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[Dany]

Are you two in a relationship already? Dating? or friends who wanna try dating?

LDR work if you don't see the inevitable as inevitable. It's painful and hurts when your SO leaves but constistant communication and affection goes a long way.

But if you don't want to consider doing that, explicitly tell him in person your stance of it.

And have fun while he's there and try not to dwell

 

[SpaceBridge]

Are you two in a relationship already? Dating? or friends who wanna try dating?

LDR work if you don't see the inevitable as inevitable. It's painful and hurts when your SO leaves but constistant communication and affection goes a long way.

But if you don't want to consider doing that, explicitly tell him in person your stance of it.

And have fun while he's there and try not to dwell

No not dating or relationship. Honestly we met online, on scruff app. I honestly went into it purely to hook up, but we've seen each other twice and we still haven't done it. Just talking, enjoying each other's company, cuddling and making out. It's very intense though. The feelings are mutual, I mean we connect on so many levels. He said that he hasn't met anyone that gets him. I told him that there are so many better guys out there, better looking, and he said that none as polite or attentive as me.

I can't put myself through this. Not again.

 

[ab.aeterno]

I know fuck all in the grand scheme of things, but one of the few things I do know is this: enjoy those feelings, or love, or whatever it is, for as long as you are able. Life is ugly, brutish, and full of enough heartbreak already. Fuck cutting it short or "prolonging the inevitable." You like him? Then FUCK everything else. Enjoy the moment, stop thinking so much, and worry about the rest as you come to it.

 

[Grakl]

No not dating or relationship. Honestly we met online, on scruff app. I honestly went into it purely to hook up, but we've seen each other twice and we still haven't done it. Just talking, enjoying each other's company, cuddling and making out. It's very intense though. The feelings are mutual, I mean we connect on so many levels. He said that he hasn't met anyone that gets him. I told him that there are so many better guys out there, better looking, and he said that none as polite or attentive as me.

I can't put myself through this. Not again.

You don't have to put faith in LDRs, but they can work. It sounds like it would be worth it for you.

 

[Kevyt]

Ah, I see. Well, you know, better to have loved and lost, SpaceBridge. You should watch Beautiful Life and then be glad that...yeah, no spoilers. It'll help you appreciate the time you get with loved ones! (Man, such a good show.)

Thats a beautiful film. Best of luck SpaceBridge

 

[Dany]

My roommate got me

Ice mold shaped like balls for my whiskey.

He knows me so well Can't wait to trot them out new years.

 

[DOWN]

 

[DOWN]

No not dating or relationship. Honestly we met online, on scruff app. I honestly went into it purely to hook up, but we've seen each other twice and we still haven't done it. Just talking, enjoying each other's company, cuddling and making out. It's very intense though. The feelings are mutual, I mean we connect on so many levels. He said that he hasn't met anyone that gets him. I told him that there are so many better guys out there, better looking, and he said that none as polite or attentive as me.

I can't put myself through this. Not again.

"You can still fail at what you don't want, so you might as well take a chance on doing what you love."

 

[Kevyt]

I want one of those.

 

[chronos4590]

Guys I dunno what to do with the guy from Chicago. He's perfect in every way, he even admited that he liked me a lot and talked about having me stay with him in Chicago for a few days. Today he switched his airline ticket. He was supposed go fly out tomorrow but extended till Friday. I told him not to, that I didn't want that pressure. But he did it any ways. I feel awful cuz I really fucking like this dude and this is only prolonging the inevitable .

Someone great has crept into your life, on both his side and yours. i think its normal for both of your reactions. He wants to spend more time with you as do you, yet you want him to respect your personal feelings about making that kind of decision to stay regarding the flight. You two just met, You're still beginning to understand each other.

No not dating or relationship. Honestly we met online, on scruff app. I honestly went into it purely to hook up, but we've seen each other twice and we still haven't done it. Just talking, enjoying each other's company, cuddling and making out. It's very intense though. The feelings are mutual, I mean we connect on so many levels. He said that he hasn't met anyone that gets him. I told him that there are so many better guys out there, better looking, and he said that none as polite or attentive as me.

I can't put myself through this. Not again.

you guys have both jumped on this quick yet with his limited time in the area, and the intense spark that you've created together, its expected and i think that is fine but as you said its a lot of pressure. With that being said, enjoy the mans company. He loves you and you love him back. Even though there might be some hurt or pain, what could you take from him in these moments to enrich yourself. If you've already been through a LDR already and dont want to experience it again thats understandable, But see where this next few days takes you two. If you feel its worth continuing see how you two can pursuit this relationship and if not, see what terms you two end up on until he might show up once again. Keep us Updated, and of course if you need any more words just let us know

 

[SpaceBridge]

Someone great has crept into your life, on both his side and yours. i think its normal for both of your reactions. He wants to spend more time with you as do you, yet you want him to respect your personal feelings about making that kind of decision to stay regarding the flight. You two just met, You're still beginning to understand each other.


you guys have both jumped on this quick yet with his limited time in the area, and the intense spark that you've created together, its expected and i think that is fine but as you said its a lot of pressure. With that being said, enjoy the mans company. He loves you and you love him back. Even though there might be some hurt or pain, what could you take from him in these moments to enrich yourself. If you've already been through a LDR already and dont want to experience it again thats understandable, But see where this next few days takes you two. If you feel its worth continuing see how you two can pursuit this relationship and if not, see what terms you two end up on until he might show up once again. Keep us Updated, and of course if you need any more words just let us know

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

 

[Grakl]

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

You dont know the outcome, and you're not giving yourself a chance. You should be.

