Bitmap Frogs
Mr. Community
I'd be one to know people like sexy characters, I'm a pinup artist. and here's no need to have every character designed that way. There's plenty of games where it makes sense within the theme to just have attractive characters looking cool, with great storytelling i. e Nier Automata, and there's plenty where it doesn't. "violent drama grounded in reality" is one of those where it doesn't.
There's a place of both and a "hot" female protagonist would work in a violent drama grounded in reality. Imagine a story about a bubblehead from a well-off family after the collapse. The loss of a privileged way of life would make things interesting. But at the end it's all about making choices that make sense for the story one wants to tell.
I think that what people tend to complain about is when it smells like there's an ulterior motive. Sometimes, you can feel an agenda behind the game. Have you played borderlands 3 recently? Excellent game but... not subtle when it comes to something like this.