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Tinder (i.e., OkCupid meets Hot or Not)

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Izayoi

Banned
Nothing wrong with selfies... I rotate through selfies for my profile images all the time, has never had a negative impact on my matches.

Just make sure you're smiling! Doesn't matter how ugly your mug is, there's bound to be someone out there who has the hots for you.

http://abload.de/img/selfie01grk7p.jpg
http://abload.de/img/selfie035ckg0.jpg

Confidence shows, even through pictures. I get tons of matches every day, there's no secret to it. :>

Edit: If you have glasses, and you can get by without them, be sure to have at least one picture of you not wearing them. Appeal to as many audiences as possible.
 
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Sho_Nuff82

Member
I have a selfie as one of my pics. Here's my set:

Primary:
14618_10100386019575487_1002893469_n.jpg
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and 2-6:
https://scontent-a-lga.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t1.0-9/10006249_10100843911216967_93999077_n.jpg
https://scontent-a-lga.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t1.0-9/1656356_10100794619348267_1655592450_n.jpg
https://scontent-b-lga.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/t1.0-9/1379349_10100853731412217_1436090965_n.jpg
https://scontent-a-lga.xx.fbcdn.net...2_10100870256815177_3322687690793088868_n.jpg
https://scontent-a-lga.xx.fbcdn.net...111_653021978078221_8866622902058851929_n.jpg

I think it's a decent mix that shows me with and without glasses, with and without facial hair, my athletic side, my height (by contrast with my friends), and that I clean up reasonably well.

I get a lot of hits from self-proclaimed tall girls (5'8" and up) so I've got that going for me at least. Though I'm going on a date this Sunday with a tinder match who's 5'3" somehow.
 
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Matugi

Member
On that swipe right grind. I don't use it to talk to people, just to stroke my ego. Used to be selective but not anymore. Up to 30 matches, although very few of them actually go to my school (UNC).
 
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Pai Pai Master

Banned
It's kind of annoying when I get a match I'm really interested in and they end up being a few states away. I guess the app shows them in my location because they may have been active in Atlanta a few days ago but are no longer in the area?
 
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sun-drop

Member
Ive found it hit and miss, I created a second fb Page and uploaded some suggestive pics, and basically Dtf. met the first girl outsidevmy place and we just hooked up, and seen herca fair bit since, but think ive been ditched now... The fact im wondering says it all. The other one I met, I regret big time.


One question, the last online status, its fucked, ive been messaged plenty of times by people whos status says they havent been online in days, wtf?
 
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vdlow

Member
sun-drop said:
One question, the last online status, its fucked, ive been messaged plenty of times by people whos status says they havent been online in days, wtf?
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I used to think that the last seen was actually the last time the person swiped someone. But one day I woke up with a match, so it means the girl swiped me right overnight, but her last seen status was like a week ago.

So, yeah, it's fucked.
 
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Jetman

Member
So what's the argument for not putting up a picture of you and another female? Have a picture of me and one of my best friends (who happens to be female) that I like and would put up. Would someone really look at it and think, "oh he has a girlfriend/is married"?
 
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ndawgdrake

Member
Jetman said:
So what's the argument for not putting up a picture of you and another female? Have a picture of me and one of my best friends (who happens to be female) that I like and would put up. Would someone really look at it and think, "oh he has a girlfriend/is married"?
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Depends on the body language and how attractive she is.

Regardless, it would definitely hurt your Tinder game if you put it as your main picture.
 
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Jetman

Member
ndawgdrake said:
Depends on the body language and how attractive she is.

Regardless, it would definitely hurt your Tinder game if you put it as your main picture.
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Really? I just don't understand how. Why would me having an attractive female friend hurt my chances unless, the person on the other end swiping me feels threatened by a guy with a good friend of the opposite sex?
 
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Devolution

Member
Jetman said:
So what's the argument for not putting up a picture of you and another female? Have a picture of me and one of my best friends (who happens to be female) that I like and would put up. Would someone really look at it and think, "oh he has a girlfriend/is married"?
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I came across one where it was just dude + woman in every pic like he's trying real hard to come off not creepy for some reason.
 
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Deleted member 10571

Unconfirmed Member
This is harder than Dark Souls. Not sure if I like this game.
 
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Jetman

Member
Devolution said:
I came across one where it was just dude + woman in every pic like he's trying real hard to come off not creepy for some reason.
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Oh, yeah, I can see where that would be weird, especially if its the same other person in every pic. So as long as I don't go that route, I'm good right? Haha
 
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Devolution

Member
Jetman said:
Oh, yeah, I can see where that would be weird, especially if its the same other person in every pic. So as long as I don't go that route, I'm good right? Haha
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I dunno, I just wouldn't bother. Makes people wonder if you're trying to scope out threesomes.
 
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Pavaloo

Member
Been using this app with some mixed results. A lot of girls in my city treating this a full dating service, which is fine, just not what I was in for initially lol. Like girls who I wouldn't mind meeting, but want to do all the small talk via text - I'd much rather go get a drink and find out about a person by talking face to face.

Any helpful advice on profile pics? This is what my profile looks like now:

#1 http://i2.minus.com/ifOTPU6Pj77Vo.png
#2 http://i.minus.com/iFuBAqQFfCGar.png
#3 http://i.minus.com/iSCIIfakvG3ea.png
#4 http://i.minus.com/iBJAXKudtpp3c.png
#5 http://i.minus.com/ibgZmRIYZ1WfzP.png
 
Ultimadrago

Ultimadrago

Member
Izayoi said:
Nothing wrong with selfies... I rotate through selfies for my profile images all the time, has never had a negative impact on my matches.

