A Tale of 'Merica and Milk - I just walked out and abandoned a job interview. FML.

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OP is going to end up with an even better job in like 2 weeks time and post a gloat thread.

Then GAF will assplode and I will eat it up.

On the topic of "are some things not worth doing, even if you need the money?" I'm going to vote yes. I can't claim the impoverished background of some posters, but I have been through some pretty lean times in my life. Each of those times, there was a possibility of eating shit to get by, but I always chose not to, even though it was scary, and in retrospect I am happy with all of those decisions.

That's fine and it's great that things worked out for you.

But do you really think that waiting 45 mins for an interview when you are unemployed is the equivalent of "eating shit"?
 
You guys do know that Lionel works in the IT field in Atlanta? He's probably spent his evening smoking cigars with his employed buddies and laughing at poor Thacker.

The plot twist is that Lionel was the other interviewee.

Can we at least keep the thread open until Lionel shows up?

That's the only reason this thread is still up I'm assuming.

It's only a half-gallon, so maybe next time.

Lucky. Right now I'm just a bluthering mess of a human myself, wallowing in my womanhood.
 
are you really trying to make this into some social cause célèbre? This isn't about friggin wealth inequality and middle class disappearing. It's about one individual making an obscenely silly mistake in a potential job opportunity, overvaluing his own time over others in the process, being so profoundly inept in basic job interview etiquette that you literally walked out without even bothering to ask the assistant what was going on. Because she was too busy?

Think about this for a second. Even if you were right, what does this all say about you?

1. You lack the assertiveness to speak up for yourself and ask an assistant what is going on? Probably poorly follows directions/poor in social situations.

2. You lack the ability to ask for instructions or learn how the interview process was going to work. Probably would have a tough time following basic guidelines for projects you'd be working on. Probably would lack the social graces to ask if he didn't know the answer.

3. You're incredibly insulting to others merely by the tone of your attitude. I mean that letter of yours is truly remarkable. You're basically telling the guy your time is worth more than his, in about as nails-on-chalkboard a way as possible. The guy was practically a saint how he responded back to you. More than even walking out of the interview, this letter suggests you're probably currently incapable of being apart of a functional work group.

4. You KEEP defending the wrong, trying to say you had some gut feeling or some shit, rather than saying "you know what, i'm young, I really needed this job, I fucked up. On the next job interview I'm going to ace this shit. Thanks NeoGAF for the advice!" I can't even list the number of ways this attitude alone would fuck you in the long term for any decent job.

All of this. Your reaction, OP, highlights major character flaws that may or may not be true. Unfortunately, that manager is probably glad he didn't hire you.
 
OP is going to end up with an even better job in like 2 weeks time and post a gloat thread.

Then GAF will assplode and I will eat it up.

On the topic of "are some things not worth doing, even if you need the money?" I'm going to vote yes. I can't claim the impoverished background of some posters, but I have been through some pretty lean times in my life. Each of those times, there was a possibility of eating shit to get by, but I always chose not to, even though it was scary, and in retrospect I am happy with all of those decisions.

OP can't post a gloat thread if he is permed. Is he permed?
 
I wouldn't be surprised if the supervisor did this on purpose to test your desire for the job, it's an extreme bull market right now for companies with hundreds of applicants for practically every job, and thus they are looking for those who will not only go above and beyond the call of duty, but give up their own egos simply to see who wants it more.
 
You guys do know that Lionel works in the IT field in Atlanta? He's probably spent his evening smoking cigars with his employed buddies and laughing at poor Thacker.

He probably set this up so that he could do his thing and be once again relevant.
We're just muppets, OP knew.
 
Lionel is the interviewer.

Lionel is Thacker.

He's fed up with summarizing other threads, he wanted to see if anyone would summarize his.

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Fooled you all didn't I?
 
I'm sorry but it really rubs me the wrong way when someone accuses GAFers of being submissive men when the reason he had a problem finding a job in the first place was because he punched and shoved his girlfriend and got arrested for it

What? Damn.


