Let me preface by saying I know I'm in the fortunate position of currently having a job, and for that I am very lucky and thankful... certainly don't mean to bother those actively on the hunt; so feel free to skip my question. That said, it doesn't really call for a new thread.
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Been at my current job for more than five years. Pay is good. Worked hard, changed positions a few times, and have managed to basically triple my salary since starting over the years.
Got a call from the lead of HR for another company, and they asked if I'd be interested in a particular position nearby. I'm not really looking, but I actually know this HR person on a professional level from other stuff, and she said she knows I'm exactly what they're looking for.
She explains the job and we set up a breakfast meeting with the CEO.
Then later that week, an hour with their primary developer.
Then I came in to the office for the first time, and had back-to-back interviews with the VP of Sales and VP of IT. Things went well.
A week passes, and CEO wants to talk to me again. No prob! We meet for breakfast, and a 30 minute chat turns into almost an hour.
Then two weeks of silence. I contact my HR person, and she says she's working on it.
A week later, she calls and apologizes; says I'm their #1 pick and they're working to make me an offer. We have a follow-up call and she says something similar a few days later.
Another 2 weeks.
I check-in, and she says they're working on an on-boarding plan, but she hopes to have something to me by the "end of the week." Apologizes for taking so long, but assures me again that the offer is coming.
Monday, it'll have been 4 weeks since then.
It's a great opportunity. I'll be great at it. I know they like me. It's better money. And they keep telling me I'm their pick.
But it's now been 3+ months, and 3-4 weeks without follow-up. Honestly, at this point, I'm the one who reached out every time before... I'm about done playing this game. I know things take time, but for "end of the week" to turn into three more, I'm a bit frustrated.
I'm currently employed. So thankful. But any thoughts on what I should take from this? I've pretty much forgotten about it, but every few days I'm reminded that I'm still waiting, and it admittedly bugs me a bit.