Just make sure you're smiling! Doesn't matter how ugly your mug is, there's bound to be someone out there who has the hots for you.

http://abload.de/img/selfie01grk7p.jpg
http://abload.de/img/selfie035ckg0.jpg

Confidence shows, even through pictures. I get tons of matches every day, there's no secret to it. :>

Edit: If you have glasses, and you can get by without them, be sure to have at least one picture of you not wearing them. Appeal to as many audiences as possible.
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Goddess Izayoi~!

Izayoi said:
Short girls are the best.
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Agreed. Unfortunate that mostly taller girls take a liking to me. I mean, I don't have anything against taller girls, but they can't match the cuteness and "easy to sling around, get up against the wall" -ness of short gals.
 
Ultimadrago

Ultimadrago

Member
Someone got swiped right in my right-swipe bonanza last night and they texted asking "Just wondering. Why did you swipe right on me?"

They weren't very attractive to begin with, but that question weirded me out. Insta-blocked.
 
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Ken Masters

Banned
Decided to make a fake account with a male model pic, it's quite funny how I can say anything and they view it as charming and hilarious
 
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Pavaloo

Member
Jetman said:
I don't know, dude! You got pictures of other girls and guys with you. They might think you're in for a threesome or foursome!
:p
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haha dang those are actually the pictures i'm worried about! i hope no one thinks i'm into dogs either :p
 
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Sho_Nuff82

Member
Strangest thing just happened. Chatted with a girl a few days ago, she lives about 40 miles west so we kind of left it at she'll call me the next time she's in Boston.

I'm checking my fb just now and my ex ex ex gf from 7 years ago posts a picture of her lunch group (RA training at the school she works at). Guess who the first person is lined up at the table?

At first I think, "Wait a minute, this girl told me she has a twin, maybe it's just her sister?" But her sister lives near me, and the check in was at a restaurant, you guessed it, 40 miles west. And the ring on her finger (not that finger) matched her tinder pic. I look at my ex's profile, and she's recently changed jobs... to the same school this girl is going to grad school at.

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Is there any way me dating/screwing a friend 8 years younger than her (and prob +2 in looks) doesn't end in bitter tears somehow?
 
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skybald

Member
Jetman said:
Really? I just don't understand how. Why would me having an attractive female friend hurt my chances unless, the person on the other end swiping me feels threatened by a guy with a good friend of the opposite sex?
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Because they don't know you or the girl, thus they don't know anything about your relationship. Just get a better, single picture of yourself.
 
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potam

Banned
Sho_Nuff82 said:
Strangest thing just happened. Chatted with a girl a few days ago, she lives about 40 miles west so we kind of left it at she'll call me the next time she's in Boston.

I'm checking my fb just now and my ex ex ex gf from 7 years ago posts a picture of her lunch group (RA training at the school she works at). Guess who the first person is lined up at the table?

At first I think, "Wait a minute, this girl told me she has a twin, maybe it's just her sister?" But her sister lives near me, and the check in was at a restaurant, you guessed it, 40 miles west. And the ring on her finger (not that finger) matched her tinder pic. I look at my ex's profile, and she's recently changed jobs... to the same school this girl is going to grad school at.

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

Is there any way me dating/screwing a friend 8 years younger than her (and prob +2 in looks) doesn't end in bitter tears somehow?
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how serious was it? I mean it was 7 years ago
 
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Izayoi

Banned
Jetman said:
So what's the argument for not putting up a picture of you and another female? Have a picture of me and one of my best friends (who happens to be female) that I like and would put up. Would someone really look at it and think, "oh he has a girlfriend/is married"?
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It's just bad ju-ju. Don't do it!

If you have a picture of you with girls, make sure it's in a social setting and that it's obvious you aren't together.

It just weirds some people out - I have the same thought whenever I see a girl with a guy in a photo.

richardhawk said:
Anyone else from the LA area been matched with this girl? Word of advice she wants her boyfriend to watch everything goes down.
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Woah, that's fucking awesome. Haven't encountered anyone that freaky yet.

Ultimadrago said:
Goddess Izayoi~!

Agreed. Unfortunate that mostly taller girls take a liking to me. I mean, I don't have anything against taller girls, but they can't match the cuteness and "easy to sling around, get up against the wall" -ness of short gals.
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Tall girls are good too! :>

Something about short girls just makes me crazy, though... It's not even the fact that they're easier to throw around... I don't really know how to describe it.

Bufbaf said:
Profile http://i5.minus.com/jN6h04AVfwhQ.jpg[IMG]

others:
[url]http://i2.minus.com/idY5ev8A7ZRNI.jpg[/url]
[url]http://i5.minus.com/jI7iw8U5I1jbT.jpg[/url]
[url]http://i5.minus.com/jb1xO64wtV4nHB.jpg[/url]
and some other random group shot I can't find on my pc anymore.

Why am I even posting this.

Not even using it to find the love of my life, just because it's kinda fun (in theory) :)[/QUOTE]
If you're just looking to have sex, lose the cigarette. It's a huge turn off for a lot of girls. I smoke on occasion but I don't put pictures of it on any of my social media. It's a big stigma.
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