To me he's both ugly and handsome; it's hard to explain
Also, for some reason he reminds me of (jacked-up) Nick Frost.
If you go to his
post history you can see that he is still pretty active. Just not here.
Yeah, it's funny that people read gossip sites/magazines to know who marries whom, that X has a new girlfriend/boyfriend or that Z and Y are getting a divorce, but as soon as someone publicly came out everyone cries "why are you telling this?! I don't need to know who what you are doing in a bedroom!".
And about that flaunting someone's sexuality - I think straight people are so accustom to this that they simply don't notice it. You see straight pairs hugging and kissing all the time; guys talk about sexy girls, girls about sexy guys; there are erotic magazines like Playboy; ads and all forms of entertainment are sexualized and clearly targeted either to men or women. But they consider this something normal, something that simply is and thus are oblivious that this is nothing else than what they like to call "flaunting". someone's sexuality.