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nocsi

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ITT, I will catalogue my online dating. FYI, I'm in Seattle so it's like playing on hard-mode.
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My man, you have a type, don't you.

That is my only problem with living in the rural middle of nowhere - there are no Asian women at all.
I have the following in preferences:

[x] Asian
[x] Arab
[x] Hispanic/Latino
[x] Native American
[x] Pacific Islander
[x] White/Caucasian

I'm an asian guy in Seattle, it's hard-mode. This isn't like Austin where it was shooting fish in a barrel.
 
My man, you have a type, don't you.

That is my only problem with living in the rural middle of nowhere - there are no Asian women at all.

Not to generalize, but after having been married to an Asian woman for 20 years, I'm good. :P

Seriously though, all cultures have their own pros and cons in terms of the dating scene. Once you've seen some of the cons though, it can be hard to appreciate the pros as much.

Good luck op. Bang and release.
 
Not to generalize, but after having been married to an Asian woman for 20 years, I'm good. :p

Seriously though, all cultures have their own pros and cons in terms of the dating scene. Once you've seen some of the cons though, it can be hard to appreciate the pros as much.

Good luck op. Bang and release.

My ex was half-Japanese (born and raised there), and we knew each other/were together for about two years. I honestly never had an explicit "yellow fever" until after we broke up, and even then it is more for Japanese women, and a specific type as well. She was an otaku, gaming enthusiast, headstrong and fiery but cute when she wanted to be, basically the nerd dream.

I will say that my preferences tend to overlap with generic "Asian" physical features - round faces, dark and smooth hair, and petite and short figures. The first girl I had a relationship with had those same features, but she was white.
 
I married my wife through online dating so I kind of have to stick up for it although there were a few "I have 3 cobras, 7 spiders and a whole bunch of stuff not worth mentioning" people that honestly I'm ok with but understandably can see why they may still be trying hard but not finding anyone.
 
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I've always really enjoyed the online dating scene in London. I mean, its the only reason I want UK to remain in the EU. I was going through the list.

Had to run away from a couple of dates but overall, amazing.
 
How many times have you seen the pic of a chick standing in front of the "well behaved women don't make history" sign?
I think it might be some type of spawn site. :messenger_fearful:
 
Just find girls you find cute on IG and leave a witty comment or two. Then hit the dm's and cross your fingers. It's worked for me plenty. Shoot your shot. People talk shit about hitting the dm's but that's where it's at. How do you think all the pro athletes bang out all the IG thots? In the DM'S!
 
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I tried online dating for about 8 months. Never again. :messenger_expressionless:
I keep going back out of desperation - meeting people at work or a bar also seem equally horrible - with larger gaps in between..... But yea, I've never had any success even playing the numbers game. (And sending short messages, long ones, medium, sarcastic, smart, silly.... I've put the time. lol)

Best of luck OP, I'm with you morally.

Just find girls you find cute on IG and leave a witty comment or two. Then hit the dm's and cross your fingers. It's worked for me plenty. Shoot your shot. People talk shit about hitting the dm's but that's where it's at. How do you think all the pro athletes bang out all the IG thots? In the DM'S!
I mean, sure, just as I'm sure *someone* who has been cat called on a street has responded positively.... The two big questions here are A) What are your odds? and B) What type of girl is that?

You do you and do what you want, but finding someone of quality is not easy.
 
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Dating sites are scary... Especially the minimal requirements these thots ask for.
-6+ figure salary
- $500,000+ house
- PhD college degree
- 9 inche weiner
Plus some other dumb shii they always list.
 
I don't even know where to start.
It's hard to describe in a short forum post why I felt they were crazy rather than just not interested.

The craziest was probably the one that insisted to keep her bra on during sex. Fucking was okay but direct contact to her breasts was not. Found that so weird that I ended up not fucking her. She didn't have a job and lived alone and said she lived off her dead parents' money but it was about to run out. Later she got together with a friend of me, but that relationship abruptly ended when she randomly took his computer and threw it out of the window. Months later she messaged me she got HIV from some black guy and I was lucky I didn't fuck her. No contact afterwards.
 
The craziest was probably the one that insisted to keep her bra on during sex. Fucking was okay but direct contact to her breasts was not. Found that so weird that I ended up not fucking her. She didn't have a job and lived alone and said she lived off her dead parents' money but it was about to run out
I've had these, although not all in the same person. You're not alone.
 
I've met some really nice people online, even if things didn't work out. Also the odd one here or there.
"You seem pretty nice, want to grab a coffee sometime?" -I don't meet people from online. "Uhh, sure, cause I'm going to spike your hazelnut latte, gtfo."
 
My two years of online dating were.. interesting, to say the least.

Good luck and godspeed, my boy!
 
