And I don't wanna hear "working with the team" as an argument because people coming into your DF aren't thinking about working with the team. they treat you as disposables while doing pathetic performance and just going for loot, because the game is designed that way. I am a firm believer that it's better to cause a wipe and make people learn something through mistakes than to raisebomb through encounter with your face and leave that one bard with a thought that they did nothing wrong
This mindset is why the OT constantly turns into "Tales of How Primals in PF Are Constant Suffering."
Seriously every single time the thread goes on a tear about how impossible clearing in PF is, I go join a random clear party to see if things have gotten worse. They haven't. People die to the same dumb stuff as always, tanks fail the same things, healers panic at the same spot, whatever. The key is literally making sure everyone thinks of mistakes as "How do we recover?" and not "X fucked up. We are going to wipe and it is his fault. PF is awful and full of people fucking up and this is impossible unless everyone else stops fucking up."
Which means, heals, sometimes you keep things rolling so the potato bard who can't jump rope doesn't trash the run. But what
actually happens is people realize this stuff isn't that hard. It's recoverable. The group moves from finger pointing and failure cascading every mistake to trying to actually get past it. The DPS is still PF DPS. The tanks still occasionally forget to cooldown. But they fuck up less, it dies. They farm, they get better.
This isn't even the RDM thing at this point, it's basic how2approach PUGs and how to make the community better instead of just crankier. People learn to work together when you make it an actual group effort. When it's just force wiping and finger pointing, people don't even understand the context of what is happening half the time. Nobody ever comes to the OT with tales of how I couldn't farm a primal because I couldn't handle the situation, it's always how bad everyone else is.
You fix that by helping people see shit is recoverable and getting them to think about what they can do differently.
None of it applies to statics but, seriously, people never blame themselves for things going to hell. Forcing a wipe isn't going to change that; forcing a recovery has a chance to actually improve how people approach the fight in future runs.