Darn, I completely missed in that thread where he finally said what it was over

Mutual "fight" with my girlfriend at the time in her apartment. Neither wanted to press charges.. State picked up charges against me three months later.

Mr awesome..
Just fyi
She beat me over the head with a phone and now works as upper management for an insurance firm.

I'm unemployable and have been for years.. And and begging anyone for a decent opportunity.

I just want this off my record. That's all the thread was posted for and to share my story. It's not just me.. There's millions just like me I promise you.

Well darn.
 
A tame insult vs. promoting violence against women. You're right, what you said is much better.

But you're derailing the topic, take it to PM's tough guy.
You are the one insulting gaf members personally. That doesn't tend to be a winning strategy. And tough guy? You seem to have some issues. I wish you well.
 
For reals? That's amazing.
You're seriously asking this?

Edit: would a mod mind telling us if Thacker was permmed or not? Just so we know whether to we can ever expect to receive closure to this saga.
 
GAF I just drank a glass of milk before checking this thread....

Am I going to turn into some wuss who waits for a job interview I desperately need?

cuz fuck that shit
 
You're seriously asking this?

Edit: would a mod mind telling us if Thacker was permmed or not? Just so we know whether to we can ever expect to receive closure to this saga.

I just wanna know if he was agreeing with himself with an alt or not, because both that junior and him got banned super quick.
 
If you want a job then go get it, don't wait for it to come to you. Sitting around for 45 minutes is waiting... ask the receptionist how long the process will be or if they need to reschedule. Timidly waiting for someone to tell you what you need to know is not the hallmark of a reliable and independent employee.

Maybe OP can learn from this experience.

Exactly. I'd want a potential candidate to be assertive in that situation.

Then again, as an applicant, I wouldn't want to go near a company that was this discourteous to potential employees.
 
I just wanna know if he was agreeing with himself with an alt or not, because both that junior and him got banned super quick.

I feel like that may be just an overly excited new member who had lurked for a long time looking to make his mark on GAF. It didn't go as planned.
 
This is a pretty shitty thread all around.

Thatcher for fanning the flames
and GAF for constantly calling the guy a loser and making fun of his parents.
 
I have a job interview tomorrow for a job that I'm not sure I want or will get, but it's clerical work and it appears to pay well.

I actually haven't had a real job interview since 2011.

Last job I got, I wore a suit and the worst possible tie that I could because it was for a radio show. I got that job almost immediately.

But most of my other interviews were at retail/sales positions. I got handed back my resume because of the following reasons.

  • The top of my resume was clerical work for the Internal Revenue Service. I guess people think that I would be dishonest for working for the government. I had level 4 security clearance at that job. I was entrusted with billions of dollars worth of ACTUAL MONEY and checks. But people think the IRS is untrustworthy. ;_;
  • The next two items on my resume were management positions. I remember applying at a theater and the lady doing the interview asked me if I had any questions. I asked her how long she had been with the theater. She apparently had been there three months and was already a manager. Then she handed me my resume and said that she was happy with keeping her job and that's why she wasn't going to hire me. :-(

But I think this should be fine.

Also, it's really awful that the person doing the interview was so inconsiderate. I would send an e-mail stating that I had personal business to attend to and had to leave. Then I would see if I could reschedule that interview.
 
Come on man, you can make fun of him without calling him a loser.

He spent pretty much this whole thread telling all of GAF that we're losers, you realize that right?

Edit: I also like milk, especially chocolate milk, so I guess I am a loser and submissive. lol
 
Come on man, you can make fun of him without calling him a loser.

Apparently the thing to do is call people losers. I've been banned before for suggesting a negative quality about a gaf poster, but this shit seems to fly okay in this thread. Yay :/

He spent pretty much this whole thread telling all of GAF that we're losers, you realize that right?

And so? You have to sink to his level and insult him back?
 
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