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- Promo for next week's episodes (please spoiler tag any discussion)
To me this came across as incredibly whiny and made the character unlikeable. Now if it this was coming from someone that was hideously ugly or was born with a deformity on their face that's one thing, but a fat girl? You can change that, it's not something you're born with and forced to live with. I cannot for the life of me find any empathy for the "struggle" of fat people.
That said, I love the way it was shot, really cool stuff.
wow that was coldI didn't think that the fat girl monologue was supposed to be persuasive. No normative claims were being made, as far as I could tell. She was just describing her romantic experiences, which I have an easy time believing are shitty, by and large.
DON'T EVEN ASK ME HOW.wow that was cold
You don't get it. She can change that, but she would be doing it for the wrong reasons. She clearly has no problems being fat and is comfortable with herself... and the general attitude towards her lifestyle choice is one of "you can change that", as if she should live her life according to the expectations of others. We all deserve to be loved for who we want to be. She has no problems being fat, but it fucking sucks that the rest of the world clearly does.
As a fan of women of all sizes, I totally get her.
I'd be all over someone like her, by the way... the crap she said before the monologue was hysterical and the monologue itself was such an honest moment. It's a shame most "real" people are too self-conscious to ever allow themselves to be this truthful about their feelings.
You don't get it. She can change that, but she would be doing it for the wrong reasons. She clearly has no problems being fat and is comfortable with herself... and the general attitude towards her lifestyle choice is one of "you can change that", as if she should live her life according to the expectations of others. We all deserve to be loved for who we want to be. She has no problems being fat, but it fucking sucks that the rest of the world clearly does.
As a fan of women of all sizes, I totally get her.
I'd be all over someone like her, by the way... the crap she said before the monologue was hysterical and the monologue itself was such an honest moment. It's a shame most "real" people are too self-conscious to ever allow themselves to be this truthful about their feelings.
The rest of world dislikes her being fat because it's a problem that can easily be solved. You can say that being fat is a life style - I get that. But it is a life style that leads to health problems, ranging from joint pain to diabetes. That, and most people don't find obese people attractive. If she has trouble finding a boyfriend or husband, she needs to reevaluate her life. Maybe it means losing weight, just like a smoker should give up cigarettes for health and attraction reasons.
Oh, and along with being truthful, I find it funny that a woman being obese shouldn't have to change to find love. Yet, a guy who is very nerdy is told to change his image to attract a mate. Members of both sexes sometimes need to make changes to get what they want.
She's still whiny. She complains about guys not saying yes to her proposals. That can be said for anyone; fat, skinny, tall, short, whatever. She'll eventually find someone.
We see life in fundamentally different ways. You completely lost me at "A smoker should give up cigarettes for health and attraction reasons". lol
A guy who is very nerdy is told to change his image by fucking assholes. Nobody needs to make any changes, that's the point. Be who you are and fuck everyone who doesn't appreciate it.
Live and let live is the only way I can make sense of the world. You wanna be an obese ultranerd? Go for it, if it makes you happy.
But she obviously does have problems with being fat. The fact of the matter is that a majority of people don't find being overweight or obese attractive. And if she has trouble living with that fact then she clearly has a problem with being fat. Can someone really expect all of society to change to accommodate her? Physical attraction isn't an easy thing to change; if you don't find a certain type of person attractive you probably never will. However losing weight is achievable, and the fact that others will find you more attractive is just one of the positive side effects of it.She clearly has no problems being fat and is comfortable with herself...
Why is that worth a lol? Smoking is bad for you, being obese is bad for you. A doctor will suggest giving up smoking or losing weight to improve your health.
Society tells him to change his image. Lack of success with women tells him to change.
And I don't think I've met many obese ultranerds who are happy. The gal on Louis doesn't seem happy to me either.
But she obviously does have problems with being fat. The fact of the matter is that a majority of people don't find being overweight or obese attractive. And if she has trouble living with that fact then she clearly has a problem with being fat. Can someone really expect all of society to change to accommodate her? Physical attraction isn't an easy thing to change; if you don't find a certain type of person attractive you probably never will. However losing weight is achievable, and the fact that others will find you more attractive is just one of the positive side effects of it.
At least that's how I see it. And I'm speaking as someone who chose to pursue a healthier lifestyle and diet and has lost weight as a result.
And while I do think overweight females have a more difficult time in the dating scene than males do, males also have it pretty rough as well.
Because thinking someone is irresponsible when they knowingly do something that is bad for them is the ultimate joke, considering the way we live our lives, nowdays.
I personally used to be fat and am now fit and also used to smoke and quit. They were my decisions and I'm happy with them, but this mentality of telling other people how they should or shouldn't live their lives makes me burst out laughing considering the horrid state modern society is in.
Not that it matters to the discussion at hand, but she did seem pretty happy to me. She seemed frustrated at men for not accepting her as she likes to be. All she complained about was lack of appreciation... a problem which could more easily be solved by findind a guy who likes her as she is (as I do) than by completely turning her life around and turning herself into a different person who she does not necessarily want to be, all for the sake of changing the way others see her. That's an absurdly harsh public mentality. She isn't even that fat!
Plus, she's touching more on the fact that alot of guys would probably go out with her and treat her right if it didn't mean having to be seen with her in public. Which is the true stigma being examined. As she clearly said, they have no problem fucking her... so attraction is not the issue being debated here at all. It's the social condemnation of that same attraction by others.
Elevator, Part 2
Louie takes a new friend to lunch.
Elevator, Part 3
A person from Louie's past pops up again.
I'm really curious about that guy laying in the background.
The show just doesn't care.So is this louies second ex wife or something? I ask because his kids are white and she's black.
So is this louies second ex wife or something? I ask because his kids are white and she's black.
In restrospect, it's crazy how much of the American mythology that was taught in elementary school (Paul Revere and all that) was total bullshit.I feel that I'm a bit younger than most users on GAF, and while elementary school is obviously a foggy blur to me, I do recall Christopher Columbus being glamorized as "the first American hero."
What other lies was I told
I feel that I'm a bit younger than most users on GAF, and while elementary school is obviously a foggy blur to me, I do recall Christopher Columbus being glamorized as "the first American hero."
What other lies was I told
wow what a cunt
Louis and this woman are having a wonderful time together :3
How will this go wrong?