Thanks for the advice everyone!
I used to have a normal XL before it got stolen/lost so I'm kind of used to the big screens. The main reason I love my 2DS was the comfort factor. So much more comfortable than the original 3DS and original XL. I still kind of miss the big screens but I tolerate the 2DS screen size because I got it for really cheap.
The reason I brought up Xenoblade is that I remember the text being super tiny on Wii. I could see it being a bit of an issue on a normal 3DS screen, especially for long play sessions.
I didn't know about the d-pad chipping apart on XL units though. I remember that was a problem on the original 3DS, but my launch one never ended up with those issues strangely enough.
Ahh shoot it's kind of hard to decide. Reminds me of when my friend mulled for a week over getting a 6S or a 6S Plus. I totally understand now, haha.