Also, any drummers here? I want to start learning but don't really know what would be a good starter kit or anything.
Been a drummer for 20 years. I'd say you want to figure out whether you actually want to have a drumset around first. They're notoriously hard to sell!
As for what to buy, well, sound is the most important property. So you will have to go to a shop and find a kit with a good sound.
You should take a drummer along with you. If you actually want to get somewhere with it, you're gonna have to get a teacher; take that guy.
Quality usually isn't a big issue with common kit manufacturers. There are some weakpoints that frequently annoy buyers, like bad screw quality or whatever, but you can fix basically anything with a bit of effort. Like, I just restored a kit that's 60 years old like a month ago. It had a snare that had the screw holdings literally ripped out of the wood, so that thing was fucked (bummer too, as it was a Ludwig snare), but everything else did what it's supposed to after a good shine. That with rusted screws, slight warping of the base and shit. So what I'm saying is you'll probably be fine.
You could also buy a used set, but in that case, you NEED to take a drummer with you because you won't be able to figure out if there's anything wrong with it.
I want to explicitly mention that you might want to think about investing in a good rack once you know you're gonna be playing drums for the rest of your life. Hanging the toms on the base sucks in a number of ways. And cymbal stands need a lot of space for the foot. So a rack helps there. But get a kit together first, you can always buy a rack later.
Also, e-drums are pretty expensive, but totally worth it from my point of view. Sure, you're not gonna have the visceral experience that is banging on a drumkit, but down the line, you'll be thankful you didn't kill your ears with a Pearl set you could've bought on a whim instead because it was so loud and stuff. Your ears are fucking fragile as shit, so be careful with them. But the prices for good e-drumkits are astronomical, and cheap ones will be awful for actual practicing, so either you're rich or you're gonna get a wooden kit of some sort.
Just go to a shop and check out some kits, kick the bases, hit the snares, to get a feel for what kind of a sound range you have to deal with. And again, be sure you want to actually have a kit around for the rest of your life. It's a big deal. Women usually hate having them in the house, for example. You can't expect neighbours to tolerate a beginner playing in a poorly sound-proofed cellar. You need to make sure you have a dry environment if you're buying a wooden kit. You need to make the space, and have an appropriate room (not too big, lots of stuff lying around so that it doesn't echo).
Not sure if any of that is helpful, but, you know, curb your enthusiasm is what I'm saying here.