Why I'm Making My Husband Miss The Super Bowl

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Yes. I was a state-level swimmer in high school.

Relay-swimming or individual? If the latter, I wouldn't consider that a team sport in the traditional sense where you are reliant upon others to win the objective at hand.

By this standard, I could be a dedicated Pokemon enthusiast, and meet a woman who also is extremely enthusiastic about Pokemon. Does that make Pokemon meaningful? By this standard, what isn't meaningful? Surely any subject could be something people bond over, be it sports or Pokemon or street signs.

Yes, it does. Is there something wrong with that?
 
And every day across the world, millions of people around the world derive enjoyment from the meaningless progression of a ball down a field whether you understand it or not.

This seems really simple to me. It only means something because they subjectively infuse it with meaning. Here's a simple breakdown. Let's compare special relativity to football. First, special relativity. There are two possibilities:

1) I think special relativity is boring or dumb: special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

2) I think special relativity is interesting and exciting; special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

Now football:

1) I think football is boring or dumb; football no longer works for me, and is no longer entertaining.

2) I think football is interesting and exciting: football works for me, and entertains me as advertised.

This is an extremely important distinction. If I find football boring, but love physics, while you find physics boring, but love football, my interests still help you every day, while football does not help me at all.
 
That is, our sources of entertainment are not derived from scientifically optimized study, but from the ebb and flow of cultural preferences. The way medicine "evolved" (or did not do so, rather) from the collapse of the Roman Empire in 400AD to the seventeenth century Italian Renaissance; any substantive "advancements" were significantly prohibited by cultural preferences which held medical science back.

Similarly, the cultural hegemony of currently popular sports significantly prohibits a real scientific approach to the subject. Most of our sports did not develop because they proved to be scientifically and objectively more entertaining than, say, European Rules Football, or Rugby, or Jai Alai; they just coincidentally happened to be the sports our culture grew up with. Similar to how religions evolve; there isn't anything that suggests Greek Paganism (Zeus, Athena, etc.) is more valid than Norse religious customs (Thor, Lo'ki, etc.). They just happened to develop those particular stories incidentally, not through controlled experimentation and optimization.
When I read this, I feel like I'm talking to a machine. I'm sorry, but there is no scientific equation for fun. :|
In general, I agree. However, I don't have a better way to empirically measure how effectively our entertainment is entertaining us. Do you? Honest question.
You can start at the smallest scale - is this enjoyable for me? After that, work your way up. Eventually you'll start seeing what demograph you fall into and what is common or shared between the masses. I think this is fun, we think this is fun, they think this is fun, etc.

"Sports have no objective meaning" has always been my position, at least. Other people have confused this with subjective meaning, but they're totally distinct arguments, and the latter is effectively a dead end. Of course they have subjective meaning; everything in the universe has subjective meaning, so that's the end of that.

In general, though, it's appropriate for discussion to evolve. I have certainly considered reasonable arguments by several posters here, for example. It would be a very bad sign if no one seemed to be considering the opinions of others and no one changed their minds at all.
Others have made objective arguments. Whether you speak of some of the most effective team building methods, financial ramifications, or social impact - sports is definitely meaningful.
A hobby that provide millions with jobs and are an indispensible source of entertainment and commerce.

Nothing is inherently enjoyable to everyone. This argument is nonsense.
Well said...

Almost every argument has ended with "I disagree, its meaningless". Whether we're talking about the social factor, the individual enjoyment, the greater scale where a multitude of lives are effected in many different ways - it still goes back to "I disagree, its meaningless". Would you say the Olympics are meaningless? The World Cup?
 
This seems really simple to me. It only means something because they subjectively infuse it with meaning. Here's a simple breakdown. Let's compare special relativity to football. First, special relativity. There are two possibilities:

1) I think special relativity is boring or dumb: special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

2) I think special relativity is interesting and exciting; special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

Now football:

1) I think football is boring or dumb; football no longer works for me, and is no longer entertaining.

2) I think football is interesting and exciting: football works for me, and entertains me as advertised.

This is an extremely important distinction. If I find football boring, but love physics, while you find physics boring, but love football, my interests still help you every day, while football does not help me at all.

If by watching football it soothes the savage beast and he develops a cure for cancer, it has helped you just fine.
 
Relay-swimming or individual?

