ViewtifulJC
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I think there's an app for that.
Like a Tinder who people who just want friends.
Fair point!
Those guys who think they're kings might do well on tinder and they might not. In my experience though, that behavior is usually a result of poor socialization with women and doesn't really result in women wanting to be with them because it's try hard. If a guy is try hard in real life, he's undoubtedly a try hard online. I can imagine a guy like that sending a message on tinder asking for nudes or sending a dick pic right out the gate. He might get a bite now and then, but I doubt they're as successful as you think, and Tinder will show them the reality of the situation.
One thing being missed here is this I think, the so called privileged men, ie, tall, good looking white dudes, their self-esteem really aren't being destroyed. They are still the alpha dogs. So certain posters that are deriving pleasure from this topic are missing the point I think.
Seems like average to ugly looking guys of all color, and heights are the ones who are getting snubbed. The privileged men are still privileged, and they probably are too busy hooking up to care about random angsty forum posters? Don't you think?
Learn how to dance so you can grind on random people at a party/club/bar which naturally leads to a brief conversation where you get her name and number. LOL
IMO Part of that nice guy cry comes from guys hollering at women out of their league.
Or don't do that at all.
Try dancing while white bruhSo uptight.
I think most people don't know, which complicates things. LOL Sometimes it's so painfully obvious though.
It's called BumbleI think there's an app for that.
Like a Tinder who people who just want friends.
Eh, hookups can be boring sometimes especially when their not difficult to get, so that may not necessarily be true.
He's being facetious, genius
Tinder is not only designed for meeting and fucking it's also designed around the idea of physical attraction and making you feel good. If you don't think Tinder isn't designed around making you feel good (getting a like, or the mere existence of super likes, maxing likes in a day). Tinder has made hooking up so easy, and because it's so easy you need a hook. The hook is the ego boost that the app itself gives that makes hooking up so easy. Otherwise people wouldn't use it. I don't think you have properly thought out what meeting and fucking does. Do you think people are going to feel like it's a neutral thing? No. Pyschogically, people who use Tinder as it's designed will come away with a positive experience informed by the positive feelings they gain for using the app. Tinder is *the* ego boost.
He's being facetious, genius
Maybe this is mostly an american thing but I have never bought into the whole league idea, why in fucks name would I put anyone on a pedestal?
Try dancing while white bruh
So uptight.
Please.
One thing being missed here is this I think, the so called privileged men, ie, tall, good looking white dudes, their self-esteem really aren't being destroyed. They are still the alpha dogs. So certain posters that are deriving pleasure from this topic are missing the point I think.
Seems like average to ugly looking guys of all color, and heights are the ones who are getting snubbed. The privileged men are still privileged, and they probably are too busy hooking up to care about random angsty forum posters? Don't you think?
It's designed to meet and fuck, the ego boost is just secondary; it's a natural result of hooking up with people. Still, I never really heard of anyone feeling good when they swipe left.
Well you sound as if you've never been to a party and danced with a stranger.
IMO Part of that nice guy cry comes from guys hollering at women out of their league.
I've been to plenty of parties and clubs where I had to help people I was with get male strangers who were grinding on our friends to fick off, very much uninvited and unwanted grinding btw.
In my experience, nice guy cry is mostly dudes that don't know how to express interest in women and/or don't know how to recognize if a girl likes them.
I don't really begrudge it, as it's not always super intuitive unless you are around women a lot.
Ok and? Why do you always make it black or white? As if there weren't other women who reciprocated and danced with other dudes who were grinding on them. Don't you think there's a reason this phonema happens?
Eh. I think you're taking my posts about that too literal. And I did get the ego boost from tinder's base design. When I swiped right I would usually get a like back already. So it was constant positive reinforcement. Swiping left made me feel powerful. So I definitely got that kind of enjoyment out of it combined with getting a match with almost person I liked. The ego thing is built into Tinder's basic design.
