Yeah, obviously no one should be 'forced' to play or watch or read something they don't want to. But I've seen too many "Why doesn't this have X" only to have that appear later on. I feel you need to have a whole picture, so you can fully understand the effect anything early on has. To some extent, this doesn't apply, of course. I don't feel that you should have to do every sidequest or read every book in a 14 book franchise before you can make a judgement. But it's more like I feel the only thing you can ever truly make judgement calls on is what you have gone through. If you finish a book halfway, you don't get to say the whole book makes no sense.
The joy of platinum games is mastering the combat. Without that...well, It's not that I wouldn't get anything out of it, but I'd rather get the full experience when I have the time to do so.
I agree with every single thing you just said.
As for TW101, that game, like all Kamiya directed games, is one difficulty harder than you think. It might be easier for the combat to click with you if you do it on Easy instead of Normal. Very Easy is effectively Automatic.
No one, unless there's a reason they can't play normally, should every play on Automatic. Back in the day (I'm still very young, so I should not be allowed to say that phrase, but I will) I played DMC4 for the first time. Now, that game is one of my favorite games, let alone character action games, of all time. It brought me into the genre and was like nothing I'd played before. Well, I'd played that game on Automatic (you can select it at any difficulty in that game) and when I got to the harder difficulties, I'd had a much more difficult time. Now, this sounds natural, but years later (it was bro-in-law's game and he sold it. He regrets it) I picked the game up again and played it without touching Automatic. Significantly easier time. Not by much, but at least I had control over all my moves. Automatic means less control. Less control = bad for this genre.