I think you missed the point
Or I'm contributing to the conversation in a way you don't like?
I get that it's kind of messed up for your brother to call someone fucked up for doing something they chose to modify their body.
My point is we are all well within our right to choose who we are attracted to for whatever reason. Like I don't get all butthurt if a girl isn't attracted to me because she prefers a clean shaven face