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LGBThread |OT3| Friends of Dorothy!

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Delio

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I remember this stuff happening a lot during the Olympics. The Scores would be in the perfect place to show him looking naked.

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Real(ly stupid) talk: for all the bottoms on here, do you have a preferred condom brand? I've used fire and ice with girls but I'd rather not make it feel like I'm lighting off a firecracker in some poor guy's ass.
 
Real(ly stupid) talk: for all the bottoms on here, do you have a preferred condom brand? I've used fire and ice with girls but I'd rather not make it feel like I'm lighting off a firecracker in some poor guy's ass.

Do those fire and ice things effect both people? Like is the tingly-goo on the inside and out? I've seen those but never tried any of those fancy ones.

I Usually just get Durex Ultra-thins. Trojans are so thick they kill the feeling too much.
 

KiN0

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Do those fire and ice things effect both people? Like is the tingly-goo on the inside and out? I've seen those but never tried any of those fancy ones.

I Usually just get Durex Ultra-thins. Trojans are so thick they kill the feeling too much.

Trojan has a line of thin condoms, though I'd have no idea of they actually work or not.
 

Replicant

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Always late, holy shit how fuckin hot is Daley

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i need to start watchin more sport o_o

Nice. He looks less of a twink and more like a man these days.

Also, with his tendency to show off his ass (see the last 2 pics above for examples amongst others), it's like he wants to get an invitation from Sean Cody, Corbin Fisher, et all to perform in front of camera, if you know what I mean....
 
What are some things to do for a migraine? My head feels like it's a glass full of super-heated water. I've tried advil but that did nothing.


Yeah I've always wondered what they do? Also, what the fuck is the point of having flavored condoms?

Well I'm pretty sure I know what they do. I assume they add a warm and cooling sensation. Like those Icy Hot patches you put on sore muscles. I've never used them personally though.
 
Have anyone of you people
HEY, WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY "YOU PEOPLE?"
seen the documentary about the origins of the HIV virus in the San Francisco gay community, it's called "We Were Here", been trying to get hold of this ever since Mark Kermode reviewed it awhile ago, and finally I watched it last night. It's incredibly moving, simply told through various interviews of survivors from that period in history. It's quite harrowing at times, but also triumphant in how the community came together and supported itself. If you've never heard of it, track it down, it's a wonderful piece of documentary film-making.
 

RM8

Member
I honestly don't enjoy watching/reading stuff that treats homosexuality and HIV as related topics
even if they are
:( HIV is one of those topics that seems so incredibly depressing to me, it's mind blowing that preventing HIV is so absurdly easy yet it doesn't seem like it's ever going to cease being a big issue. No one deserves to be infected and I know not everyone gets infected as a result of irresponsibility, but still. Bleh.
 

Mr_Zombie

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I think I will have to disable images on GAF on my computer at work, because with all those pictures reading this thread at work has been really difficult recently.
 

neojubei

Will drop pants for Sony.
This talk about HIV makes me think of an old friend I used to know. He ended up getting HIV while living in New York because his then boyfriend was a big hoe and he didn't know it. After he finished his degree he went back home to Japan to live with his family. I showered with him once when I stayed in New York. I have to look him up if I go back to Japan.
 

Ice Mage

Neo Member
So today a guy I'm friends with (he knows I'm gay and seemed pretty tolerant up to this point) and whom I thought I could respect told me that he essentially thinks that I will never really be happy even if I were to be in a relationship or something -- simply because it's a gay relationship. And that I won't find "what I'm looking for" in a relationship with a guy. As if he knows exactly what I'm looking for and the fact that both people are of the same gender somehow devalues the relationship. And he seemingly bases this opinion on how happy gay people whom he's met in his life were.

I was just all "haha what are you serious?"

I don't get it. I guess it's a clash of value systems -- it seems I should be pursuing long-run, lasting happiness, which apparently entails getting married, settling down and having kids.

Sorry, I'm kind of angry and needed to vent because a person I thought I could respect turned out to be such a bigot. :/
 
Have anyone of you people
HEY, WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY "YOU PEOPLE?"
seen the documentary about the origins of the HIV virus in the San Francisco gay community, it's called "We Were Here", been trying to get hold of this ever since Mark Kermode reviewed it awhile ago, and finally I watched it last night. It's incredibly moving, simply told through various interviews of survivors from that period in history. It's quite harrowing at times, but also triumphant in how the community came together and supported itself. If you've never heard of it, track it down, it's a wonderful piece of documentary film-making.

No, I haven't but I've been wanting to for quite some time. Its too easy for us to forget what happened to gay people only a generation ago.. and the chain of events (and societal indifference) that led them to that horrible state.

And The Band Played On (the book, not the awful movie) should be required reading in high schools.
 

