Stay way from FFXIV, used to play it ALOT and also progression raid but it still falls short compared to WoW.
Area's are bland, every quest is a fetch quest i.e. get my cheese get me wine and slay 2 rats.
End-game raids are cool but not for the casual, you'll need a dedicated team to make any progress at all. You got casual raids and dungeons as well at end game but thats only one raid and 2 dungeons...
Basicly you'll be stuck at 60 at some point, grinding out 2 dungeons and a raid every week untill they add a few silly dungeons.
Horrid end-game and the PvP is laughable horrid, so much server lag that if you are a melee everyone is out of range while you are standing inside a person.
go with WoW