demosthenes said:
My friend still fights in WoW and does quests and kills stuff when he makes new characters, I consider that grinding. What about LotRO and WAR though, how you progress?
Really? He does the same eight quests every 36 hours? Interesting way to play. You consider killing anything ever a grind? You consider doing any quest ever a grind? Perhaps you need to tak a new look at how grinding can be obscured through varied content.
In my opinion something becomes a grind when it is overly repetitive. In games like WoW/LotRO/WAR you can do various things to gain XP and keep changing them.
In WoW the quests are stuff like flying on birds/bats dropping bombs on dudes, going into the spirit world to explore the land in a different way, or jousting in a tournament for your city's honor. Plus if I get bored of questing I'll pop open the Dungeon Finder and do a few instanced dungeons with friends, or maybe I'll hop into some PvP battlegrounds.
In LotRO there is an "Epic" questline (yes, that's what it's actually called) that follows you as you level through the game. Every level there are 2-4 quests in this storyline that have you going all over the world. Sometimes you go into dungeons, sometimes you help a city that is being attacked. Some of this is done alone, some with PC partners, some with NPC partners. All of it is voiced and has little cutscenes that explain the story as you go. Another option for leveling is to go into Skirmishes, which are instanced areas that scale from 1-12 players (in both XP and loot rewards) and everyone gets a fully talentable NPC that they can turn into any mix of a class or two and helps them out while fighting.
In WAR, it's a bit more grindy but they have a good mix of quests and PVP. There's even things call Public Quests that anyone in an area can join. These are normally PVP objectives that reward players that defend a tower or base from the other side. You can also participate in Realm vs Realm PVP which are massive battles that can be joined at various level ranges and let anyone get a good PVP experience while still getting XP.