So I dragged some dumb jackass back to the game a few months into 3.4, and proceeded to rush through gearing so we could go kill a plane robot thing. This involved going into a Sophia learning PF with the new person, spending a few hours watching the group improve to the point of eventually clearing, and then getting the clear and parting ways with that group. Later, having gotten rid of the jackass' newbie bonus, I set up a farm PF with a requirement of "Please be able to farm." I get a /tell from some WAR I've never heard of with: "I've seen the whole fight but don't have a clear, can I join?"
He respects me enough to be up-front about the situation, which is a solid indicator he actually believes he knows the fight since he's not scared of me knowing he hasn't cleared. I tell him cool, but if it's a problem I'll ask him to leave. He joins, I explain to the farm party that I brought in an uncleared guy, if he's a problem he'll step out, but if anybody else objects pls go now. Nobody leaves.
We go in, we have like two early wipes, then we farm the thing. New guy gets his clear, his tokens, and eventually his weapon. The guy I set the party up for gets his shit. Everyone that joined the farm gets their promised farm. It's a good experience!
But the new guy did fuck up a little more than average, and we covered for it, and he got better over time.
Switch the situation to him sneaking into a farm party, bonus message popping up out of nowhere, and suddenly the entire party is side-eyeing each other looking for a liar. There's a base lack of respect there that makes the early wipes or mistakes proof of a problem. That version of things probably goes poorly.
So, like, I'm having a really hard time with the great evil being a button that lets people be clear about their party requirements and prevents you from lying your way in because it's essentially being upset that you can't disrespect 7 other people for your own personal glorification.