Roy you
don't agree with Waffle given how often you've jokingly shaded her or poked fun at something she's done.
You know, when you post stuff like this in relation to
how you define what a "stan" is, it makes you look ridiculous. Bladenic is right. This is not that serious.
You are doing the equivalent of saying "You can't call yourself a fan of a sports team if you ever make fun of them!!1!!" and then when someone disagrees with such a prima facie ridiculous definition, you say "lolol u mad i'm not lowering my standards!!1"
"Stanning" as it is used here has never referred to much more than a more emotionally invested form of being a fan. That's it. If
you think that means never ever saying anything bad about them, have a cookie. Good for you. You don't get to arbitrarily decide that when someone else refers to himself as a stan, that that is what they mean.
And don't say a thing to me about definitions. It is a made-up meme word on the Internets; it does not have an Official Definition in the first place.