NYCmetsfan
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I dunno why you gave up on changing people's opinions apk. While you haven't ever changed mine, you've sometimes shown me sides of my opinions that i hadn't adequately explored, and that's pretty decent by itself. Same goes for benj.
I worded that poorly last night. I'm not against debating and tryin to change peoples minds but I really used to get frustrated when people dug in. I'm just more aware how people come to change their mind. Form reading about physiology to personal experience.
I just better understand that the person has to be earnestly interested in examining their views. I'm not just gonna lay the truth smack-down and have them see the light. So I've toned down responding to every posts when its gets into the weeds and leads no where. Nothings going to change there, the person is set in their ideas.
I don't think debates are bad and I try to change peoples minds all the time (especially in my daily life and in person where its much easier to have a back and forth and empathize with the persons concerns which is the best way to change minds) but I'm not evangelical in the same way I probably used to be.
I used to get into hour long back an fourths that went no where. That's what I ment I stopped. If the conversation is going to be useful ill engage, if not? I'll walk away, I'm not gonna change that persons mind.
That' why I do engage in here a lot more than OT. I know there is some good faith and attempt to engage.
So what has changed your minds about things politically, if anything ever has?
I'd say the "supply side jesus" comics were huge in moving me from a Ron Paul follower to solid progressive, and I honestly wouldn't be vegan today if not for vegans constantly winning internet arguments with logic and facts.
I do wonder if as I move into my 30s and 40s if I'll be so informed about so many arguments and facts that it'd take an impossible amount of new arguments and facts to topple my current beliefs no matter how correct those beliefs are, but there's still probably a 17 year old out there still undecided on such things, reading these internet arguments, and forming opinions off the ones that make the most sense.
I think people can have their mind changed and I'm not against doing that but its through empathy that it happens. Message boards and logic aren't really conducive to that as much.
And I think while logic and facts might be good for somepeople its not really true for most. I'm not against engaging but like I said I'll back out when I sense its going to be a boring fact off.