Japanese tourists stricken by Paris Syndrome

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Steelrain said:
Japanese people call French people cowards because they hauled ass after the earthquake.

Is that a fact ? I was under the impression many other countries issued recommendations to leave and chartered planes so that they could, including Britain and the USA.
 
When I went to France I was very disappointed that everyone did not act like characters from Amelie. WHERE WAS THE WHIMSY?
 
BaronLundi said:
Is that a fact ? I was under the impression many other countries issued recommendations to leave and chartered planes so that they could, including Britain and the USA.

Nah man, obviously only the frogs ran with their tail between their legs, leaving a trail of disgusting body odor all along the way.

edit : damn this thread is making me a little bitter now, should probably stay away
 
I was actually describing this to a classmate of mine (who had lived in France and was a French major) just last week. Funny that it would pop up now.

I imagine all the Japanese women going there hoping it will be like The Rose of Versailles and going into total shock when it's not.
 
Simplet said:
Nah man, obviously only the frogs ran with their tail between their legs, leaving a trail of disgusting body odor all along the way.

edit : damn this thread is making me a little bitter now, should probably stay away

Gotta be thick-skinned to be French on an English-speaking forum :)

To be fair, we frog-eating poultries pass along more than our share of stereotypes as well.

The coward thing has long gotten old though
 
daviyoung said:
Is it true that Americans are fat and British have bad teeth? Is it true that Germans are serious towel-snatchers? Is it true South Africans are uneducated Australians? Is it true that Norwegians live in neo-nazi igloos? Is it true that Canadians give birth on ice-hockey rinks?

Your country isn't exempt from stereotypes mate. Another case of French arrogance coming into play I think ;-)

Never heard that one.
 
BaronLundi said:
Is that a fact ? I was under the impression many other countries issued recommendations to leave and chartered planes so that they could, including Britain and the USA.
Yes it's a fact that French people ran. It's also a fact that foreigners from everywhere ran. I guess it wouldn't be as funny to call everyone who did "American" or "British" *shrugs* I don't think it's funny either way.

I liked "fly-jin" though. That was pretty good.
 
BaronLundi said:
Gotta be thick-skinned to be French on an English-speaking forum :)

To be fair, we frog-eating poultries pass along more than our share of stereotypes as well.

The coward thing has long gotten old though

Honestly I don't even care that much what english and american people say, I mean we have a bit of back-and-forth with them, it's all more or less in good fun (I'm a little bit surprised sometime by how some of them seem to genuinely not like us, but eh).

What is starting to bother me now is how it seems that everywhere I go, people are trotting out those anglo-american made stereotypes. I feel like I have to defend myself from being french to all kinds of people from places that really shouldn't have all those prejudices in the first place. We don't have a history or a rivalry with them.
 
I could see how extreme rudeness might be a shock. I went to Japan for two weeks when I was 18 and spoke pretty much no Japanese. Everywhere I went people were extremely polite and accommodating even if we were unable to communicate. They were patient and did their best to help me order in restaurants and to find my way around.

Paris should be just as used to tourists as Tokyo. It astounds me that they would be rude or aggressive to people who want nothing more than to patronize them.
 
Simplet said:
Honestly I don't even care that much what english and american people say, I mean we have a bit of back-and-forth with them, it's all more or less in good fun (I'm a little bit surprised sometime by how some of them seem to genuinely not like us, but eh).

What is starting to bother me now is how it seems that everywhere I go, people are trotting out those anglo-american made stereotypes. I feel like I have to defend myself from being french to all kins of people from places that really shouldn't have all those prejudices in the first place. We don't have a history or a rivalry with them.

Seriously stop trying to be cool by trying to be in a rivalry you don't belong, people.
I'd be extremely shocked if a pakistany came and basically dissed the rosbifs the way we do.
 
Mael said:
Seriously stop trying to be cool by trying to be in a rivalry you don't belong, people.
I'd be extremely shocked if a pakistany came and basically dissed the rosbifs the way we do.
I remember the first time I was called a rosbif. I couldn't understand if it was supposed to be complimentary or derogatory. It's like me calling you a 'Pain au chocolat' or something. Delicious foodstuffs do not make for good insults.

Don't take the jibes to heart my French frères. We know you're a cool bunch really.
 
Simplet said:
Honestly I don't even care that much what english and american people say, I mean we have a bit of back-and-forth with them, it's all more or less in good fun (I'm a little bit surprised sometime by how some of them seem to genuinely not like us, but eh).

What is starting to bother me now is how it seems that everywhere I go, people are trotting out those anglo-american made stereotypes. I feel like I have to defend myself from being french to all kins of people from places that really shouldn't have all those prejudices in the first place. We don't have a history or a rivalry with them.

