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[perfectchaos007]

I can't even imagine how it would feel to come across such thing.

It's absolutely disgusting that anyone would take advantage of someone's trust like that. And its even more crazy that there are no laws against it.

I would advise consulting with a lawyer, even without specific laws against it, a lawyer might still be able to accuse him via other less direct laws.

Semi-confession: I have a phobia that one day I'll randomly stumble into video/pictures of someone I know in some porn site, partly why I went years not looking at porn and just stuck with hentai.

Just awhile ago I came across a video where I couldn't see the person face and got paranoid it was someone I knew and it really screwes up with my mind for awhile. Good thing I have therapy to help me through this situations.

Why wouldn't you want to see someone you know on a porn site?

 

[Pickman]

OK, I'll admit it: I am not a man. I don't think I could do that. I'm gagging a little bit.

A pointed and important song for the moment.

Also, I almost threw up reading this. That's fucking disgusting, you freaky bastard.

 

[Rollo Tomasi]

OK, I'll admit it: I am not a man. I don't think I could do that. I'm gagging a little bit.

What. The. Fuck.

 

[Rollo Tomasi]

hope people are making throwaway email addresses

op isn't the most sane/trust-worthy person to be sending this shit too.

NTGYK, care to elaborate on this poster's claims? Is this just some inside joke?

 

[Magwik]

You need your phone number to make a gmail.

Pretty sure you can skip that

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

NTGYK, care to elaborate on this poster's claims? Is this just some inside joke?

I honestly have no idea what he's talking about. Maybe I annoyed him in my thousands of threads?

What'd I do, kick?

 

[GeordieMark]

You've never jerked it? Even experimentally? Are you totally asexual? If you are, no big deal.

I always assumed anyone who said they never jerk off was just lying through their teeth. The idea seems that alien to me.

 

[Son Of D]

What's a good anonymous email provider? I feel like I could confess something maybe.

guerrillamail.com worked for me last year.

 

[NoctisVsStar]

I honestly have no idea what he's talking about. Maybe I annoyed him in my thousands of threads?

What'd I do, kick?

You're cool in my book.

 

[Funky Papa]

There is no law against that!? That is absolutely shitty. I'm so sorry that this happened to you.

There must be something this person can do. Anybody have any idea?

Take solace in the fact that there's SO MUCH webcam porn (leaked and otherwise) on the internet it will be nearly impossible to find you unless somebody makes a veritable effort at digging for dirt.

This is also why I refuse to take compromising pictures of me. Going by my friends' comments and my own limited experience, I am legitimely shocked by the amount of people who want to be photographed during the act. Big, fat nope.

 

[dani_dc]

Why wouldn't you want to see someone you know on a porn site?

Why would I want to?

I hate the idea of anyone taking advantage of someone I know.
There's nothing positive in finding a video of someone you know in a porn site really, the 'best" thing to come out of it would be informing the person that they had their privacy violated so they could do criminal charged to however did that to them.

Of course this assume non-consensual material. Consensual material would be a different situation, thought if I wasn't aware of it before hand it would likely caught me off guard and result in me reconsidering how much I knew the person.

 

[jorgeton]

TLDR: Simp gets dumped by girlfriend, stalks her, waits six years for revenge, and then fucks her mom and tapes it.



You're a fucking psycho.

Cripes. Some people on this earth are just truly evil.

 

[butalala]

TLDR: Simp gets dumped by girlfriend, stalks her, waits six years for revenge, and then fucks her mom and tapes it.



You're a fucking psycho.

I saw Gone Girl last night and this story had some startling parallels.

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

I'm tall and big. Didn't lose my virginity till I was early 20s. I have been with 15 women since then, but besides one (we were together for a couple of years and she was probably the worst for me) I feel like every woman I've been with doesn't like me. I feel like all the ones I really want to be with reject me, and that I've only actually been with someone because I just accept what I can get. I hit on almost every woman because I feel it's the only way I'll actually get a chance with anyone.

