Acerac
Banned
So... doing it consistently makes it ok? I must admit I don't understand, but I really think going forward this is a conversation better left to PMs.chilly always talks like that, im new here too but you really shouldnt take anything he says seriously ( except when he starts fanboying about the emperor)
he does not mean anything harmful or mean at all wih his gay hell comment
Apologies again for all the non-Exvius talk in the thread.
Edit: Just saw your other post. Understandable but being Chilly is himself a gay man I see no reason why he can't use the word even in the context given. /shrug
Like... I get it? I just really never understood the whole "taking back the word" thing and preferred to just not hang around people who used similar terms at all.
It wasn't lost on me, I assure you.It's more of a drive-by situation for you. Those of us that have been in this community a while know Chilly's sexual orientation and if you know that, you know his comment most definitely isn't meant to be offensive regardless if you know he's quoting a film or not.
What everyone says is true, there is no ill will meant by the phrase. Having said that, if that particular phrase bothers you, I can most certainly refrain from saying it. In its own way, the phrase brings, to me, connotations of humor, positivity. But I can understand that it might not to some people, maybe even most people, in the gay community.
I'm quite easy going, all things considered
Personally, and I imagine most everyone here feels the same way, I don't want anyone to leave the community we have here in this thread ^.^
I understand what you're saying. While I don't share your feelings on such things, I can absolutely respect where you're coming from.
I didn't mean for this to blow up as it did.
*Note*
I'm not making any more posts about this I'm just editing this one I've spammed this thread enough about offtopic things.