It's annoying, true, but just think of the prejudices the very people you meet abroad might face when/if visiting France. It's best not to generalize one way or another.

Two weeks ago, I was in Rome with my gf and we met this American couple in a restaurant. After a bit of small talk, the guy asked me if it was true that us French hated the Americans. I'm always dumbfounded by these kind of questions, however frequent they are nowadays. "Of course, I hate the very sight of you, you imperialist Yankee scum. More chianti ?

By the way, are you sure there are actual countries that have no grudge or rivalry with us ? To be honest, I can't see that many...
 
SmokyDave said:
I remember the first time I was called a rosbif. I couldn't understand if it was supposed to be complimentary or derogatory. It's like me calling you a 'Pain au chocolat' or something. Delicious foodstuffs do not make for good insults.

If you're in the south, call them "Chocolatine" or they won't get it
you clotted creamed scone you
 
Meh, Paris was what I expected a big dirty city full of angry natives. It's the same thing I got when i went to new York City, I got mugged, yelled at, spit on, and everyone was rude to me, the city was a dirty slum too. Paris was no different. My friend made things worse by calling the French cowards at every turn, he won't shut up about it. Every minute it seemed like he was making a french joke. Every minute. He even mouthed off to some tough looking French dudes. He said "Watch I'll prove these guys are a bunch of cowards. They may look tough but they'll run away". They didn't, they nearly killed us. We had to run to a police station.

Big cities are pretty much always like that though. The nicest people are the ones living outside.
 
Ushojax said:
A 5 year old news story? It's funny how these things randomly appear on the Most Read section of the BBC site.

Someone on reddit posted the article as a "TIL" and it got to the front page of the site. That caused a huge spike of views on the BBC site so it made it to the most read section.
 
But it's so easy to put these morons in their place. Especially now with the situation of their economy. I personally have learned to love snapping back at taxi drivers, waiters, hotel staff etc. in France and Spain, which is almost as bad. I swear to God every time I visit Madrid I feel like I lose 5% of my hearing.

But if you're that sensitive, better visit South America or southeast Asia.
 
Japanese tourists are the worst.

I have had the pleasure of touring with them, in and out, of Japan. When I say "worst" I mean they are very polite, measure each step of the trip with the eye of a brain surgeon, and read every book on Indonesian wedding day ceremony "faux pas" as if their life depended on it.

What a fucked up sheltered little shit hole that place can be...oh wait...they are just rich Asians, that explains everything...
 
SmokyDave said:
This is where you & I differ, sir. When in France, speak French.

Also, partially, because I know that an English waiter would act the same when confronted with a French speaking customer.


This is inaccurate. The rudest waiters in the world are in Paris. They are always men. The second rudest are in the center of Rome. Again, always men. But the aggression of Parisian men in the service industry is almost comical. As the article notes, folks from other Western countries can laugh it off, to a certain degree, but to pretend a typical English waiter would be that rude is didingenuous. Certainly he could be, but he's not likely to be, as is the case in Paris.

Everywhere else in France, I've found waiters to be either charming or normal. In Paris, they are dicks. It's like a city sport.

I speak French too. And Parisian waiters rejoice in mocking tourists. It is a cultural issue with the city and defending it as ignorance on the part of the tourists is tragic. Without tourism, Paris would be a shithole like Brussels or Dusseldorf. Tourism is why the parks and antiquities are still beautiful. Expecting tourists to speak the language is ignoring the very point of tourism.
 
Pristine_Condition said:


Edinburgh during Festival season is incredibe. I was born and raised there, so I am biased. But almost every public building, Church, hall and gathering place is hosting a play, a concert, a standup, a reading, an opera and so on. So he's literally got a point even just in terms of numerical force.

Our waiters are nice, but they serve mostly shit food so it's a wash.
 
OuterWorldVoice said:
Edinburgh during Festival season is incredibe. I was born and raised there, so I am biased. But almost every public building, Church, hall and gathering place is hosting a play, a concert, a standup, a reading, an opera and so on. So he's literally got a point even just in terms of numerical force.

Our waiters are nice, but they serve mostly shit food so it's a wash.

I was actually pleasantly surprised by the food in Edimburgh. Even the Haggis is actually really eatable.
 
Simplet said:
Yeah man I'm sure it had nothing at all to do with the fact that the american media and cultural products have been giving this image of France around the world for the last 50 years. I'm sure the maybe 3000 french people living in Japan and the few hundreds (tens?) that left the country gave this image of the entire french population all by themselves.

Any examples of this?
 