Trigger

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So today a guy I'm friends with (he knows I'm gay and seemed pretty tolerant up to this point) and whom I thought I could respect told me that he essentially thinks that I will never really be happy even if I am in a relationship or something -- simply because it's a gay relationship. And that I won't find "what I'm looking for" in a relationship with a guy. As if he knows exactly what I'm looking for and the fact that both people are of the same gender somehow devalues the relationship. And he seemingly bases this opinion on how happy gay people whom he's met in his life were.

I was just all "haha what are you serious?"

I don't get it. I guess it's a clash of value systems -- it seems I should be pursuing long-run, lasting happiness, which apparently entails getting married, settling down and having kids.

Sorry, I'm kind of angry and needed to vent because a person I thought I could respect turned out to be such a bigot. :/

I'm sorry to hear that. I take it you two have never discussed gay issues before? A very douchey thing to say to a friend.
 

Meicyn

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So today a guy I'm friends with (he knows I'm gay and seemed pretty tolerant up to this point) and whom I thought I could respect told me that he essentially thinks that I will never really be happy even if I am in a relationship or something -- simply because it's a gay relationship. And that I won't find "what I'm looking for" in a relationship with a guy. As if he knows exactly what I'm looking for and the fact that both people are of the same gender somehow devalues the relationship. And he seemingly bases this opinion on how happy gay people whom he's met in his life were.

I was just all "haha what are you serious?"

I don't get it. I guess it's a clash of value systems -- it seems I should be pursuing long-run, lasting happiness, which apparently entails getting married, settling down and having kids.

Sorry, I'm kind of angry and needed to vent because a person I thought I could respect turned out to be such a bigot. :/
Based on what you've said so far, I think it's a bit much to call him a bigot. Misguided sure, but a bigotted person wouldn't associate with you at all.

People generally change over time in the face of new information or experiences. With the way people spoke in my work center, you'd think most military members were bigotted. After DADT died and I came out, opinions evolved pretty quickly when they found out that homosexuals come in all sorts of varieties.

He'll likely evolve his opinion on the matter in time.
 
No, I haven't but I've been wanting to for quite some time. Its too easy for us to forget what happened to gay people only a generation ago.. and the chain of events (and societal indifference) that led them to that horrible state.

And The Band Played On (the book, not the awful movie) should be required reading in high schools.

It's such a moving documentary. It's probably hard to communicate the utter devastation it had on the gay community, but the stories in the film and the way they're told with such dignity and pathos, and the fact that they somehow survived, well, it's just incredibly inspiring and uplifting.
 

BeesEight

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So today a guy I'm friends with (he knows I'm gay and seemed pretty tolerant up to this point) and whom I thought I could respect told me that he essentially thinks that I will never really be happy even if I were to be in a relationship or something -- simply because it's a gay relationship. And that I won't find "what I'm looking for" in a relationship with a guy. As if he knows exactly what I'm looking for and the fact that both people are of the same gender somehow devalues the relationship. And he seemingly bases this opinion on how happy gay people whom he's met in his life were.

I was just all "haha what are you serious?"

I don't get it. I guess it's a clash of value systems -- it seems I should be pursuing long-run, lasting happiness, which apparently entails getting married, settling down and having kids.

Sorry, I'm kind of angry and needed to vent because a person I thought I could respect turned out to be such a bigot. :/

To play devil's advocate, he could be applying his own perspective and experiences to this. Since he knows he wouldn't be happy and fulfilled in a relationship with someone who isn't a woman, he could be extending that bias to you. It's the sort of "I wouldn't like it, therefore no one would" idea. Push comes to shove, [some] heterosexual people don't and can't really know what it's like to be homosexual. It's far too different from their own feelings.

I mean, he certainly could be a bigot but it's also possible he's just ignorant.
 

Mr_Zombie

Member
It's such a moving documentary. It's probably hard to communicate the utter devastation it had on the gay community, but the stories in the film and the way they're told with such dignity and pathos, and the fact that they somehow survived, well, it's just incredibly inspiring and uplifting.

I haven't seen "We Were Here" (I'm adding it to my personal "to watch" list) but similar topic (HIV and how the community struggled to fight with it) was covered in "How to Survive a Plague". If you haven't seen it, I recommend watching it too. Great movie.
 
Wait... people use condoms for oral? And don't you use dental dams for rimming?

I'm a virgin so It'd be nice to learn from some sexually active people.

I get some funny looks for insisting on a condom for oral, but most guys are down for it. It's a minority, but not unheard of. I'm not entirely convinced that I couldn't get HIV from it (I keep getting contradictory answers from trusted sources), and there's other STDs you can get from it.
 

mantidor

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You should use a condom for oral, specially if its a hookup, very few do it, I'll emarrasingly admit I'm guity as well, but even if HIV was impossible to transmit vial oral (and its not, its just very, very difficult), HIV is not the only STD out there.