When I actually fall for someone and dedicate time for that person, it usually ends up with a friendship. So, i just talk to every woman as a potential mate. I cat call all of them just so i have a chance with one of them. And if/when I actually do get rejected, I get angry. I get angry because it always feels like I'm being looked down on. That I'm big so I'm not good enough. And usually that's been the case. I've had about 30 women say they'd be with me if i wasn't fat. But losing weight isn't that easy, magical cure all people think it is. I've lost weight a million times. Gone from 340ish down to 260 back up to 300(where i am now) and now I'll usually fluctuate from 280-300 every so months. I work out, i get in better shape, but i always gain it back after a while. It's so hard for me not to eat something i think is good. i mean, like, super difficult to say no to a Brownie. Sometimes I'll want something, tell myself no, walk home, take off my shoes, then sit down for twenty minutes, get up, and walk back twenty minutes to the store that I originally willpowered my way away from and buy the shit snack i shouldn't have eaten. I don't know what to do.

Disclaimer: I know, not everyone will love me, I can't force others to love me and i shouldn't expect everyone to say yes just because i devote time to them. But after the 200th(probably more) rejection because of how many girls i hit on and most centered around my weight. It starts to piss you off. I don't really know where I'm going with this now. Just being looked down on for something that isn't easy to control and only being disliked for that one thing....really pisses me off. I feel unloved even though I've been loved, and it's hard for me to hold any relationship in high regard because i think in their hearts, all women just view me as a fatass, even the ones that have slept with me. And besides the woman i had a 2 year relationship with (that was abusive on her end, saying she could leave me and find someone easily, broke plates and stuff, threw gifts i bought back in my face) I just can't get excited by much with the opposite sex anymore. they'll either reject me, leave me, or abuse my kindness. But i still like them, lol. and i still keep trying to find one I actually like, but that hasn't worked out, yet.

TLDR: I'm bitter because besides my weight I could be with who i want most likely (to an extent). I hate being looked down on because I'm fat. I feel all rejection is based around my weight, and would like to get thinner, but it's not at easy as thin people make it out to be. So I'll continue to be fat and unloved. At least that's how I feel about my predicament. Thanks for listening.

You're sure that your weight is the only stumbling block on the way to happiness? What kind of woman are you looking for? Where are you looking? I mean, I find it hard to believe you've managed to land 15 girls, and not a one "liked" you? I dunno, I feel like we don't have enough external information here.

 

[J. Bravo]

There is no law against that!? That is absolutely shitty. I'm so sorry that this happened to you.

There must be something this person can do. Anybody have any idea?

I'm pretty sure you can email the site admins and they'll take the pictures/videos down. I know that one of my old friends dated a girl who was in a porno and even though she consented , she still was able to message some sites and they took it down. I mean, you can still find it and you don't have to look very hard but she was able to get it down from some sites.

granted, she has since broke up with my friend, moved to colorado, done more porn, and is dating a broncos player. so pretty much just good for my buddy he got it in haha.

 

[perfectchaos007]

Why would I want to?

I hate the idea of anyone taking advantage of someone I know.
There's nothing positive in finding a video of someone you know in a porn site really, the 'best" thing to come out of it would be informing the person that they had their privacy violated so they could do criminal charged to however did that to them.

Of course this assume non-consensual material. Consensual material would be a different situation, thought if I wasn't aware of it before hand it would likely caught me off guard and result in me reconsidering how much I knew the person.

"revenge" porn in now illegal in most states so a guy who breaks up with his girlfriend can't upload their sex videos on porn sites without being subject to legal ramifications. I'de say most amateur porn is consensual. Many couples get off on voyeurism or find it liberating. If I saw someone I knew in a porn video, I wouldn't automatically assume the video was posted online as a result of the subject being taken advantage of. It's definitely a possibility, but not enough to make an auto assumption

 

[Azulsky]

You're sure that your weight is the only stumbling block on the way to happiness? What kind of woman are you looking for? Where are you looking? I mean, I find it hard to believe you've managed to land 15 girls, and not a one "liked" you? I dunno, I feel like we don't have enough external information here.

Hmm maybe therapy at that point.

If the compulsion is enough for him to walk back to the store for food that he already said no too I think that's a decent sign.

Congrats on the sex tho.