I was only able to attain state level as the Butterfly arm of a relay. I also competitively swam the 500 and 100 Freestyle.

Yes, it does. Is there something wrong with that?

Of course, as it's a completely non-functional definition. If everything has "meaning," then saying something is "meaningful" is absolutely worthless -- of course it's meaningful, everything is! Meaning only has any relevant denotation if we discuss topics objectively.

If by watching football it soothes the savage beast and he develops a cure for cancer, it has helped you just fine.

If you can show me that football has specific, inherent properties that make it particularly good at "soothing the savage beast," as you call it, I'm perfectly willing to agree. Otherwise, staring at a chair could "sooth the savage beast," and then he cures cancer. Would that give chairs meaning? Of course not.
 
Absolutely, medicinal science isn't perfect and no doctor would argue otherwise. We also can't cure many diseases at all, such as type I pancreatic carcinoma. But your immunity to vaccine is not subject to your personal whims. This is an important distinction.

So the crux of your argument is that only things that cannot be condensed to "personal whim" are meangingful? You've chased your tail of semantics into a corner, friend.

What is human society if not an amalgation of individuals' "personal whims"? Preserving life with medicine and understanding the universe around us are based upon personal whims whose genesis can be traced to our natural instinct to survive and adapt. The same natural instinct that causes us to be competitive and sporting.
 
So the crux of your argument is that only things that cannot be condensed to "personal whim" are meangingful? You've chased your tail of semantics into a corner, friend.

What is human society if not an amalgation of individuals' "personal whims"? Preserving life with medicine and understanding the universe around us are based upon personal whims whose genesis can be traced to our natural instinct to survive and adapt. The same natural instinct that causes us to be competitive and sporting.
But... But... I want statistics on this matter!
 
If you can show me that football has specific, inherent properties that make it particularly good at "soothing the savage beast," as you call it, I'm perfectly willing to agree. Otherwise, staring at a chair could "sooth the savage beast," and then he cures cancer. Would that give chairs meaning? Of course not.

All I have to show is that following a hobby one enjoys has that effect, then any hobby becomes meaningful. Meaning is a personal thing, it cannot be assigned as part of some external truth.
 
I just realized that if Opiate was gold he would be Data from Next Gen
 
When I read this, I feel like I'm talking to a machine. I'm sorry, but there is no scientific equation for fun. :|

That's likely untrue. Our understanding of neuroscience isn't particularly adept yet, however. If you are correct, however, then fun has no objective value.

Almost every argument has ended with "I disagree, its meaningless". Whether we're talking about the social factor, the individual enjoyment, the greater scale where a multitude of lives are effected in many different ways - it still goes back to "I disagree, its meaningless". Would you say the Olympics are meaningless? The World Cup?

Of course! Obviously they are. How could you argue otherwise? I don't believe I've resorted to simple, matter-of-fact statements at all in this thread. I've explained my position at extreme length and in great detail.
 
This seems really simple to me. It only means something because they subjectively infuse it with meaning. Here's a simple breakdown. Let's compare special relativity to football. First, special relativity. There are two possibilities:

1) I think special relativity is boring or dumb: special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

2) I think special relativity is interesting and exciting; special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

Now football:

1) I think football is boring or dumb; football no longer works for me, and is no longer entertaining.

2) I think football is interesting and exciting: football works for me, and entertains me as advertised.

This is an extremely important distinction. If I find football boring, but love physics, while you find physics boring, but love football, my interests still help you every day, while football does not help me at all.

What if I don't use cellphones or any of the devices that arrived thanks to our understanding of special relativity? The understanding of special relativity thus wouldn't be helpful for me.
 
So the crux of your argument is that only things that cannot be condensed to "personal whim" are meangingful?

Correct.

You've chased your tail of semantics into a corner, friend.

What is human society if not an amalgation of individuals' "personal whims"? Preserving life with medicine and understanding the universe around us are based upon personal whims whose genesis can be traced to our natural instinct to survive and adapt. The same natural instinct that causes us to be competitive and sporting.

I'm not following this. Can you explain? What does our personal whim to follow medicine have to do with medicine's empirical efficacy? Again, whether we happen to care about medicine or not, it works. Even if we had never found a vaccine for Polio, that vaccine would have worked and would have been functional. Our personal whims -- whether we talk in singular or aggregate -- are irrelevant.
 