I blame porn.
 

Mr_Zombie

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I always had issue with hair. I would rather smooth over hairy (less chance of coughing up a hair ball :p)

But hairy legs are awesome. :(

Well, unless you wear tight running leggings and realize that the hair on your legs pierce through the material, which looks weird. -_-
 

Sai-kun

Banned
But hairy legs are awesome. :(

Well, unless you wear tight running leggings and realize that the hair on your legs pierce through the material, which looks weird. -_-

this is the only problem i have with my calf/knee high socks :( basically all my body hair went to my calves and it gets kind of itchy and the hair starts to poke through sometimes. blegh!
 

Bailey 87

Member
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You're on watch, mister.

:( sorry I can change.

But hairy legs are awesome. :(

no sir you're wrong but it's okay to be wrong sometimes I forgive you :p


So gaf what game/s are you guys/girls currently playing? I just completed GTA IV for the fifth time and now started Red Dead. I actually forgot how awesome Red Dead is, easily the best open world game this gen. I had somebody tell me I had bad taste in games because I enjoyed Red Dead, Don't worry gaf I ended the friendship.

Talking about friendship, I found out one of my "straight" friends has been sleeping with one of my gay friends for two years :O I always assumed he was bi-curious.
my gaydar has never been wrong
 

RM8

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So gaf what game/s are you guys/girls currently playing?
Soul Hackers, what's left of Luigi's Mansion, unlocking everything in Sonic Racing Transformed on 3DS before I do on PC. Then I recently bought Snapshot on Steam, it's fun but I can't imagine it playing it wihtout Xpadder. And then yesterday dragonlife violently coerced me into buying Burnout Paradise which is on sale for $5 - it's okay, but it reaffirms my preference for non-open-world games.

And if it counts, I just downloaded Carmageddon on my phone (it's free only for today). Screw touch controls :mad:

Oh, I also downloaded the Injustice demo on PS3. I swear it's not in me to enjoy NR's fighters.
 

BeesEight

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So gaf what game/s are you guys/girls currently playing? I just completed GTA IV for the fifth time and now started Red Dead. I actually forgot how awesome Red Dead is, easily the best open world game this gen. I had somebody tell me I had bad taste in games because I enjoyed Red Dead, Don't worry gaf I ended the friendship.

I just finished sequence 13 of AssCreed II. Tell Graham he's wrong and this thing is dumb.

For a reminder, it's probably the most heavy handed and grossly hypocritical moments I think I've ever seen... this month. Because a fucking assassin who's spent the better half of a decade running around stabbing people in the face for no good reason (read: entire militias and city garrisons) is really in any position to criticize a mob looking to burn a tyrant at the stake. And then he goes ahead and gives a bizarrely unrelated speech that would make even the Wakowski siblings cringe about free will and how they shouldn't even listen to the Medici - one of which is standing right there and helped him get his own bloody vengeance - because... freedom and the American dream or some shit. Seriously. Who writes this nonsense?

Talking about friendship, I found out one of my "straight" friends has been sleeping with one of my gay friends for two years :O I always assumed he was bi-curious.
my gaydar has never been wrong

Is this the one that you refused to give my picture to! :mad:
 

Menaged

Member
So gaf what game/s are you guys/girls currently playing? I just completed GTA IV for the fifth time and now started Red Dead. I actually forgot how awesome Red Dead is, easily the best open world game this gen. I had somebody tell me I had bad taste in games because I enjoyed Red Dead, Don't worry gaf I ended the friendship.

I'm on an HD frenzy. Last two games I played were MGS2 and MGS3 (soooooo good) and tonight I've started Resi 4. Played for about 1 1/2 hours, and it's still great. I love my shotgun.
 

Alrus

Member
I don't have time to play games anymore :( Makes me sad, I have a ton of game I'd like to play/finish but I don't think I'll ever see the end of it :( My backlog is immense :( The only times I get to play a game I usually play MH3G anyway.

Eh.. it really isn't even with flavoredcondoms... the risk of transmitting hiv through oral sex is almost nil but you can easily get herpes or other stds that way..

Well tbh you can easily get herpes by kissing someone on the cheek too.

And on a totally unrelated topic, I'll never ever try to shave a 2 month beard with a shitty gillette razor again. Shit took ages and I managed to cut myself. Going to buy a trimmer soon :/
 

bsej87

Member
So gaf what game/s are you guys/girls currently playing? I just completed GTA IV for the fifth time and now started Red Dead. I actually forgot how awesome Red Dead is, easily the best open world game this gen. I had somebody tell me I had bad taste in games because I enjoyed Red Dead, Don't worry gaf I ended the friendship.

Way too much Monster Hunter, some Fez, and some Pinball Arcade
 
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