 

[Kater]

This one has already started the inebriation in hopes of more quickly reaching drunken revelry. Started with a Strawberry Lambic (fruity, light beer) and have moved to a chocolate stout so dark I can't see through it, ha. You now officially have a Khajiit bro drinking with you in spirit!

I had to puke before but I'm back and drunk again on Whiskey alone. Irish Car Bombs are good but I shouldn't drink more than 2 glasses of those.

Fake edit: oh whoops, this stout is 10% lol. I kinda forgot that. Oh well
Once I finish off these craft beers, I'll be moving to car bombs and specialty shots.

Khajiit for everyone!

Ja'Karzo, my main in ESO. Archer, thief, rogue.

My alt, Ri'Zahr-Jo, the mage.

ESO has a few LGB NPC questgivers throughout the game, and one such I encountered involved saving the male mate of another male Khajiit. Gay Khajiit! Even the mainline games weren't that ballsy.

Raz, Khajiitbro extraordinaire. He's seriously the best character in the game. So much wit.

Real edit: Oh and this picture I found which is adorable and technically SFW but just eyebrow-raising enough at first glance I'll link it instead.

Whoa, Khajitts in ESO look quite good!

And I love the Khajiit's at the link. :3

Spoiler

Yeah, they are hot.

Here is the one I made not so long ago, Ni'Marr.

Also, you should try out Inigo if you haven't already.

Sorry, passed out on the carpet before I could reply. Those Irish bombs were too much for me.

 

[Kevyt]

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

Yeah, your story reminds me a bit of a film I saw. Life imitates art.

 

[terrisus]

I know the outcome. Pain and tears.

Do you know next week's lottery numbers too?

You don't know the outcome

Spoiler

unless you cause that outcome to happen

 

[Sibylus]

Spacebridge, don't let the perfect become the enemy of the good.

 

[Kevyt]

Yeah SpaceBridge, seize the day!

 

[Via Purifico]

Go for it, sometimes you have to work for what you want.
I met a great guy and it was a LDR we loved each other very much and we're still friends.

He gave me something no other locally did. See where it goes, it's still new so take your time and don't worry about what ifs.

 

[TheAbsolution]

Godamnit SpaceBridge , freaking go for it.you've got someone that's good to you and cares for you. Just let it take you where it may.

 

[DOWN]

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

That's sweet as hell. Do yourself a favor and don't let go too soon either.

 

[Kevyt]

Sorry, passed out on the carpet before I could reply. Those Irish bombs were too much for me.

How many did you have?

 

[Kater]

How many did you have?

Five glasses. Possibly a few too many, now that I think about it.

I feel like such a n amateur for letting myself get knocked out by such a drink.Damn.

Edit:

Sorry, no, it were actually five.

 

[chronos4590]

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

This all sounds really great tbh. Him taking your hand and everything, i wish i saw that happen thats really cute lol, but anyhow let me not digress.

You have the next few days left, at least until he'd visit once again which from what you're telling me i'm more than sure he will. You two just me, but no matter how fast you're going at it together, take this time to learn about one another more and find your own needs, his own and what you'd want together as a couple if it were to happen.

Shit, I'd bae him up if I was you tho lol. You two sound very happy even with the mix of emotions, I think that is worth something at least.

Spoiler

And when you have New Years sex and the "ball" drops teehee

it'll be a good way to end one year and bring in a new one.

 

[Kevyt]

Six glasses. Possibly a few too many, now that I think about it.

I feel like such a n amateur for letting myself get knocked out by such a drink.Damn.

Yeah that's a lot, i don't think you're an amateur though.

 

[Kater]

Yeah that's a lot, i don't think you're an amateur though.

Seems like it to me though. Maybe I've grown soft after a year of wine and liqueur only.

 

[B-Dex]

Lordt. It was hot guys. Hot make out session on the counter with him between my legs and his manly parts pressed against mine. Then long hot session in the bedroom. Let's just say I was deeply moved.

Lol

 

[Kevyt]

Lordt. It was hot guys. Hot make out session on the counter with him between my legs and his manly parts pressed against mine. Then long hot session in the bedroom. Let's just say I was deeply moved.

Lol

I'm sure many things were moved. Congrats on the sex!

 

[Sibylus]

Lordt. It was hot guys. Hot make out session on the counter with him between my legs and his manly parts pressed against mine. Then long hot session in the bedroom. Let's just say I was deeply moved.

Lol

Preach s'more of that gospel, reverend!

 

[Dany]

Sex is overrated like Zelda.

8.8/10.

 

[Kevyt]

Sex is overrated like Zelda.

8.8/10.