If you moved to France, the enjoyment didn't go anywhere; all the people that enjoy American Rules Football are still right there in America.



If you don't enjoy football, then it loses it's power to entertain vast amounts of people? I think not.


Even if you believe the super bowl is an ultimately silly meaningless game, on Super Bowl Sunday millions of people all across America find meaning and enjoyment in it.

Good point. Vaccines don't help all humans but that doesnt lose its value for those it does help. Just as you said with American Rules Football, the population that doesn't enjoy it doesn't have an impact on those that do.
 
What if I don't use cellphones or any of the devices that arrived thanks to our understanding of special relativity? The understanding of special relativity thus wouldn't be helpful for me.

But they would still work if you ever chose to use them.

Here would be the exact analogue; if I found American Rules Football boring or actively disgusting, and then nonetheless was entertained when I watched it, that would be strong evidence that it had objective value; it entertains people whether they want to be entertained or not.

Cell phones work whether you use them or not. Vaccines would prevent disease whether you happen to get vaccinated or not. Football does not entertain you if you don't find it interesting.

Here's an important and implicit assumption underlying this discussion: do the people I'm arguing with here think some people are better than others? Because I feel strongly that they are. By what metrics do we define some people as better than others?
 
But football does work even if you're not watching it. Games are still being played. Revenue is still being generated. Fans are still cheering for their teams.
 
That's likely untrue. Our understanding of neuroscience isn't particularly adept yet, however. If you are correct, however, then fun has no objective value.
If you're actually trying to use EFUs (Empirical Fun Units) to measure fun's meaningfulness then.... I can't really continue this trip down the rabbit hole.

edit: I still can't wrap my mind around what you just said. Are you human? I've never seen someone try to actually measure and scientifically assign value to fun.
Of course! Obviously they are. How could you argue otherwise? I don't believe I've resorted to simple, matter-of-fact statements at all in this thread. I've explained my position at extreme length and in great detail.
We were talking about being objective though, right? Even if you want to get into tangibles, sport is a huge industry in itself.
 
But football does work even if you're not watching it. Games are still being played. Revenue is still being generated. Fans are still cheering for their teams.

The function of football is not to be played. The function is to entertain. It does not function if I do not enjoy it.

DY_Nasty said:
If you're actually trying to use EFUs (Empirical Fun Units) to measure fun's meaningfulness then.... I can't really continue this trip down the rabbit hole.

Our understanding of neuroscience is incredibly nascent, but we're talking about the empirical basis for happiness in the brain. It would surely be possible to measure how it works and what triggers it in people objectively.

DY_Nasty said:
We were talking about being objective though, right? Even if you want to get into tangibles, sport is a huge industry in itself.

Again, argumentum ad populum. Things are not important just because they are big industries. Shoe fashion is a big industry that employs tens of thousands if not millions of people around the world, and generates billions of dollars annually. That doesn't make shoe fashion actually meaningful.
 
Of course, as it's a completely non-functional definition. If everything has "meaning," then saying something is "meaningful" is absolutely worthless -- of course it's meaningful, everything is! Meaning only has any relevant denotation if we discuss topics objectively.

I'd argue that your pre-conceived notions of what society should and should not be doing based on an "objective criteria" that you established ls inherently a subjective argument. You are dismissing others ideals and views based on your own subjective preferences of what they should be doing.

Arguing, for example that we should spend more to understand the laws of physics than watching sports because it helps us advance many more different aspects is and should not be an argument against sports fandom. It also does not negate the objectively measurable positive outcomes that sports fandom provides to society. Yes, the former is more important and has more objective meaning, but that does not negate the latter's objective meaning because it ranks lower on how much more or less important it is to the advancement of society.
 
The function of football is not to be played. The function is to entertain.
Their are a number of functions that football serve.

But if the sole function of football was to entertain, even if I personally didn't find it entertaining it would still be serving it's function by entertaining others.

This is an objective fact.
 
Here's an important and implicit assumption underlying this discussion: do the people I'm arguing with here think some people are better than others? Because I feel strongly that they are. By what metrics do we define some people as better than others?

Actually, that's what your arguments sound like.
 