Akkad said:
Any examples of this?
Cheese surrender monkey from the Simpsons is the most famous, but there is a variation of this in every goddamn series, like south park with the French ship surrendering to Cartman in a pirate attire.
 
I've heard of this before. Its always kinda interested me.


As for the waiter thing, who cares? I'm a waiter over the summers and I dont mind at all if someone doesnt speak english. Its actually kind of fun.

I can get why that shit would be infuriating though if you are busy. Its not an easy job and one table can ruin your whole momentum if they slow you down needlessly.
 
Kurtofan said:
Cheese surrender monkey from the Simpsons is the most famous, but there is a variation of this in every goddamn series, like south park with the French ship surrendering to Cartman in a pirate attire.

Those shows make fun of Americans too.
 
AlimNassor said:
Meh, Paris was what I expected a big dirty city full of angry natives. It's the same thing I got when i went to new York City, I got mugged, yelled at, spit on, and everyone was rude to me, the city was a dirty slum too. Paris was no different. My friend made things worse by calling the French cowards at every turn, he won't shut up about it. Every minute it seemed like he was making a french joke. Every minute. He even mouthed off to some tough looking French dudes. He said "Watch I'll prove these guys are a bunch of cowards. They may look tough but they'll run away". They didn't, they nearly killed us. We had to run to a police station.

Big cities are pretty much always like that though. The nicest people are the ones living outside.
I had a pretty miserable time when I was in Paris two years ago. It is an absolutely beautiful city but holy shit the locals were fucking huge assholes to us. Eventually we had to start speaking in Spanish just so we could have a conversation where someone wasn't a dick to us. I'm from Texas though, so maybe I just expect everyone to be as nice as Texans are.
 
If one only surrounds themselves with "romanticized" fictional versions of the city they idealize the most from movies and TV shows, then they will surely be dissapointed. I could remember quite a few foreign anime fans who moved to Japan with visions of snowing sakura in their eyes only to bitterly leave after a year because Japan didn't live up to their anime-like expectations.

I am continuously bewildered by the fact Japanese want to visit Los Angles, NYC, all the big cities, etc and be dissapointed. It ain't a full-serviced Tokyo Disneyland with a constant welcome party. Smaller cities have much more to offer - it all depends on which city or town you choose.

In the end, there is no pleasing anyone, but sometimes big cities can suck, period. If your not prepared for the sounds, smells and sights then you'll deffinitly have a little bit of culture shock.
 
Pixar is to blame.

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Guess they all watched Amelia rather than Le Haine.

Bit like Americans who come to the UK expecting Four Weddings and a Funeral and get Attack of the Block instead.
 
Eh, Paris is a pretty crap city in comparison to some of the other places in the world and France itself. It's just been romanticised far too much in the media and so forth.
 
Some of you guys are taking this whole patriotism thing way to serious.

BaronLundi said:
By the way, are you sure there are actual countries that have no grudge or rivalry with us ? To be honest, I can't see that many...

Italy! We love you soooo much! Especially when it comes to football!
 
Kilrogg said:
Ah, the infamous "Paris syndrome".

I attended a conference on this 2 years ago (or was it last year?), and what came out of it is that nothing came out of it. Nobody was able to define the syndrome scientifically or explain with any degree of precision why it happened. Worse, instead of broadcasting documentaries, interviewing people who were once affected and people who knew them, what we got was amateur-level short movies of all things. Yeah, fictional work is always a sound basis for discussion of a supposed real-life medical condition.

The Paris syndrome is just the Japanese/France version of the good ol' culture shock. People going abroad having highly unrealistic expectations and being brought down to earth the hard way. Hits them like a brick. Now, you might argue that this is some kind of special case because 1) the Japanese's view of France is ludicrously dream-like (basically, it's all romance, fashion and beautiful monuments), 2) they're not exactly the most "internationally aware" people in the first place. That might be true, and what's also true is that as a consequence there are many Japanese people in Paris, but it doesn't make the phenomenon itself some kind of geographic/identity-exclusive disorder. France is not special, and the Japanese aren't special either.
This post was criminally overlooked.
 
kamorra said:
Italy! We love you soooo much! Especially when it comes to football!

I know ! I bought a shirt in Fiumicino two weeks ago (don't ask) and in a matter of minutes the clerk managed to tell me that there was no French style in clothing and that he still hadn't forgiven Zidane for what he did. WTF ? I'm entitled not to forgive him, you people should be thankful. He handed you the cup on a silver platter with his shiny little head after all. (Don't picture it).

I'm sorry but I really love Italy. We go there as soon as we can and I would like to live in Rome and eat nothing but fresh mozarella, fiori di zuchini, annd cacio y pepe. I had no bad experience with the waiters either.
 
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