 

[grumble]

What a coincidence! Same thing happened to me!

...

Not really. Obviously wasn't that committed of a relationship. Was Scream 4 any good? I never watched it.

Funny that this confession got minimal hate from gaf, while similar stories in past confessions have gotten gaf red hot. Maybe the gender of the confessor? I mean it was pretty horrible.

 

[Mineshaft_Gap]

What a coincidence! Same thing happened to me!

...

Not really. Obviously wasn't that committed of a relationship. Was Scream 4 any good? I never watched it.

Is this person saying they got fingered by David Arquette when he was still married?

 

[perfectchaos007]

Funny that this confession got minimal hate from gaf, while similar stories in past confessions have gotten gaf red hot. Maybe the gender of the confessor?

yo. hooking up with a celebrity doesn't count. Thats why I always tell girls that I meet at bars "I'm famous"

 

[Fireblend]

OK, I'll admit it: I am not a man. I don't think I could do that. I'm gagging a little bit.

Public confession time: I wouldn't call it a fetish as in it giving me any extra pleasure (and cleaning up must be a nightmare if you don't use something to cover the bed), but I don't mind what the confessor describes. I also don't get why period/period sex is such a huge taboo.

Also, revenge porn fucking sucks. There's a couple of really great articles I've read on it and everytime I feel more disgusted by its existence, how the site owners are basically Internet-empowered sociopaths and how victims have little if any power to remove whatever gets uploaded. It's sickening.

 

[dani_dc]

"revenge" porn in now illegal in most states so a guy who breaks up with his girlfriend can't upload their sex videos on porn sites without being subject to legal ramifications. I'de say most amateur porn is consensual. Many couples get off on voyeurism or find it liberating. If I saw someone I knew in a porn video, I wouldn't automatically assume the video was posted online as a result of the subject being taken advantage of. It's definitely a possibility, but not enough to make an auto assumption

I don't quite think most people uploading "revenge" porn are thinking about the legality of it in the first place.

If the person upload some consensual amateur porn then that's fine.

 

[Mordeccai]

Funny that this confession got minimal hate from gaf, while similar stories in past confessions have gotten gaf red hot. Maybe the gender of the confessor?

Now maybe I'm in the minority here, but if I had a girlfriend and she went out and got fingered/blew say, Daniel Craig, Zach Galifianakis, hell even Shia LaBeouf, I honestly wouldn't be mad. I mean your girl is a person too, and who doesn't want to fuck or get fukt by a celeb?

I would probably feel honored the next time I went to pound town knowing a celeb got down with my girl.

 

[grumble]

Now maybe I'm in the minority here, but if I had a girlfriend and she went out and got fingered/blew say, Daniel Craig, Zach Galifianakis, hell even Shia LaBeouf, I honestly wouldn't be mad. I mean your girl is a person too, and who doesn't want to fuck or get fukt by a celeb?

I would probably feel honored the next time I went to pound town knowing a celeb got down with my girl.

I find that to be so weird. I know that worshipping famous people is a common cultural thing, but I mean the betrayal of trust is no different than if they fucked a non-famous person. Celebrities aren't any different than anyone else, really. Personally I'd be livid no matter who my so slept with, rich, poor, boss, stranger, or someone pushed by a magazine.

That being said I get it if you guys can a conditionally open relationship where you can fuck someone if you agree that they are desirable. I mean no big deal if the quarterback fucks your high school girlfriend, as long as you get to have sex with her after, right?

 

[sangreal]

Now maybe I'm in the minority here, but if I had a girlfriend and she went out and got fingered/blew say, Daniel Craig, Zach Galifianakis, hell even Shia LaBeouf, I honestly wouldn't be mad. I mean your girl is a person too, and who doesn't want to fuck or get fukt by a celeb?

I would probably feel honored the next time I went to pound town knowing a celeb got down with my girl.

but there are no male celebs in Scream 4

 

[J. Bravo]

Now maybe I'm in the minority here, but if I had a girlfriend and she went out and got fingered/blew say, Daniel Craig, Zach Galifianakis, hell even Shia LaBeouf, I honestly wouldn't be mad. I mean your girl is a person too, and who doesn't want to fuck or get fukt by a celeb?

