I would agree that the tech isn't ready for prime-time just yet, but I can't relate to your lack of presence. For me, the first time wearing VR was pretty mind blowing experience, just the PSVR demo disk menu made my jaw drop, seeing that virtual controller hovering there in what felt like an infinite vastness of space around me.
Sounds like you did the right thing in saving your money, but I wouldn't let one experience sour you to it. Did you have time to properly calibrate everything, and have headphones in?
Yeah. Good headphones, calibrated, all that.
I just feel like.... I always get immersed in games. I remember having a 6 hour session of Metroid Prime, and when I took off the headphones I had no idea whose house I was in. I felt like I had been to Tallon IV and come back to earth. I was
there. I had to stumble around and find the lights to know where I was (my own college dorm room). That's the honest truth... I had lost myself. And I've always been that way.
So, to my surprise, my reaction to both VR experiences was simply 'Huh, I can move the camera with my head.' That was it. I feel like I forget about the controller and TV screen so totally when I'm gaming that the fact that the screen was stuck to my face wasn't such a big deal. That's the only way I've been able to rationalise how little an effect it had on me.
I was on this platform on 'the climb', and I immediately stepped off it into mid air because the visuals just weren't good enough to convince my brain. I would have been more immersed with better visuals and resolution on a normal TV, and that was my
instantaneous feeling, and it persisted. It was weird.