I'm not following this. Can you explain? What does our personal whim to follow medicine have to do with medicine's empirical efficacy? Again, whether we happen to care about medicine or not, it works. Even if we had never found a vaccine for Polio, that vaccine would have worked and would have been functional. Our personal whims -- whether we talk in singular or aggregate -- are irrelevant.
From my understanding of Trey's post: personal whim lead to the discovery. Observations are key, but the pursuit of answers to the greater mystery of what causes polio is certainly a personal whim.

Either that, or someone put a gun to Salk's head and replied, "You got ten minutes."
 
I'm not following this. Can you explain? What does our personal whim to follow medicine have to do with medicine's empirical efficacy? Again, whether we happen to care about medicine or not, it works. Even if we had never found a vaccine for Polio, that vaccine would have worked and would have been functional. Our personal whims -- whether we talk in singular or aggregate -- are irrelevant.

Medicine is meaningful because we (humanity) decided living was important. Personal health was preferred to death and destruction, not because we can prune ourselves down to a science little by little. That was a conscious choice made in human history; encouraged by natural instinct. Alongside this, Human desire for glory in competition and physical excellence evolved into sports, and have become a core pillar of our society and cultural make-up. Today's sports are are science, just with much more cultural impact.

We have medicine so that we may live, learn, and enjoy things, which includes sports. As much as scientists try to understand the human body, philosophers try to understand the human condition, there are analysists and game theorists that try to understand the game theory of and about sports. About prediction and cause-and-effect. Understanding chaotic systems.

Sports are a science, produce irreplaceable commerce, and are a natural tendency of our species as a recreational outlet.

Cell phones work whether you use them or not. Vaccines would prevent disease whether you happen to get vaccinated or not. Football does not entertain you if you don't find it interesting.

Just because you don't find Football entertaining, others still do.
 
Their are a number of functions that football serve.

But if the sole function of football was to entertain, even if I personally didn't find it entertaining it would still be serving it's function by entertaining others.

This is an objective fact.

Literally anything can be entertaining subjectively. You are effectively arguing that everything is meaningful, by this definition, which is obviously silly.

reilo said:
Actually, that's what your arguments sound like.

I don't understand. Can you explain?
 
Medicine is meaningful because we (humanity) decided living was important.

Incorrect. Medicine is meaningful because it accomplishes its intended purpose whether we happen to know about it or not, not because we decided living is important. Your understanding of my entire premise is faulty and the conclusions based on this are therefore invalid.

Let me put this more directly: even if we had never discovered science based medicine, it would still be meaningful.

Wanderingwind said:
GAH. Okay, you're just being ridiculous now. This is NOT a valid response to every fucking question.

This isn't correct. Look at how many responses I have in this thread. I ask for clarification often, but have an enormous wealth of very direct and elaborate responses as well. This is a discussion: asking questions and understanding the other side is important. In fact, I'm only discussing this because I hope to learn new things!

ClovingSteam said:
Whose perspective?

Ah, we're discussing the difference between playing (or administering) sports and watching them. Yes, I agree, those are different; for the purposes of this thread, we're discussing watching sports.
 
You don't feel that this is true? What is the function of sports, then?

They serve a multitude of functions, from business to competition to entertainment. Focusing on one aspect and assuming it represents the whole seems a little myopic to me.
 
Let me put this more directly: even if we had never discovered science based medicine, it would still be meaningful.

To who?

Opiate said:
This isn't correct. Look at how many responses I have in this thread. I ask for clarification often, but have an enormous wealth of very direct and elaborate responses as well. This is a discussion.

No, it's only a discussion if you're listening. What we have here is people bashing their head against the wall that is your feigned ignorance of the human condition.
 
Our understanding of neuroscience is incredibly nascent, but we're talking about the empirical basis for happiness in the brain. It would surely be possible to measure how it works and what triggers it in people objectively.
You're trying to measure enjoyment. The next step immediately after that is trying to assign values to emotion.
Again, argumentum ad populum. Things are not important just because they are big industries. Shoe fashion is a big industry that employs tens of thousands if not millions of people around the world, and generates billions of dollars annually. That doesn't make shoe fashion actually meaningful.
To you

But we're talking objectivity right? Whether you like it or not, its still going to have meaning to others. I have no significant feelings towards fashion. That doesn't mean that the fashion industry will collapse due to me not caring. In the same example you brought up earlier with gravity - the effect, the meaning, will still be there even if you don't have feelings one way or the other regarding it.
 
