Some updates on my dating situation GAF. So, last week I had to dates scheduled, one for Friday, and one for Saturday, both from tinder. The one on Saturday was actually a reschedule of a previous try that we were not able to go before. So, as I said before the Friday date (let's call the girl A) went pretty good, we ended up making out, and all that, and scheduling another date for next thursday.
Because of the Friday date, I went to the Saturday date (girl B) with a different mindset, more looking for a friend. The date was also pretty good, the girl is awesome, and the conversation flowed quite well through the entire duration of the date. However, my instincts were right, and she was much less compatible (in a romantic way) to me than girl A, so I did not try anything with her. Fortunatelly, it seems like she either thought the same of me, or took the fact that I wasn't romantically interested quite well, so no hard feelings from her.
Now, back to girl A, we ended up deciding to meet up yesterday, before our thursday date, and it went pretty well, we made out (a lot!) again, and she ended up inviting me to spend the night at her apartment. No sex, though, since she said it takes a while until she felt confortable enough for sex with someone new. Still, we ended up doing basically everything but sex, so the night was pretty good. Overall, I really like her. She's chill, we have enough in common, and the physical attraction is there. Another great point is that we were upfront and honest about our expectations, and I feel 0 pressure of her to advance this quickly to a relationship (especially because we are on our second date lol). We are going on another date tomorrow, and I'm spending the night at her place again (sorry about the stealth bragging lol).
So, things are pretty good! Thanks for all the previous advice guys, it really helped me with my anxiety about this whole thing.