I would probably feel honored the next time I went to pound town knowing a celeb got down with my girl.

i would probably fuck her once just to say i put my dick where the famous actor did but she would still get dumped. because she still cheated.

now if it's a situation where we discussed beforehand the free pass thing. then i'd probably be okay with it, even knowing i'd never get a chance with whoever my dream girl happened to be.

 

[Mordeccai]

I guess my point of view is that I can forgive the moment of weakness when it comes to a celebrity, simply due to all the cultural hype. Now obviously if I've felt the girl isn't committed to me before hand and then goes out to find some new dick I'd be mad. But happening upon somebody famous while drunk at a night club? It's just a recipe for the fuckening that I have no control over. Obviously this would have to extend both ways, even if there is no chance in hell ScarJo would give me the time of day out in the wild.

A high school QB is different man. He's still a nobody that happens to be good at some shitty high school sport, all he offers is a different personality type/body. A celeb has had potentially years of the social hype machine behind him, mass sex appeal in televison ads or movie roles, and offers something a bit more than fucking a nobody. Imagined value or not. Can't blame a person for buying into the hype machine that is specifically engineered to get us all going.

 

[terrisus]

yo. hooking up with a celebrity doesn't count. Thats why I always tell girls that I meet at bars "I'm famous"

 

[NoctisVsStar]

I find that to be so weird. I know that worshipping famous people is a common cultural thing, but I mean the betrayal of trust is no different than if they fucked a non-famous person. Celebrities aren't any different than anyone else, really. Personally I'd be livid no matter who my so slept with, rich, poor, boss, stranger, or someone pushed by a magazine.

That being said I get it if you guys can a conditionally open relationship where you can fuck someone if you agree that they are desirable. I mean no big deal if the quarterback fucks your high school girlfriend, as long as you get to have sex with her after, right?

i gotta agree with this betrayal is betrayal doesn't matter how you slice it or how you view it. Would i like to fuck the hell out of Scarjo and maybe wife her up in the process? of course LOL ( sorry i was daydreamiing) but if I'm committed to someone i won't do such a thing, i mean at the end of the day you treat others as you want to be treated.

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

Was it Nico Tortorella??

Who?

 

[Omegasquash]

OK, I'll admit it: I am not a man. I don't think I could do that. I'm gagging a little bit.

Sex on the period...once is all it takes. Even there at the very end of it when my wife wants to smang I'm hesitant. Going down?

Now maybe I'm in the minority here, but if I had a girlfriend and she went out and got fingered/blew say, Daniel Craig, Zach Galifianakis, hell even Shia LaBeouf, I honestly wouldn't be mad. I mean your girl is a person too, and who doesn't want to fuck or get fukt by a celeb?

I would probably feel honored the next time I went to pound town knowing a celeb got down with my girl.

The wife and I have freebie celebrities. We know who we can fuck and who we can't, so if I'm at a conference and all of a sudden Jennifer Lawrence wanted to get with me, it's cool. Turns out, she's more into female celebrities. Lucky me!

 

[Do Better]

Doozy sounds like a stereotypical villain. Honestly, read it in an English accent and you'll understand where I'm coming from (think Jeremy Irons or Benedict Cumberbatch).

Hugh Grant

 

[vikki]

"revenge" porn in now illegal in most states so a guy who breaks up with his girlfriend can't upload their sex videos on porn sites without being subject to legal ramifications. I'de say most amateur porn is consensual. Many couples get off on voyeurism or find it liberating. If I saw someone I knew in a porn video, I wouldn't automatically assume the video was posted online as a result of the subject being taken advantage of. It's definitely a possibility, but not enough to make an auto assumption

I always assumed revenge porn was fake. Maybe some of it isn't, but I just assume 99% of porno is fake. There can't possibly be that many stepmoms into having threesomes with their stepdaughter and stepdaughter's BF.

On a real note, I know California outlawed uploading nude pics of girls without their consent. It's to prevent shit like that confession from happening.

Sex on the period...once is all it takes. Even there at the very end of it when my wife wants to smang I'm hesitant. Going down?

