not really, because it's implied Luke was running a school. Those were kids and adolescents, not grown men.
Kylo then carved a bloody swath across the galaxy as part of the first order. Han dying is tragic and all, but it's clear that Leia and Han are aware that he's been influenced by the dark side (presumably Snoke) since birth, and know the behavior isn't entirely his choice.
The entire point of Han's death scene, IMO, was to drive home the point that there IS a choice. And he ultimately chose the dark side. Sure he was seduced and groomed by Snoke but he had every chance to leave with Han and return to his family. That's the way I interpreted it anyway. Not having any choice makes for pretty bad storytelling, especially in SW.