Jesus. What the hell just happened?
Just started using this tonight, how long did it take for you guys to get responses? Nothing yet, but honestly, I'm not expecting much if anything :/
ABANDON SHIPJesus. What the hell just happened?
Honestly, I've been on for a little over a month with only two likes. Others have likes in the double digits from only a week or so of being on. I'd say 2-4 weeks may be the sweet spot for people to start seeing and liking you. Any longer may be a call for a change in what photos you have up or a touch up of your blurb.
... Uh. So something weird happened. I was having a pretty decent (from my perspective at least) conversation with someone all day. A few minutes ago, though, I got a notification, opened it, and didn't find anything new there. I switched to LTE to reset the connection and suddenly all the messages got wiped. I tried closing it and opening it, and she was gone.
... lol, did I just get blocked? I didn't say anything offensive so I'm not really sure what could have caused that.
Just started this tonight. I looked up dos and donts but I'm having problems with finding pictures of me without other girls. I don't take a lot myself and nothing that I would want on Tinder. I just zoomed on me for a couple and left one or two the way they are. The other thing is I read that you shouldn't put anything in your 'About Me' section. What do you peeps think? I'm pretty good with words but I saw a couple girls on here that I swiped left because their 'About Me' was try-hard. I feel like leaving it blank might be a good thing to start off. Haven't gone public except for about 2 minutes where I was swiping. About to pull the trigger...
WISH ME LUCK
<---p.s. Not using my avi. Haha.
Edit: I got a match! I have no idea what etiquette is now. Plzhalp.
Is it bad that I'm not single and not looking, but I'd like to try Tinder, simply because it looks fun?
Been on this app a few days, it's awesome and got some conversations going but mostly I don't know how to get them really going.
I begin with "Hi, how're you doing?"
and they usually respond with "I'm great how about you!?"
Then I don't know what to say.
And how long until you ask somebody out?
Yeah I do do that for those who have info, but so many don't have anything.read what limited information they put on their profile and use it to start a conversation.
This is why face first bio later dating doesn't work. (online anyway)
Jesus. What the hell just happened?
I've gotten quite a few matches with tinder, but less than half seem to respond to messages. I'll usually lead with a "how's it going?" and get no reply.
Or the ones that do respond are like one word answers. "How's it going" "good" and then no effort to keep the convo going. I mean, what's the point in swiping right with no interest?
If the person you're attempting to chat with has a bajillion matches, and half of them start out asking them "How's it going", then you don't stand out very much.
Fair point. I'm a terrible conversation starter.
As an experiment you can try to go all out YOLO and open with something funny/interesting/crazy and then see where that gets you.
This happens to me but mostly with much younger chicks. Maybe they're not interested in chit-chat and really are just DTF and expect sex talk right away?I've gotten quite a few matches with tinder, but less than half seem to respond to messages. I'll usually lead with a "how's it going?" and get no reply.
Or the ones that do respond are like one word answers. "How's it going" "good" and then no effort to keep the convo going. I mean, what's the point in swiping right with no interest?
You think that's bad? Try three weeks.Tinder is a fantastic way to determine how ugly you are.
48 hours and no matches.
Aside from bots.
Lol, thank god I don't have depression or I'd be fuuuucked