Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Boney said:
I'll translate the last text from the husband. Not really confortable sharing this info but I'm lying if I didn't enjoy reading up before.
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Thank you...stereotypical cheater "I'm not a bad person" shtick. The guy seems more upset he got caught than what he did to his wife, glad the OP had the guts to do what he did.
 
Whiskeymatt said:
WE NEED MUSIC FOR THE FINAL CREDITS

Ebb to the left, flow to the right, the exit's unflawed!
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Nope, it's Spirit of the Champions.

Op with his potential new GF.

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Wow...I just caught up on the whole thread before looking at the last page. Well done! Lol

This is one of the reasons I venture to OT. This is gold haha
 
And that the end of the movie.:P

It good that this went pretty smooth for you, and those cheaters are getting what they deserve. Now to move on.
 
JoJoShabadoo said:
Last message from the husband

I've only been to your country once in my life, and it's true that I was on the verge of going this time. But I didn't. I'm not saying you're the bad guy from the movie, but you had no right to do this. I do apologize for getting involved with your woman, but as I've said, I've never done anything like this nor did I go out of my way to get it. It just happened, and I take responsibility for not stopping it from happening. I'm already paying for this, you can't even imagine how.
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Ha ha "you had no right to do this." What an ass.
 
stn said:
@MarkMclovin

Dude, chill out. Relax. Let's say this whole thread is a fake. Okay, so? We get entertainment, OP gets to feel like a loser for wasting his time making up a story. Also, I don't even see the need to make this kind of stuff up, its something any self-respecting man or woman would do (i.e. dump a cheater). Its not even that special, GAF is just making it so because lots of posters who have sought relationship advice have done the opposite.
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You know, this is the first time that somebody on GAF, has listened. Alot of people have been through heartbreak, cheating, womanizing and divorce and people here ignore their advice. Sometimes a guy needs a slap or punch in the face to think clearly and realize that he's not the culprit and should seek love elsewhere.
 
What a ride. I haven't posted anything until now, but that was awesome.

I vote for Revoh to be tagged: "Small dick, but TITANIC BALLS".
 
OddMorsel said:
As far as we all know he did keep it in his pants. Yes the reason given for him not showing up is that he was sick, but it's entirely possible he just decided to back out because it was wrong, and gave her the scarf anyway because he had already bought it in advance.
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Then he should have been a fucking man and said "I can't do this, it's wrong, I can't cheat on someone I made a vow to", returned the fuck scarf and went home to be a family man. But he didn't. So fuck that guy. The wife obviously feels the same or they'd still be together.
 
That husband is a fucking parasite. Dude starts hitting on another guy's girlfriend, has the intention of banging the girl, but only withdraws due to sickness. Then, he gets mad at the OP for telling his wife. I bet he would have tried to bang OP's ex at a later date, no question. I also bet he wouldn't have given a shit that he was not only hurting his own marriage but also screwing over the OP. The thought would never cross his mind.

Fuck that guy, so glad the OP sent his wife the logs.
 
we just need more from the ex now and then its complete

I NEED to know the conversation she had with the guy

" i got news...your girl about to find about me breh, we don goofed"
 
I followed this thread from the beginning...

It was biblical.

Jesus could not have put forth a parable of not being a cheating fuck better than OP, and OP turned the other cheek with flair.
 
I'm glad you're not an asshole Revoh. I'm so tired of assholes. So tired. You did this as professionally as you could. Cheating and domestic problems are horrible and the best medicine is informing everyone and everything. I'm so glad you're informing everyone possible and not going back and accepting status quo.

This has been a long day and I'm happy you, atleast, handled it like an adult.
 
Wait, are we 100 percent sure the wife knows? Has that been confirmed? Maybe its my overthinking, but are we sure the husband isn't manipulating op into thinking the wife knows and no need to pursue further?
 
Scorpion said:
Wait, are we 100 percent sure the wife knows? Has that been confirmed? Maybe its my overthinking, but are we sure the husband isn't manipulating op into thinking the wife knows and no need to pursue further?
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The wife asked for logs from OP, which OP happily provided.

As for the cheaters...

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NateDog said:
Pages and posts pls, I don't know where to start. Either way after reading the OP and this latest page, I'm glad you stuck it to them Revoh.
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Start from page #1...

Revoh. You are the real MVP man. And to be so humble in your attitude about it speaks to your character. I hope you have success in your future.
 
Well done, OP- although you would have received infinite points for ending your conversation with the husband by saying "Go home and be a family man."

*Guile theme*
 
I like you, Revoh. I hope things get better for you. I can only imagine how painful this was.

I like that you told the wife. Not because that guy deserved his life to be ruined, but because the wife should know. I would want to know, in her position.
 
Scorpion said:
Wait, are we 100 percent sure the wife knows? Has that been confirmed? Maybe its my overthinking, but are we sure the husband isn't manipulating op into thinking the wife knows and no need to pursue further?
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She knows.
I know it because the way she redacted her messages, she talks different than her husband. Also she asked for more logs, while I was receiving her messages I started to receive her husband's messages. They both started talking to me at the same time via Whatsapp.
She asked me how I got her number, then said "thanks for ruining a relationship of 11 years" which I said "I didn't ruin anything, your husband did by not taking control of his actions" and she said "yeah, you're right" (?)
I believe she blocked me on Whatsapp because I can't see her avatar anymore, or maybe she just deleted it. It was a picture of her and her loving husband giving each other a kiss.
 
Revoh said:
She knows.
I know it because the way she redacted her messages, she talks different than her husband. Also she asked for more logs, while I was receiving her messages I started to receive her husband's messages. They both started talking to me at the same time via Whatsapp.
She asked me how I got her number, then said "thanks for ruining a relationship of 11 years" which I said "I didn't ruin anything, your husband did by not taking control of his actions" and she said "yeah, you're right" (?)
I believe she blocked me on Whatsapp because I can't see her avatar anymore, or maybe she just deleted it. It was a picture of her and her loving husband giving each other a kiss.
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She's probably confused by all of it, so I wouldn't blame her. With that said, you absolutely did the right thing.

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You did good, Revoh. I would have done similar. I'm cold when it comes to breaking up a relationship with someone. Cheaters need to understand that once you break a heart you can't expect that heart to be there when it all comes to light.
 
Glad you took care of business Revoh. When he said "you had no right", I just wanted to toss a fist right into his gabber. Fuck. You're my hero dude.
 
Revoh said:
She knows.
I know it because the way she redacted her messages, she talks different than her husband. Also she asked for more logs, while I was receiving her messages I started to receive her husband's messages. They both started talking to me at the same time via Whatsapp.
She asked me how I got her number, then said "thanks for ruining a relationship of 11 years" which I said "I didn't ruin anything, your husband did by not taking control of his actions" and she said "yeah, you're right" (?)
I believe she blocked me on Whatsapp because I can't see her avatar anymore, or maybe she just deleted it. It was a picture of her and her loving husband giving each other a kiss.
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she's a emotional wreck no doubt. so probably understood it wasn't you once you told her the obvious. just needed some clarity.
 
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