I live in a city between two major universities. So app dating for me is a constant nonstop flood of girls.

It's kind of amazing really.
 
I don't even know where to start.
It's hard to describe in a short forum post why I felt they were crazy rather than just not interested.

The craziest was probably the one that insisted to keep her bra on during sex. Fucking was okay but direct contact to her breasts was not. Found that so weird that I ended up not fucking her. She didn't have a job and lived alone and said she lived off her dead parents' money but it was about to run out. Later she got together with a friend of me, but that relationship abruptly ended when she randomly took his computer and threw it out of the window. Months later she messaged me she got HIV from some black guy and I was lucky I didn't fuck her. No contact afterwards.
I'm sorry you went through this, tbh. That's why I'm an incel.
 
Tried online dating, but its for the fucking birds.

Sex in and of itself isn't enough a motivator for me to spend time combing through superficial profiles/pics, checking messages, etc. I'd rather go out and meet people with the high probability of bombing.

To the people that have found someone special through online dating, I genuinely congratulate you.

You found that hay in the needle stack.

Tl;dr: my point is moot anyway because I met the love of my life at college.
Good luck on the path, OP. 👍👍
 
If OP is asian, I hope he's not dealing wih the kind of asian girl type who only date white guy.

Also, Yellow Fever is not a thing. White fever is.

White guys who go after Asian girl have usually no problem dating White girl or even Latina. Asian Girls are usually rather obsessed about dating white men and usually openly dismisses and diss their own men on the regular.
 
If OP is asian, I hope he's not dealing wih the kind of asian girl type who only date white guy.

Also, Yellow Fever is not a thing. White fever is.

White guys who go after Asian girl have usually no problem dating White girl or even Latina. Asian Girls are usually rather obsessed about dating white men and usually openly dismisses and diss their own men on the regular.

I wouldn't say "yellow fever" isn't a thing, but "white fever" is definitely real and rarely gets brought up in discussions about "racist" sexual preferences. Lighter skin is considered more attractive than darker skin in most Asian cultures.

They also like (not to brag) intelligent men as well. Intelligence never seems to be a priority with other women, from what I've seen.
 
If OP is asian, I hope he's not dealing wih the kind of asian girl type who only date white guy.

Also, Yellow Fever is not a thing. White fever is.

White guys who go after Asian girl have usually no problem dating White girl or even Latina. Asian Girls are usually rather obsessed about dating white men and usually openly dismisses and diss their own men on the regular.
Seattle is only #2 to SF for the type of Asian girl you are describing. But yea, by the time an asian girl gets to their 30's and all used up by white dudes, only then do they start to date asian guys. But, as an asian guy, you have to implement a smell test to weed those out. At the same time though, it doesn't really matter if you have a system for this. Not a D.E.N.N.I.S. system, but a grander system for dating and life.

1. Understand you shall not find your wifey material off bumble/tinder/CMB.
2. Keep fucking around on dating apps to maintain experience
3. If you want easier mode, get a dog.
4. If you can afford it, do bring them back to an airbnb instead of your dwelling. Bed bugs are some real shit in Seattle
5. Don't pay for shit
6. Cut them off after 6 months, or when they turn 30, whichever comes first.

I'll make a separate thread on hunting for wifey material. That's a different game and involves ham sandwiches and village girls
 
If OP is asian, I hope he's not dealing wih the kind of asian girl type who only date white guy.

Also, Yellow Fever is not a thing. White fever is.

White guys who go after Asian girl have usually no problem dating White girl or even Latina. Asian Girls are usually rather obsessed about dating white men and usually openly dismisses and diss their own men on the regular.

If Yellow Fever isn't a thing, someone will need to tell me what I have. Because I prefer Asian girls.
 
Seattle is only #2 to SF for the type of Asian girl you are describing. But yea, by the time an asian girl gets to their 30's and all used up by white dudes, only then do they start to date asian guys. But, as an asian guy, you have to implement a smell test to weed those out. At the same time though, it doesn't really matter if you have a system for this. Not a D.E.N.N.I.S. system, but a grander system for dating and life.

1. Understand you shall not find your wifey material off bumble/tinder/CMB.
2. Keep fucking around on dating apps to maintain experience
3. If you want easier mode, get a dog.
4. If you can afford it, do bring them back to an airbnb instead of your dwelling. Bed bugs are some real shit in Seattle
5. Don't pay for shit
6. Cut them off after 6 months, or when they turn 30, whichever comes first.

I'll make a separate thread on hunting for wifey material. That's a different game and involves ham sandwiches and village girls

Seattle is only #2 to SF for the type of Asian girl you are describing.

San Fran is first right?


an asian girl gets to their 30's and all used up by white dudes, only then do they start to date asian guys
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