The One and Done
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Is that your litmus test for everything? How does someone being murdered in Chicago for the $50 in their wallet affect you?
Violence begets violence. Also I live in Chicago.
Is that your litmus test for everything? How does someone being murdered in Chicago for the $50 in their wallet affect you?
Sorry. Hadn't seen your post while I was writing mine.See my above post.
I wonder why those who are pro-life don't support increasing funds for adoption purposes anywhere to the extent they support inaccurate sex education and closing down women's clinics (that only have abortion as a small part of their services.)Or the buck is passed onto someone else, like someone seeking adoption or the government. Which does happen frequently.
The other person who willingly created that person, and who had 21 weeks to change her mind?
I don't know what the process of abortion is like but I imagine I'd rather do that then be forced to give up 18 years of my life taking care of something I don't want to take care of. The latter seems way more extreme and awful to the individual mother and/or father. At least the baby doesn't know and will never know what it is, it's not the same as killing an adult.
At the same time I think it's hypocritical when pro-choice people don't also admit that killing a baby post-birth is just as morally reasonable. Society has deemed the vagina point the 'line' we cannot cross but if society says killing chimps/bonobos is okay when they're way more intelligent than even a 5 year old (or dolphins/pigs/dogs etc. animals with feelings attachments and so on) seems hypocritical to me and simply favoritism towards your own species (assuming intelligence/sentience is the guiding point by which we shouldn't kill things).
I think pro-lifer's/anti-choice people have to also care about the well being of other animals that are just as mentally capable as babies/children if they're going to remain logically consistent. As well as obviously supporting widespread welfare state provisions for unwanted children, mandatory sex education, allowing mothers to take off work for long periods of time to raise the child, get financial benefits and so on but it's always the pro-lifers that are against all of this. Their hypocrisy is much more stunning and immoral than anything the pro-choicers have imo.
It isn't about the kid, the eternally sexless want people punished for fucking. "You knew the risk."
Well, yeah, except for the person that's dead when it's over.
I'm vehemently against abortion, but I'm also against laws prohibiting it -- simply because I want the government to stay the fuck out of peoples' lives. The situation put in place by Roe v. Wade is not perfect, but it is a workable compromise I guess. I guess what I feel is that in a healthy society, abortion would be rare and almost always for justifiable reasons, i.e. health of the mother, rape, severe birth defect detected. But we are not a healthy society. Abortions are performed as simple birth control, as a means of avoiding personal responsibility. Public funds subsidize the industry. And we are taught to be numb to the facilities in our midst, the sole purpose of which is to destroy unborn people before someone gets saddled with the burden of caring for them. These are the attitudes of an unhealthy society:
I don't know what the process of abortion is like but I imagine I'd rather do that then be forced to give up 18 years of my life taking care of something I don't want to take care of. The latter seems way more extreme and awful to the individual mother and/or father. At least the baby doesn't know and will never know what it is, it's not the same as killing an adult.
At the same time I think it's hypocritical when pro-choice people don't also admit that killing a baby post-birth is just as morally reasonable. Society has deemed the vagina point the 'line' we cannot cross but if society says killing chimps/bonobos is okay when they're way more intelligent than even a 5 year old (or dolphins/pigs/dogs etc. animals with feelings attachments and so on) seems hypocritical to me and simply favoritism towards your own species (assuming intelligence/sentience is the guiding point by which we shouldn't kill things).
I think pro-lifer's/anti-choice people have to also care about the well being of other animals that are just as mentally capable as babies/children if they're going to remain logically consistent. As well as obviously supporting widespread welfare state provisions for unwanted children, mandatory sex education, allowing mothers to take off work for long periods of time to raise the child, get financial benefits and so on but it's always the pro-lifers that are against all of this. Their hypocrisy is much more stunning and immoral than anything the pro-choicers have imo.
I don't know what the process of abortion is like but I imagine I'd rather do that then be forced to give up 18 years of my life taking care of something I don't want to take care of. The latter seems way more extreme and awful to the individual mother and/or father. At least the baby doesn't know and will never know what it is, it's not the same as killing an adult.
At the same time I think it's hypocritical when pro-choice people don't also admit that killing a baby post-birth is just as morally reasonable. Society has deemed the vagina point the 'line' we cannot cross but if society says killing chimps/bonobos is okay when they're way more intelligent than even a 5 year old (or dolphins/pigs/dogs etc. animals with feelings attachments and so on) seems hypocritical to me and simply favoritism towards your own species (assuming intelligence/sentience is the guiding point by which we shouldn't kill things).
