After about two weeks now I'm at:
Phys rank 25
Pug 20, Marauder 12, Lancer 10, Archer 11, Thaum 4, Goldsmith 15, Miner 14, Weaving 4, Leather 3 or 4.
In all that time I think I would have to say that the game as is, is shit. Not the usual bad in the sense that the technology running it is a clusterfuck as is common with MMO launches, and not bad in the sense that the gameplay issues can't be fixed and are not likely to be fixed, but bad in the sense that there is utterly no point to play the game.
There's just no content. There's a lot of empty holes that they've not initiated that shows us where this will be, but of course that's all well and good before launch but definitely unacceptable at launch.
The lore is only confined to the main missions which only come every 5 ranks or so, and that is far and few in between. The story from leves are fairly mediocre and so far has my epic adventurer doing pest control or crating genital piercings (This is not an exaggeration, I'm literally crafting genital piercings for brothels in Ul'dah)
So instead of any motivation to play FFXIV specifically, all we do is stat grind our craft, jobs, or harvest abilities for the ultimate goal that some day, hopefully soon, we will have something else to do and we won't have to wait to do them.
What makes things worse is that despite the claim that this is a casual game, the grind is in fact worse than in FFXI, and I say this from playing since Cactuar. I can still continue because grinding is easy and I'm used to it, but how many other people will play this game at this incline filled with nothingness?
I cannot in good conscience recommend the game as is. I'll save the buddy pass until Square-Enix releases the actual game they're holding back for who knows what reason.