Question though: Did you mean grind on ramdom people as in walk on the dance floor and just start grinding on women or did you mean meet a girl at a club and then mutually agree to dance together which would entail grinding.
My interpretation was the first. Hence my replies.
Your interpretation was right. LOL
I like you. Want to go out?
This is not rocket science man.
See my edit before I continue this conversation.
I just mean, whether or not the conversation is going that way or not. Whether she wants you to kiss her or whatever.
It's easy if you give no fucks about the outcome, but for most people it's nowhere near as straightforward as you make it sound.
If you can't figure out literally anyway else. Then yes that's the answer.
Defaulting to "nice guy" is not acceptable.
I went to hang out with a couple of guys a week ago, and we went to some bars. These places were very loud and crowded for a Thursday night.
Boy oh boy it's a lot easier to talk and get girls numbers places like that than online dating. Even making out, too.
Then no. Don't do that.
Jesus.
100%.
If you can't figure out literally anyway else. Then yes that's the answer.
Defaulting to "nice guy" is not acceptable.
Like no kidding. I three way kissed two girls, and this other girl. Woo LAWD. I wasn't sure if the guy she was with was her bf, but I asked if I could kiss her, and if it'd be alright with her presumably bf. She says something to him, and we kissed. She was eying me down when she first walked in.
Of course when you're in a bar, it helps being tall, ok looking, and dressed nice.
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Wait.Your interpretation was right. LOL
I think there's an app for that.
Like a Tinder who people who just want friends.
Such a blanket statement that's ultimately worthless, at least towards me. How are you going to tell me not to do a social interaction that I've been successfully doing for over a decade as well as my friends. As somebody that's partied for over a decade in all the hot spots in Atlanta, annually partying in other major cities from Miami to Las Vegas and everywhere in between; I've had to have danced with over hundreds of different women that were strangers. And I don't recall ever asking even one, if they would like to dance. And the worst part of it? They enjoyed it... Oh the horror.
Quit thinking all rules apply to everybody equally because of your limited world perspective or experiences.
95% of GAF.
But . . . it will take time away from my GAF time.I think there's an app for that.
Like a Tinder who people who just want friends.
Only anime women excite you nowadays, I assume?
The other avenue that post leads to is... normal women don't excite me anymore. I have very particular interests...
Don't pay attention to him. You were there and obviously knew what was and wasn't appropriate.
Such a blanket statement that's ultimately worthless, at least towards me. How are you going to tell me not to do a social interaction that I've been successfully doing for over a decade as well as my friends. As somebody that's partied for over a decade in all the hot spots in Atlanta, annually partying in other major cities from Miami to Las Vegas and everywhere in between; I've had to have danced with over hundreds of different women that were strangers. And I don't recall ever asking even one, if they would like to dance. And the worst part of it? They enjoyed it... Oh the horror.
Quit thinking all rules apply to everybody equally because of your limited world perspective or experiences.
She...
Wait.
That works for real? I've never done that. There's always been some type of invitation, a head nod, or big smile. Damn...I'll be trying that in a couple months I think.
*Incoming thread about my black eye.
Anyways, for the league talk, I have no fear shooting out of my league. Sure she'll most likely say no, which is fine, I ain't mad, my ugly ass don't have any business up in that any how. But on the off chance they say yes, jack pot! So as long as you don't get mad and realize the odds are stacked against you, I firmly believe in trying to get to the next level.
Her reaction:This person would faint if him/her were to go to a Jamaican party!
Yeah random grinding is pretty much our default settingIf you can make it work, sure. And I'm talking about no signs whatsoever, women in the middle of the dance floor dancing by themselves, and me and my homeboys coming right behind and dancing with them. They typically look back, approve of what they see and continue dancing, sometimes even start breaking you off something. Now obviously I wouldn't recommend this to just anybody. However it helps if you look decent, smell decent, and can actually dance. I'm also 6'1 so I'm certain that plays a part on first impressions.
That's the type of spirit you need to have for shooting for a woman out of your league.
Her reaction: