We have Wynne right now in Ontario, and right now only the sex-ed crazies are thrashing her "forcing her sexuality on us" as her sexual identity. So who knows for the other provinces.
PEI has an openly gay premier too. I think there are still some pockets of resistance to the idea of a LGBTQ leader, but in a general election it wouldn't be an issue.
Of course, getting to the general election may be difficult without the support of the base to make you leader, so that would be a bit of a challenge for someone like Baird, but even then, I don't think it's as big an issue.
What, exactly, do red tories stand for? Are they just less extreme? Or do they really stand for progressive issues, and if so why are they still members of the Conservative Party?
I always understood it as being fiscally conservative, socially progressive. Liberal-lite, basically -- the PCs were the moderate party ready to take over from the Liberals during their brief stints out of office. The Reform Party comes from Western Canadian populism, the same anti-establishment feeling that created Social Credit, the Progressive Party (who joined with the original Conservatives in the '40s when the old Conservatives were trying to woo a new leader), the CCF, and the NDP.
As for why they'd be CPC members...no idea. I was one, and I ended up switching to the Liberals (following brief periods with the NDP and the Greens), since I didn't see any way that the merged party would represent my beliefs -- not when the Reform side was in charge.
To the few people who say the Liberals won only because of the vote of the NDP:
I think the Liberals won because about a million Liberal-turned-NDP voters returned to their original party, as did a few million more Liberal voters who had just stayed home during the Martin/Dion/Iggy years. I'm sure there was the odd Tory who supported the Liberals, but not enough to be statistically significant. Note all those polls that showed the overwhelming majority of CPC voters had no second choice: they supported their party no matter what.