I think pro-lifer's/anti-choice people have to also care about the well being of other animals that are just as mentally capable as babies/children if they're going to remain logically consistent. As well as obviously supporting widespread welfare state provisions for unwanted children, mandatory sex education, allowing mothers to take off work for long periods of time to raise the child, get financial benefits and so on but it's always the pro-lifers that are against all of this. Their hypocrisy is much more stunning and immoral than anything the pro-choicers have imo.
Because words have meanings.
A fetus is never a person.
So before 21 weeks the fetus isn't a person, according to you?The other person who willingly created that person, and who had 21 weeks to change her mind?
Please see above post where I have stated I've reconsidered my opinion.
So before 21 weeks the fetus isn't a person, according to you?
And no, when I have sex, I am not consenting to another being using my body for mine months.
Sorry. Hadn't seen your post while I was writing mine.
I wonder why those who are pro-life don't support increasing funds for adoption purposes anywhere to the extent they support inaccurate sex education and closing down women's clinics (that only have abortion as a small part of their services.)
I don't think whether it's a potential person or not truly matters. You hear all these grand statements about the preciousness of life. Since when is life so precious? .
I have yet to see this sentiment elsewhere when it comes to leaving breathing out of the womb individuals
Not all pregnancies are willing.
What are you even arguing about? Are you seriously arguing it's okay to force unwanted babies onto people to make them more responsible? I'm sure that will turn out great.
Unless granted personhood by the government.
Most abortions are performed starting around the 20 week mark
I gave you a link.I'm very sceptical of that. Link?
I'm in favor of the right to choose, but I'm with the OP – it's made me uncomfortable for a long time the way a lot of people don't seem to realize the gravity of the situation. It's like a lot of people think its this little Flintstone vitamin floating around in there until the third trimester at best.
Most abortions are performed starting around the 20 week mark, which is when complications begin to arise. Doctors consider a fetus viable after 24 weeks. A fetus looks quite human at that point. My wife and I have never gone through that, but other people have. It's fucking traumatic.
I sympathize with the anti-abortion types even if I think they're wrong.
There was a REALLY powerful episode of Radiolab a few months ago. It'll fucking move you to tears.
http://www.radiolab.org/2013/apr/30/
If it cant live without its hosts body, then it's not a human, but a parasite by the very definition. And it should be okay to terminate it if the host choses to.
Not all pregnancies are willing.
Agent Smith is on GAF?
I'm in favor of the right to choose, but I'm with the OP it's made me uncomfortable for a long time the way a lot of people don't seem to realize the gravity of the situation. It's like a lot of people think its this little Flintstone vitamin floating around in there until the third trimester at best.
Most abortions are performed starting around the 20 week mark, which is when complications begin to arise. Doctors consider a fetus viable after 24 weeks. A fetus looks quite human at that point. My wife and I have never gone through that, but other people have. It's fucking traumatic.
I sympathize with the anti-abortion types even if I think they're wrong.
There was a REALLY powerful episode of Radiolab a few months ago. It'll fucking move you to tears.
http://www.radiolab.org/2013/apr/30/
Fifty-eight percent of all abortions for which gestational age was reported were performed at <8 weeks of gestation, and 88% were performed before 13 weeks. From 1992 (when these data were first collected) through 1999, increases have occurred in the percentage of abortions performed at <6 weeks of gestation. Few abortions were provided after 15 weeks of gestation; 4.3% were obtained at 16--20 weeks and 1.5% were obtained at >21 weeks. A total of 27 reporting areas submitted data stating that they performed medical (nonsurgical) procedures (two of these areas categorized medical abortions with "other" procedures), making up <1.0% of all procedures reported from all reporting areas.
Until they can say "don't kill me", it doesn't count.
I gave you a link.
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Actually I need to clarify. Most abortions due to complications are performed beginning around the 20 week mark.
It's most certainly human, and it definitely have the potential to become a person with thoughts, feelings, dreams, and aspirations of their own.
I do think that fetuses that reach the stage where conscious thought begins on form are worthy of protection, just as I think animals that are conscious being with the ability to suffer are also worthy of protection.
Yet, I don't think that protection should supercede the rights of other people. A pregnant woman has the right to remove organisms - be they pain aware or not - from her body because of the alternative would be monstrous.