I don't understand. Can you explain?

By proclaiming people that find meaning in sports "silly", you are trying to place yourself on an "objective scale" where you come out as a more "enlightened" person because you proclaim that sports should hold no meaningful value to society. Therefore you are (intending to or not) claiming that people that do find sports meaningful are somehow inferior because they should be spending their time on more "objectively meaningful" activities instead.
 
Incorrect. Medicine is meaningful because it accomplishes its intended purpose whether we happen to know about it or not, not because we decided living is important. Your understanding of my entire premise is faulty and the conclusions based on this are therefore invalid.

Let me put this more directly: even if we had never discovered science based medicine, it would still be meaningful.

This is not your original statement. By this statement, football is meaningful because it provides entertainment, if, as you assert, it's goal is to entertain.
 
Incorrect. Medicine is meaningful because it accomplishes its intended purpose whether we happen to know about it or not, not because we decided living is important. Your understanding of my entire premise is faulty and the conclusions based on this are therefore invalid.

Let me put this more directly: even if we had never discovered science based medicine, it would still be meaningful.

Hmmm - what about those that don't believe in medicine and would rather let their children die than take advantage of treatment?
 
The function of football is not to be played. The function is to entertain. It does not function if I do not enjoy it.

The function of sports is first and foremost to be played. I think others in this thread have already said a main draw of watching sports is the vicarious experience of playing and being part of a team, community, etc. A sport that isn't played/performed can't entertain.

Being a part of a community, suffering hardship, achieving success, and so on is an intrinsic part of playing football, and coincidentally, being a human being. People are humans whether they care to be or not, so sports offer meaningful insights into their own nature.
 
Sports have no deeper meaning.

This seems really simple to me. It only means something because they subjectively infuse it with meaning. Here's a simple breakdown. Let's compare special relativity to football. First, special relativity. There are two possibilities:

1) I think special relativity is boring or dumb: special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

2) I think special relativity is interesting and exciting; special relativity still works for me, and I can still use cell phones, which can only function thanks to our understanding of these principles.

Now football:

1) I think football is boring or dumb; football no longer works for me, and is no longer entertaining.

2) I think football is interesting and exciting: football works for me, and entertains me as advertised.

This is an extremely important distinction. If I find football boring, but love physics, while you find physics boring, but love football, my interests still help you every day, while football does not help me at all.

So why the term switch? Play is a very important, learning trait of many animals and sports have been a part of man's civilization from the start. Why do you use your disinterest in football to prove that all sports are meaningless? And what is this 'deeper meaning'? You seem to have a very rigid and subjective value system but have taken up this pretense to absolute objectivity. Frankly, it's really offensive and comically misinformed.
 
Incorrect. Medicine is meaningful because it accomplishes its intended purpose whether we happen to know about it or not, not because we decided living is important. Your understanding of my entire premise is faulty and the conclusions based on this are therefore invalid.

Let me put this more directly: even if we had never discovered science based medicine, it would still be meaningful.

This is false. The manipulations of our body for our gains is wholly predicated upon what we want as a society. There is no meaning unless we give it one. Medicine does not exist without humans, nor humanity's whims.

"Objectively meaningful" is a human creation. For us by us.
 
Literally anything can be entertaining subjectively. You are effectively arguing that everything is meaningful, by this definition, which is obviously silly.



I don't understand. Can you explain?

Whether or not something is meaningful is totally subjective. There can't be such a thing as objective meaning.
 
I don't understand. Can you explain?

I'm with WanderingWind on this one...

Because you don't feel that sports are important, you're kinda doing exactly what you were just talking about. "Here's an important and implicit assumption underlying this discussion: do the people I'm arguing with here think some people are better than others? Because I feel strongly that they are. By what metrics do we define some people as better than others?"

Yeah. It sounds pretty hypocritical - especially after the whole "If I find football boring, but love physics, while you find physics boring, but love football, my interests still help you every day, while football does not help me at all." thing.
 
Holy shit has this thread crawled all the way up it's own ass or what?

Anyway, to return to the OP, this woman sounds crazy and controlling, and anyone who places such importance on arbitrary dates like anniversaries would bug the shit out of me.
 
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