It is just a bit alienating and makes me a bit uncomfortable as a parent of a young teen girl. I played Ys games back in the Turbo Graphx 16 era, and was interested in putting ttogether a run through the series. That conversation was enough to make me wonder about that plan to be perfectly honest.
That said, I'm still going to do so, as I love old school Japanese action RPGs, but I wonder if part of the issue is that small parts of the games are overly promoted/fawned over by their fans. Waifu wars and what not are really not my cup of tea, and seem to be a barrier to a portion of the gaming audience.
Seriously though, thanks for giving me more context.