levelled almost sorely from 40-67 on dungeons and BGs... is there a system where people people get to be group leader priority if they have more random completed dungeons under their belts, or do i get priority because I am tank, because I always am leader?
I feel that im getting better at it. getting out of lvl 15-25 range, many of the stupid mistakes have been avoided, and i feel i dictate the groups pacing better... there is the occasional slipup or misunderstand - like this morning at 5 am, i was TC'ing all the scarabs in ZF, but healer was not behind me, so I pulled them all and we all died, but we still made it through and got most of the bosses!
but yeah...
I think, the thing that I have noticed in groups is that nothing productive comes from the people who highlight others peoples flaws or mistakes or playstyles by saying "you fail at X" or "are you a noob?" "WTF u doing?" and so on.
For me it has worked ten thousand times better, even with the problematic huntard, and other inane or annoying players to treat them with respect, and if i critisize them in some constructive way - I usually do it over pm as it does concern anyone else(usually). and I try not to sound condesending.
when people say "healer u fail" or something else just bothersome, that a inexperienced player cant use to anything, its best just to ignore them. It's just people pinpointing other peoples flaws. I think it's a realistic evil in this game, that people do dungeons while being occupied with other shit all the time. half the people you are playing with are probably doing other stuff while playing - eating, watching tv, chatting(in and out of the game) and so on.. are just tired and not aware.
It's that fucking complicated. It's just as in RL, where you naturally(or I at least) tend to not hang out with people who are negative and look at everything from the bad sides... people who look at the positives really seem to get the better results in the game.
But sometimes it's hard not to start a fucking war over some disrespectful player, who faults everyone - regardless of his own skill level. being a dick is being a dick, no matter how good you are, as it's a fucking game, and nobody will give a shit at the end of the day, as we're all just tryin to have fun(motherf**king obvious!).