Too much nudity 7.5/10

 

[Kangi]

I think I've realized recently that I'm just a cartoon maniac. I would die happy if all I ever did was eat, drink, sleep, and watch cartoons.

I wouldn't need video games, a job, a boyfriend, or a life that involves going outside. Just strap me in and inject that animation into my veins.

 

[RatskyWatsky]

We've def jumped this full throttle. We spent over 8 hours together in his hotel room. I had to come home but he wants me to spend the night now and I feel drained. He's rekindled my hopes and is building my self esteem which had taken a beating recently. He's like my dream come to life: the guy you fantasize about, but then he turned out to be caring and emotional and intimate and affectionate. And I want to surrender to the feelings, but I know the outcome. Pain and tears. At one point I almost cried while he was on the phone for work. He saw me too. He reached out, held my hand and didn't let go. This is like a freaking gay romance film.

how bigs his d tho

Lordt. It was hot guys. Hot make out session on the counter with him between my legs and his manly parts pressed against mine. Then long hot session in the bedroom. Let's just say I was deeply moved.

im gonna need several more paragraphs outta you

 

[Grakl]

I think I've realized recently that I'm just a cartoon maniac. I would die happy if all I ever did was eat, drink, sleep, and watch cartoons.

I wouldn't need video games, a job, a boyfriend, or a life that involves going outside. Just strap me in and inject that animation into my veins.

But you could have a boyfriend to cuddle and fuck while watching cartoons, like How to Train Your Dragon.

 

[Kater]

I think I've realized recently that I'm just a cartoon maniac. I would die happy if all I ever did was eat, drink, sleep, and watch cartoons.

I wouldn't need video games, a job, a boyfriend, or a life that involves going outside. Just strap me in and inject that animation into my veins.

If all I ever did all day was watching Disney films and cartoons, I'd be fine with that.

But sex is also great. Hm. Kinda torn.

 

[Kangi]

But you could have a boyfriend to cuddle and fuck while watching cartoons, like How to Train Your Dragon.

How much would he be getting in the way of my cartoons, though?

Spoiler

Also, I think HTTYD is overrated.

 

[Kevyt]

I think I've realized recently that I'm just a cartoon maniac. I would die happy if all I ever did was eat, drink, sleep, and watch cartoons.

I wouldn't need video games, a job, a boyfriend, or a life that involves going outside. Just strap me in and inject that animation into my veins.

Lover of cartoons? Never would have guessed cartoonphile had a sexual meaning. What are your favorite cartoons?

how bigs his d tho



im gonna need several more paragraphs outta you

Ditto.

 

[Kangi]

Lover of cartoons? Never would have guessed cartoonphile had a sexual meaning. What are your favorite cartoons?

Off the top of my head: Avatar, Animaniacs, Hey Arnold!, Gravity Falls, Invader Zim, Foster's, Courage...

Couldn't rank any of them beyond the first two, though.

 

[Kevyt]

Off the top of my head: Avatar, Animaniacs, Hey Arnold!, Gravity Falls, Invader Zim, Foster's, Courage...

Couldn't rank any of them beyond the first two, though.

90's kid confirmed.

 

[Grakl]

How much would he be getting in the way of my cartoons, though?

Spoiler

Also, I think HTTYD is overrated.

HTTYD is underrated. It's actually one of the best movies of all time. You're mean.

 

[Kevyt]

HTTYD is underrated. It's actually one of the best movies of all time. You're mean.

 

[Kangi]

90's kid confirmed.

Two out of six a 90's kid does not make.

Granted, if I were to make a top 10, the rest would probably be 90's cartoons...

 

[Kevyt]

Two out of six a 90's kid does not make.

Granted, if I were to make a top 10, the rest would probably be 90's cartoons...

Is Sponge Bob, The Simpsons or Rugrats in it?

 

[Kater]

How much would he be getting in the way of my cartoons, though?

Spoiler

Also, I think HTTYD is overrated.

No it isn't. It's a really great movie with probably the best mute main protagonist in movie history besides Chaplin.

 

[daripad]

90's kids are the best 😅

 

[Kangi]

Is Sponge Bob, The Simpsons or Rugrats in it?

I judge cartoons across the whole series. That would invalidate all three from being good enough. =p

 

[Kevyt]

No it isn't. It's a really great movie with probably the best mute main protagonist in movie history besides Chaplin.

It's a dragon, Charlie Chaplin was a human.

90's kids are the best 😅

You know it!

 

[Grakl]

It's a dragon, Charlie Chaplin was a human.

Why is that relevant? What you said is just a fact that everyone knows, and it doesn't make a difference.

 

[Kangi]

Could we not compare Charlie Chaplin to a cartoon dragon?

 

[Grakl]

Could we not compare Charlie Chaplin to a cartoon dragon?

.

 

[Kevyt]

I judge cartoons across the whole series. That would invalidate all three from being good enough. =p

Are you saying Sponge Bob is no longer good, or the Simpsons?

Why is that relevant?Why is that relevant? What you said is just a fact that everyone knows, and it doesn't make a difference.

A mute dragon >.>

Actually, toothless looks like a salamander with bat wings.