You don't go down, man. C'mon now. I was weary about the period sex, but after doing it with my wife, it wasn't too bad. I guess a heavy flow would be different, but a light flow, you can't really tell.

 

[Omegasquash]

Oh hell no. Going down isn't going to happen at that point in the cycle. Light flow is aight, but I still get a little hesitant. Doesn't stop it from happening...she's persuasive when she wants to rock and roll. I just make sure to have the Handy Dandy Red Towel ready is all.

 

[jasonng]

You're sure that your weight is the only stumbling block on the way to happiness? What kind of woman are you looking for? Where are you looking? I mean, I find it hard to believe you've managed to land 15 girls, and not a one "liked" you? I dunno, I feel like we don't have enough external information here.

Confessor, you're looking for happiness from others when you should be happy with yourself first. It's not fair to put that kind of pressure on your potential mate and your self defeatist attitude is more toxic than you think. I'm sure you get this all the time (and it's true) but being fat doesn't stop you from having confidence. Well okay maybe there are girls who don't want to date large guys but the reality is that a lack of confidence is even more damaging. So if you can't change your weight, change your perspective. Do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. Keep exercising. If you can't be skinny aim to be healthy. You can work out so you CAN treat yourself to a brownie. When you start feeling better about yourself and actually be confident you'll see how people will treat you differently. You'll even be able to take rejection gracefully (which you should be in the first place. Take solace in knowing that you're not the only guy that gets rejected).

 

[esterk]

Period sex...been there, done that. It's fine as long as you know beforehand but I don't find any extra pleasure in it. It's just more of a pain in the ass to clean up afterwards.

I would never ever go down on that though. Just...ughhhh

 

[IronRinn]

You don't go down, man. C'mon now. I was weary about the period sex, but after doing it with my wife, it wasn't too bad. I guess a heavy flow would be different, but a light flow, you can't really tell.

I hate to be that guy but I feel like I've been seeing this a lot lately: it's wary. You were wary.





I feel better now.





Sorry, I'll see myself out.

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

I hate to be that guy but I feel like I've been seeing this a lot lately: it's wary. You were wary.





I feel better now.





Sorry, I'll see myself out.

What if he was weary cause his wife kept begging and wouldn't let up

 

[Do Better]

I hate to be that guy but I feel like I've been seeing this a lot lately: it's wary. You were wary.





I feel better now.





Sorry, I'll see myself out.

maybe the thought of period sex made him tired

 

[IronRinn]

What if he was weary cause his wife kept begging and wouldn't let up

maybe the thought of period sex made him tired

That's a good point. I suppose it could have become more than he could bare.

 

[Cth]

Period sex...been there, done that. It's fine as long as you know beforehand but I don't find any extra pleasure in it. It's just more of a pain in the ass to clean up afterwards.

I would never ever go down on that though. Just...ughhhh

True Confession time..

One time I was fingering this girl and I looked down and saw my hand covered in blood and for a brief second I thought, "HOLY SHIT! I should have cut my nails, I've gutted her!"

Turns out she had just started her period and didn't know either.

 

[Necrovex]

I wonder how many Gaffers sending confessions has one of these inside of them?

 

[NotTheGuyYouKill]

Last month I officially met my brother's GF. It was somewhat awkward, but not too bad overall… Considering that I had already seen her naked.

Who the hell receives a video like that and doesn't delete right away, considering that I use that PC as much as him and that it was in the fucking Downloads folder? I saw it because I genuinely didn't know what it was about, and once it started I was so shocked that I couldn't stop watching it until the end...

It was lame as fuck, to be honest. She just undressed, showed her butt and make the victory sign with her hands. Girl, what were you thinking? Do you think you're a raped hentai character or something?

Oh, and I guess that means I've seen child pornography since she's 17… Well, there's a first time for everything!

FBI now has a trace on you. Run.

Also, lol, your brother's a dummy.

 

[Chainsawkitten]

Hey man, if you wanna wear women's clothes, go for it. Eventually, fantasizing ain't gonna be enough and you're gonna wanna put something on.

Go for delicate.

It's the NeoGAF Confessional Choir!

