LordKasual
Banned
So yes I still feel that a RDM shouldn't be wasting their own MP and GCD to help the Healer out for whatever reason but at the end of the day I will end up doing it because I'm always wearing the Mentor Status so I will act the part.... except when I'm playing with my in real life friends.
You are not helping the healer, you are helping the raid
nobody cares about your MP or GCDs, if the party fails a DPS check, or the healers fall behind, or the tanks can't do mechanics, we're ALL going to die. And if YOU could have prevented it, then it's just as much your fault as the people who fucked up.
What you describe is the difference between a "good" RDM and a "bad" one. You should have rolled Black Mage or something where you didn't have to worry about the responsibility. Your mindset for raiding seems a bit skewed.