to say the worst things. Not long after I'd come out to my friends, she was having coffee with my friends mother. For someone reason the topic ended up being homosexuality, and my mum was like "It's strange isn't it. It's like something is wrong with their brains." Meanwhile I'm trying not to laugh and hoping my friend keeps his mouth shut.
I never took offence. I always considered it as a result of the time and environment she was raised in. There were a lot of tears and apologies from her though as soon as I came out. She said she had always suspected since I was a child, and I guess she didn't know how to deal with it. Took her a couple months to adapt, but she's fine with it now.
/story time
Yeah it means sticking up for, my mom is ok now and I think she'd be ok after. It's just really odd to me in a way. I told my sister since she asked me out of nowhere and to be honest out of everyone apart from one of my brothers I thought she'd take it the worst. Instead she just said ''well it's not like you're jack from will and grace and I love you blah blah''. My mom though is just different I don't know how to time it. I get so comfortable talking to her about all of these things that bringing that into it would feel kind of awkward to me. Though now and again she'll say things like ''I love how gay men always take care of their mothers'' and i'll have an opening but instead i'll just go ''hmph''. I don't think I'd even have told my sister if she didn't ask outright. I also suspect she probably told my brother since he's been more sensitive with certain things around me who probably told my other sister, who probably told my mom.
ZephyrFate
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I've never been to a gay bar.Fierydevil said:
True story.
Skittleguy
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Hah. The one gay bar in Calgary. Really brings the emphasis that we're the "Heart of the New West" and yet still a "one horse town".Fierydevil said:
ZephyrFate said:
Well, to be honest, it can be fun for dancing and if you go with a bunch of friends. Give it a shot sometime, at least for the experience and then you can tell people that you popped your gay bar cherry.
Skittleguy said:
Oh I know what you mean. One thing I do love about this city though is when Stampede happens and all the hot cowboys come into town. THAT'S always fun.
Yet at the same time, I'm always glad when Stampede is over cause I get tired of people being stupidly drunk 24/7.
Rocket Punch said:
No, you aren't. But it seems the vast majority of gay men are going to fuck whatever male that moves. (In fact, I know of one of them off hand)
It's a shame, but that seems to be the majority. I guess some of the "younger" kids forgot about the 70's and AIDS and blah blah blah...
But no, you aren't alone in your thinking.
ZephyrFate
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OH yeah I plan on going with a bunch of my girl friends, and a few of my straight guy friends who are open-minded sometime. There's one or two here in Eugene, but I haven't had the time to go.Fierydevil said:Well, to be honest, it can be fun for dancing and if you go with a bunch of friends. Give it a shot sometime, at least for the experience and then you can tell people that you popped your gay bar cherry.
Oh I know what you mean. One thing I do love about this city though is when Stampede happens and all the hot cowboys come into town. THAT'S always fun.
Yet at the same time, I'm always glad when Stampede is over cause I get tired of people being stupidly drunk 24/7.
Skittleguy
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Nah. You basically summed up my opinion on the subject. Problem is, the majority of guys I've met have that "i just wanna fuck" vibe, which sucks for me since ive always just wanted to find someone to hang with, get to know, and then...well, later on at least.Rocket Punch said:
Also, being a virgin has somehow made me a target...
dragonlife
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Of course not.Rocket Punch said:
It's weird, but I've always had this mindset even when I was little--you know, being with someone you truly care about. Going into High School these feelings were intensified when I would see couples holding hands and making out and shit...then I'd see 'em with someone new in less than a month's time (You just notice sometimes if they're a classmate).
Escape Goat
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DMPrince said:
I was feeling exceptionally gay today so I used that as my status.
Masked Man
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rex64 said:
I'll be there from September 1st through about May 9th. Where will you be living?
And I can't answer your last question, although I surely hope that the answer is "easy."
Both for your sake and mine. :lol
krypt0nian
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Love to join the GAF FB thang, but have you considered making it a "secret" group? That way it can only be found if you have the link and you can PM people who want in the URL. As it is now, anyone on FB can join.
Not everyone who reads GAF is gay friendly to say the least. There are real assholes out there.
Plus, "secret" groups do not show on your groups list, making it easy for those of us not out to join. I've been out for years, but some guys have expressed issues with joining.
Ideas? Questions? Bananas?
Not everyone who reads GAF is gay friendly to say the least. There are real assholes out there.
Plus, "secret" groups do not show on your groups list, making it easy for those of us not out to join. I've been out for years, but some guys have expressed issues with joining.
Ideas? Questions? Bananas?
krypt0nian
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Gaborn said:
Th only way I knew about this secret option is our dinner group does it that way. Otherwise you have any dood that stumbles on it joining, or other more evil GAFFers fucking with you IRL.
krypt0nian
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oatmeal said:
Bum Bum BUMMMMM!
ZephyrFate
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The FB group is now secret.
krypt0nian
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ZephyrFate said:
Whats the link again? Cause the old one just takes me to my home page.
krypt0nian
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ZephyrFate said:
Weird. Takes me right to my FB homepage.
ZephyrFate
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Because it's secret. You'd have to be invited by a member of the group. Just friend me -- facebook.com/mhcressmankrypt0nian said:
Father_Brain
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Lucario said:
Hookups are one thing. Anonymous sex, which I hope is what you're criticizing here, is another. It's important to make that distinction.
(For what it's worth, I haven't been much of a man-slut lately, and primarily not for lack of opportunity...)
Saint10118
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Not trying to be an asshole but I'm not sure I see a significant difference between "hooking up" with someone you meet while drunk at a club versus cutting out the middle-man and finding someone you've never met to fuck.Father_Brain said:
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