Spoiler

Hey, I did it all in one shot. I swear I tried my best. It's late. It's just for fun anyways. You're mean.

 

[KAOz]

True Confession time..

One time I was fingering this girl and I looked down and saw my hand covered in blood and for a brief second I thought, "HOLY SHIT! I should have cut my nails, I've gutted her!"

Turns out she had just started her period and didn't know either.

I misread this. I thought you wrote "One time I was fighting this girl..." and the whole story just turned dark and weird.

Now I wish it did say "fighting".

 

[Resilient]

This thread is a constant reminder to how stupid people can be.

 

[Mordeccai]

Public confession, just earlier I found what was labeled as my sisters dream diary sitting on her bed as I was vaccuming the house. Now I love the topic of dreams so I thought I'd give it a peek and see what her dreams were like.

Well fuck me, turns out only two pages of it were dreams and the rest were a sex journal of her and her boyfriend. It turns out that:

- She loves anal sex

- She has fucked on my bed and found it hilarious

- Sex on the dining room table and they didn't wipe it down because it was 'hot' to have everything left over on the table

- Sex in the back yard on the lounge chair where I read and play 3DS (this one is super what the fuck. We don't have a privacy fence and all the neighbors can see our back yard. And there is literally no place to put the chair that would be hidden from sight.)

- She is a big fan of period sex

- The next planned sexcapade is to be when I'm home and her and her boyfriend are going to gag each other so they don't make noise.

Man, I can't even say anything about this because then she'll be all like why'd you read my diary you fucker. I knew my one sister was a little bit crazy... but to hear that my littlest sister is like this... fuck man. I should have never opened that diary. Why'd she have to fuck on my bed tho. God dammit.

 

[Funky Papa]

Public confession, just earlier I found what was labeled as my sisters dream diary sitting on her bed as I was vaccuming the house. Now I love the topic of dreams so I thought I'd give it a peek and see what her dreams were like.

Well fuck me, turns out only two pages of it were dreams and the rest were a sex journal of her and her boyfriend. It turns out that:

- She loves anal sex

- She has fucked on my bed and found it hilarious

- Sex on the dining room table and they didn't wipe it down because it was 'hot' to have everything left over on the table

- Sex in the back yard on the lounge chair where I read and play 3DS

- She is a big fan of period sex

- The next planned sexcapade is to be when I'm home and her and her boyfriend are going to gag each other so they don't make noise.

Man, I can't even say anything about this because then she'll be all like why'd you read my diary you fucker. I knew my one sister was a little bit crazy... but to hear that my littlest sister is like this... fuck man. I should have never opened that diary. Why'd she have to fuck on my bed tho. God dammit.

Massive breach of trust and overall doucheness.

Some cringing and mental scarring is the least you deserve.

 

[Necrovex]

- She has fucked on my bed and found it hilarious.

You know what you have to do now. Make Bob proud.

 

[ronitoswife]

Public confession, just earlier I found what was labeled as my sisters dream diary sitting on her bed as I was vaccuming the house. Now I love the topic of dreams so I thought I'd give it a peek and see what her dreams were like.

Well fuck me, turns out only two pages of it were dreams and the rest were a sex journal of her and her boyfriend. It turns out that:

- She loves anal sex

- She has fucked on my bed and found it hilarious

- Sex on the dining room table and they didn't wipe it down because it was 'hot' to have everything left over on the table

- Sex in the back yard on the lounge chair where I read and play 3DS (this one is super what the fuck. We don't have a privacy fence and all the neighbors can see our back yard. And there is literally no place to put the chair that would be hidden from sight.)

- She is a big fan of period sex

- The next planned sexcapade is to be when I'm home and her and her boyfriend are going to gag each other so they don't make noise.

Man, I can't even say anything about this because then she'll be all like why'd you read my diary you fucker. I knew my one sister was a little bit crazy... but to hear that my littlest sister is like this... fuck man. I should have never opened that diary. Why'd she have to fuck on my bed tho. God dammit.

I'm sorry, but you kind of deserve to be haunted by the creepy thoughts of your sister fucking on your bed. You should never touch anyone's diary! Ever!