Not very sensitive I think, like, I know it's getting inside something but, you know, sex is supposed to feel amazing, and I do get to orgasm but that's because of friction I don't feel anything outstanding while making love (or a bj or whatever). It's been like that for a long time, and it drives me crazy as I hate the feeling of dissapointing my bf, I try to be good in bed and he seems to like it, but I think of it as my "duty", not that I feel it. Is it physical? Or psychological?
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RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Are you circumcised?
low blow
Nope
I get horny as fuck, I'm ALWAYS horny (I'm latino for the love of god), but for nothing as sex itself it's a chore in the physical sense =(
Yep, I'm a terrible bottom, when it works it's amazing, yes, but when it doesnt.. holy mother of god kill me already
Oh, I think I know what you mean. When I top it's like "oh ok, it's in and that's cool" but when I bottom it's like another level of greatness. Have you tried bottoming?
Deep breaths and Astroglide. The worst part is over when it's in.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Gobble gobble.
Nope
Is it possible that your foreskin is too tight? Maybe it's cutting off circulation or something? Are you taking any drugs? Depressed or experiencing any other sort of psychological issue?
DR2K
Banned
The worst part is when it keeps going out and you have to go through the horrible pain of it going back in. Topping is so piss easy in comparison. Of course I hear people say otherwise.
It might be my foreskin, yeah why not? I'm not usually depressed but I think I suffer a little of anxiety. Thank you for your interest Ratsky
I've always loved you
Ugh it does suck when it keeps going out. But once it's in for me, I have no trouble at all getting it back in.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
So
tight foreskin is a maybe and you do suffer from mild anxiety. Hm. Just try to relax next time you have sex (maybe take a warm bath before) and don't worry too much about the numbness.
Also, do you masturbate a lot? Maybe your grip is too tight and you've desensitized your penis?
Also, do you masturbate a lot? Maybe your grip is too tight and you've desensitized your penis?
If it continues to be "numb", you might as well tell your doctor about it. There might be something he can do to help like recommend a sex therapist or give you anti anxiety pills.
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umop_3pisdn
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Anxiety and depression very often go hand in hand, and depression can be really hard to identify sometimes, at least it was for me because it's really not much like sadness at all and instead I experience a kind of consistent blunted emotionality. It can become a weird kind of feedback loop where you're so numbed that you become numbed even to the fact that you're numbed. Anxiety on its own probably would be enough to account for that though. I agree you should seek an actual diagnosis though.
MyAbsolution
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Looks like you'll be getting circumcised. Trending.
Henchmen21
Banned
Well back from obnoxious family get together.
Pfft. Could I have mine back please? I got shafted......so to speak.
Pfft. Could I have mine back please? I got shafted......so to speak.
King Endymion
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Lol you all act like foreskin is the greatest thing on Earth.
I did try to stretch it, even using prescription ointment to make it easier :/
Naked Snake
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Dem beard gods
man do i love yoga (NWS-ish, shirtless dude)
Haha, not sure what that smiley's supposed to say.
Zantetsuken88
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So... I'm pro-uncut. I overcame a tight-ish foreskin myself in order to stay that way.
But it seems pretty harsh to attack a guy for making the decision he needed his removed? It must have been tough, hopefully it was worth it. Let's not add to his pain by making him wish he could stick it back on!!
But it seems pretty harsh to attack a guy for making the decision he needed his removed? It must have been tough, hopefully it was worth it. Let's not add to his pain by making him wish he could stick it back on!!
Although don't get me started on the ritual circumcision of babies for "hygiene" reasons. What complete crap.
Except it is.
King Endymion
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It's okay, I don't feel attacked, everyone's entitled to their opinion. My foreskin has always been a nuisance so I'm kind of glad it's gone, even though it feels and looks "strange" now, but I guess I'll get used to it. Feeling the stitches feels so creepy it sends shivers down my spine, ugh.
I have actually never masturbated by pulling the whole foreskin down, so I guess the feeling won't be THAT different I guess, or hope, idk, lol.
That sounds tasty as fuck.
Henchmen21
Banned
I made this two days ago. By the morning if was all gone.
Also I made spicy lasagna, and banana bread.
What is that?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Have you looked into foreskin restoration?
Foreskin is the glue that binds the world together.
I need to back into yoga...
lol
I made this two days ago. By the morning if was all gone.
Also I made spicy lasagna, and banana bread.
Looks good! Since we're talking desserts, I made pumpkin donuts with cranberry filling, topped with a cream cheese drizzle!
Is that some Monkey Bread? Dunno if that's the proper name for since that's what it's called around here. But it's balled flour/dough wrapped in cinnamon and brown sugar.
Pretty good.
Henchmen21
Banned
There's gotta be a smegma joke somewhere in there.
I have zero sweet-food-making skills. Actually, even if I say I like cooking, I limit myself to a couple of super easy dishes that I love to eat If you were to live with me for some reason, you'd probably end up hating curry rice, for example. And then I'd have to kick you out of my house
If you were to live with me for some reason, you'd probably end up hating curry rice, for example. And then I'd have to kick you out of my house RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
What do you mean? Of course it's a thing. You can get it restored surgically (although it's costly and painful) or you can just do it yourself at home, painlessly stretching it out with a device you can buy online (although this takes several years).
If you were to live with me for some reason, you'd probably end up hating curry rice, for example. And then I'd have to kick you out of my house
I would just cook my own meals.
So I can make a house out of it? Hmm.... *grabs vegetable peeler*
Also I can make cookies.
They don't taste very good.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Thanksgiving week mostly sucks, no Scandal, Coven, TVD, or Arrow
I'm actually relieved. I was way too busy with Thanksgiving shit and I didn't want to have to play catch up this week.
Same, and I still get TWD Sunday!
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
dat mid season finale BELIEVE
VICTORsaurio
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I think that's pretty vague.
I'd like to personally welcome Maria Bello to Team Gay from all of us at GayGAF. She's fedorable!
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Welp!
I wasn't going to buy ACIV, but it was 15% off and my brother paid half of it (just because).
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