The life of a creature is lost during abortion, and that is a negative thing, but well being of another is increased - and that is a good thing.
As a vegetarian it reminds me of how meat eaters with their actions accept the death and suffering of billions of thinking, feeling beings capable of experiencing pain.
If that is "okay", I see no reason for abortion to not be. At least not as many lives are lost through abortion.
That does mean that I'm okay with trying to remove a fetus right up to birth.
Some might dismiss me for saying that, but remember what I said about how the fetus was worthy of our protection?
Well, much later in the pregnancy, you can solve the mother's problem without killing the fetus by inducing an early pregnancy/removing the fetus via a c-section.
A life is saved, someone's bodily autonomy is protected, and everyone goes happy except for the baby that will most likely end up being shuttled back and forth between various foster homes and statistically be more likely to end up as a poor and/or criminal.
Some altruists might say that the kinder thing would be to allow for a lethal abortion, as the minor suffering the fetus would experience in it's dying throes are so much less than the prolonged suffering it'd experience living.
I disagree with that assessment as there is no guarantee the orphan child will end up living a low QoL-lifestyle.
I gave you a link.
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Actually I need to clarify. Most abortions due to complications are performed beginning around the 20 week mark.
If it cant live without its hosts body, then it's not a human, but a parasite by the very definition. And it should be okay to terminate it if the host choses to.
This is a grunch but it is pretty clear that a human fetus is a human being and yes by getting an abortion you are murdering a person. I'm still pro-choice but lots of people on the pro-choice side seem to conveniently forget that fact.
However everything else about the issue shows that abortion should be legal. The woman having control over her body, the fact that while technically it is a human being, for all practical purposes it is just a part of her, the social and economic problems caused by unwanted births, women not only having the freedom to physically control their body but the social/political power it gives them as well, etc. (I believe that opposing abortion is a way to assert social and political power over women by men).
Late to the party, but this is not true. A parasite causes its host to suffer reduced fitness, which is contrary to the very purpose of offspring.
My take on it is that the developing fetus is simply not cognizant, and therefore has less rights than the mother. Whether it is a person or nor really is a matter is semantics.
Late to the party, but this is not true. A parasite causes its host to suffer reduced fitness, which is contrary to the very purpose of offspring.
My take on it is that the developing fetus is simply not cognizant, and therefore has less rights than the mother. Whether it is a person or nor really is a matter is semantics.
If our birth-control method fails, do you think that's a justifiable reason?
What, then, of those who are not as mentally capable as me and my girlfriend, that make ill informed decision?
So before 21 weeks the fetus isn't a person, according to you?
And no, when I have sex, I am not consenting to another being using my body for mine months.
Yeah, I agree. That's why it's the choice of the mother. But at that point, I'm saying its not a choice to be taken lightly. After the 24 week mark is when hospitals will do everything they can to keep the baby alive if they have to induce an abortion due to complications, if I'm not mistaken.Well, that's a different picture. Is it not justifiable to do an abortion due to complications around the 20th week mark? It is about the earliest we can uncover the birth defects in question.
I do not wish to move this discussion to one of the rights of fetuses with birth-defects, but it is important to consider that these are very different things.
I believe life begins when it's able to survive on it's own, otherwise it's a fetus and part of the mother - and her choice.
That said, I'd be perfectly okay with outlawing abortions after the first tri. (unless the mother is at risk)
Luckily, back in the real world, and not this sounding board, most people don't agree with the notion of late term abortions.
The vagina isn't really a magical canal of personhood - the fetus doesn't suddenly become more human once it's ejected from the body. But to listen to many here; you'd think that one day before birth, while the baby is still in the mother, abortion is still a reasonable and correct course of action. This is plainly ludicrous for any reasonable person to see - and to take a position otherwise marks one as an extremist for personal freedoms.
SourceCDC said:Among the 39 areas that reported gestational age at the time of abortion for 2009 (Table 7), the majority (64.0%) of abortions were performed at ≤8 weeks' gestation, and 91.7% were performed at ≤13 weeks' gestation. Few abortions (7.0%) were performed at 14–20 weeks' gestation, and even fewer (1.3%) were performed at ≥21 weeks' gestation.
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See this why is why keeping legal and safe is imperative. To know and see trends and what health officials can do instead of being in the dark.
So just to clear it up at what point does a fetus become a human being? A sperm isn't and an egg isn't so is it at the moment of conception? So if you abort an embryo as soon as conception occurs (when it's little more than a handful of cells) is that still a human being? If not when does it become so.
I don't think it's as obvious as you make out.
Here's the thing, from fetus to human baby is a process. It's a pretty slow process, too. On one end it's literally a worthless goop of cells. No one should care about it, because it's not human. It has no consciousness. It has no feelings. It's just cells. On the other hand we have a fully formed baby which almost everyone should care about, unless your instincts are out of wack. This whole thing is a process of slowly going from point A to point B.
There will always be arguments over where the line is. Where does it become baby and where does it stop being worthless sack of cells. Always. Why? Because, again, it's a slow process. There isn't some magical moment where shit just pops into place. It happens slowly over time. What that means is that you'll have a certain attachment at a certain point in that process and someone else will at another point in that process. Again, no one's right and no one's wrong.
On top of all this, the process heavily involves changing the woman's body. It takes a huge toll on it, and is a very difficult, emotional, and most importantly personal time in her life. Both for her and possibly for whatever family she has. Every woman is different during this time, and every pregnancy is different. They're brought about by different circumstances, and any possible baby will be brought into the world under very different circumstances.
Now, if you feel very strongly that it becomes a baby at whatever definable point you have, well then you can just not abort at that point when you're pregnant. If you feel that your circumstances are not great at whatever definable point in your life, then you can abort or not abort or whatever when you're pregnant. If you're not pregnant or part of someone's family (i.e. husband) when they are pregnant, well then I'm not sure why you get to pry into this whole system with your opinion.
My point is that the entire process is in fact a slow moving process from worthless to very very worthwhile. It's also brought about by an infinite number of circumstances. It's also followed by an infinite number of circumstances, both forseen and unforseen. Why in the world would we take this literally infinitely nuanced situation and try and prescribe one definable law. Why would we take this infinitely nuanced situation and try and tell the people sitting right in the middle of it what they should do? Why should we take this situation and make laws on it? Why should my government tell me when it's ok or not ok in this whole thing? Let those who have the most stake in it make the decision. Let those most informed on that exact situation make the decision.
Now, when a baby's out and into the world then we have a right to protect it as a society. Before that, it's literally dependent on that mother, and so it's her decision. As someone else pointed out we don't force organ donation on people. Why should we do it here?
And realistically most abortions aren't happening near that last end of the spectrum. No one's waiting 8 months and then just having an abortion, because... well... fuck you pro-lifers. They're not. No one's gleefully getting abortions late in their term. Hell, most don't gleefully get any abortion at all. Most don't really want to. Most happen early, nearer when that thing is a sack of cells. The ones that happen late usually happen for a good reason. If they happen for a bad reason, well that bad reason is sometimes that others pushed back the abortion with regulation on top of regulation because they think they know better.
Yes.
If you are speaking of the severely mentally impaired, then obviously personal responsibility, planning, and proper choices are inapplicable. But for the person of average or even low but functional intelligence, the consequences of irresponsible sexual behavior are not complicated. Life is full of consequences for making poor choices ... committing a crime will still send you to jail, dirtbagging on debt will still make you poison to lenders, irresponsible sexual behavior can still get you AIDS or other venereal diseases, etc. I don't think it is justifiable to end a human life, i.e. kill someone, just to insulate another from the consequences of poor choices. But I don't support laws banning abortion -- I support a society that more aggressively disapproves of it as a means of after-the-fact birth control.
What, then, of those who are not as mentally capable as me and my girlfriend, that make ill informed decision? It is important to instill a consideration of the consequences of your actions, be it that you have casual sex and do not perform safe sex, or otherwise are reckless and somehow end up pregnant. These might be people that are already bad off, whose care might have been lackluster during their upbringing, or their economical or geographical situation not as such to ensure the cognitive ability to pursuit safe sex. I'm assuming you'd argue that if two 18 year old people had unsafe sex, they need to own up to the consequences, and that as such, a lack of performing safe sex would never be a justifiable reason to have an abortion. Not only does statistics show that this "punishment" does not act as a deterrent, but somehow might keep on fueling the problem.
Once the sperm and egg combine and create a zygote, it is a human being. Yes it is a human being with very few cells, attributes, etc. of a human being and in a very early stage of development, but how would that not be a human being? It's like claiming a 1 year old baby is not a human being because it is small, can't talk, can't walk, and doesn't have other characteristics that adult humans have.